Yea, we have to pretty much do evening attempts too, with kids....I know what you mean. Sperm count is higher in the morning, that's why that's recommended. I know some gals who woke up at like 5am to dtd so they had time to lay there before the storm of children decended upon them. I, personally, cannot even *think* of having sex at that absurd hour....I am so not a morning person. I think you should do what you guys are most comfortable with, ya know?