Do you tell people you have a HT child?

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Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink

Are you planning on going HT, N? We have a large group of Internationals here that come to the States for HT. Most post in the private forums though.

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Yes we are planning on going to cyprus for HT. How do I get acsess to the other forum? Do I have to pay?

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Originally Posted by norwegian

Yes we are planning on going to cyprus for HT. How do I get acsess to the other forum? Do I have to pay?

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You have to become a Dream Member. It is $12 annually.

Right now, we have 9 people cycling and 3 FETs coming up. It's pretty busy. We have stickies for each cycler so you may follow along and there stored so you can read through and catch up or research if you like.

We have an Embryologist available to ask questioins and 2 doctors you may post questions to if you are a Member.

i'm not sure i'd want to tell anyone if I am lucky enough to get a bfp i'd want to just to be all my news i've got such negative comments off family about having more children that tbh I don't want to say

I just found out I am pregnant on the first try with IVF/PGD! And I only told one friend and my sister. Both of them was like "what ever makes you happy", but they would not do it... they say! My friend have two daughters and REALLY wanted girls and my sister ont have kids yet.
I feel weird about getting all the comments I know will come when people find out the sex of this one. Guess I will just smile...

I def won't. I believe it will come back and haunt my other kids. They need to be protected KWIM ?

We have only told my parents, DH parentsand family definitely would not understand.

I have told a close girlfriend and i know she has not told her DH.

Since I've had a bfp it's weird I'm so excited I almost want to tell everyone... but I don't, I'm sure it wouldn't be wise. There are too many people who love to gos sip and be judgemental, they could never understand what this means to us, I'm sure they'd belittle it all and make out its as simple as shopping to us! They could never understand the deep profound longing and GD and depression that we've been through to get to this stage that we would try such extreme measures

We told everyone. And have had heaps of support. My view is the more that know the more "normal" it will become and then if wont be frowned uppond as much but you will always get your extremest.

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Originally Posted by erinhen

We also have told no one and we never will tell anyone. Only DH and I will know. I never want my boys to find out and wonder if we didn't love them enough or if they weren't enough. I never want anyone to treat my daughter differently because she was conceived under different circumstances and for different reasons. I never want anyone thinking that I didn't feel blessed enough with my two boys... Because that isn't it at all... But so many people just do not understand. So, we have decided to tell no one, and oddly, it isn't that hard to keep it a secret so far.

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Exactly exactly exactly. I absolutely love and adore my two monkeys and it's not about NOT wanting boys- I just really want a girl as well. But I would never want my boys to wonder if I wasn't happy with two boys. Never. Can you imagine while you were growing up if you found out your younger sibling was conceived through insane amounts of money, energy, time, and emotional roller coasters?? Of course you would feel terrible about it- even if your parents tried to explain it to you, you would still always wonder. Nope- my boys deserve to never question my love for them!!

We've told my family and a bunch of my close friends. Nothing but support from everyone. Do I wish so many people didn't know? A little. But I was going through a hard decision-making process and really needed to run ideas by my friends who I trust. Ah well, we're moving overseas in July so the info won't follow us. :-)