I'm 5 weeks now and can still say I would like the surprise... I am surprisingly not obsessed about the gender yet
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I'm 5 weeks now and can still say I would like the surprise... I am surprisingly not obsessed about the gender yet
I was team green till my 12 week scan as soon as i saw my baby i knew i needed to know
We will be finding out but not telling anyone IRL - just you guys on here! We have always found out, I am so bad with surprises that I just have to know!!
I didn't find out with either of my boys and with DS2 I had convinced myself he was a girl. While I was overjoyed with him when he was in my arms, it took me a while to get used to him being anther boy. If I am honest I think it was other people telling me he was a girl that made me think he was and added to my GD.
This time I will find out but will not be telling anyone. They can speculate to their hearts content and I will play along but will know in my heart what my baby is.
I have my NT scan on Thursday and with my last baby they offered to tell me his sex. We refused as DH didn't want to know but if they offer again, I think we will say yes and take their professional guess.....
Getting really nervous already!!
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I had really bad GD with DS2 when we found out at the 20 week ultrasound. I had myself so convinced that he was a girl!! Now I have myself convinced this baby is a boy so I don't think it will be that bad however, I still want to find out so I can deal with whatever GD I am going to have (which I am sure will be plenty) and then can fully enjoy the day he comes. I am afraid that if I wait until he is born it might send me into some postpartum crazy depression or something. Way too many hormones crashing for me after delivery:) Plus, if I am upset at all at the birth my DH will probably loose it on me since I convinced him I just wanted a third baby and that I didn't care about gender:)
Anyone else Or anyone changed their minds ? ha ha ha
I think I'm changing my mind... I don't think I can do it lol
Definitely finding out and actually I cant wait to know for sure :) Im not good at surprises I can never wait, Im one of those who just HAVE to know! I found out with my other 2 boys too. But I say if this baby is a girl and I get pregnant again (which is unlikely as we say this baby is defo the last baby no matter what) I would not find out then as Its actually very exciting to have a delivery surprise!
All of mine have been surprises so far I think thats why im torn as I have nothing to compare it to