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Oh YES i get super jealous! I hate feeling like this:hair: I have 6 boys so imagine hearing boy after boy after boy after boy after boy after boy. When friends/family/or even women i do not know that i see out with a few boys(i am not trying to offend anyone on here) then i see that baby girl i just wanna scream WHY NOT ME!!! I get so sick to the stomach jealous! Sometime i feel like they are rubbing it in my face like HA HA I got my girl and not you :mad:
Oh and i do not understand when i notice women that have at least 1 girl and get all mad cause they want another girl but end up with a boy like my sister. OMG i would die to be in their shoes they just do not know how lucky they are to have a chance to experience having at least 1 daughter!
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6BlueWant1Pink- I bet that is so hard, I feel like that with having two boys!
Have you swayed for any of your previous pregnancies?
I some times feel that people even strangers must look at me and think that I must really want a daughter and feel sorry for me.
You really do deserve a little girl. Are you currently pregnant or TTC?
Xxx
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No, you certainly aren't the only one. I feel awful when I feel jealousy or resentment towards friends who have a girl, but the thoughts of "why them and not us" do float across my mind. This time I went into it just sure we're going to have boy #4, so if somehow we end up with a girl they'll need the smelling salts to bring me back to!
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Retrolove1 Yes i did sway with my 6th child. But i did a lot of the sway stuff (from another site) i had learned. Which really in fact swayed boy i later learned after having him. I hope you get your girl. I think you have a way better chance than me. Well i tell every women that who has less boys than me.
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I felt like this, but it's got a lot better since I had DS2. I could never imagine I would have two boys so when I found out DS2 was a boy, I was in shock. How could I love another boy just as much as I love his brother? But the day he was born was def the best day of my life, along with the day his older brother was born. A baby is a baby and they were all miiiine! Okay also a little bit DH's babies ;) But I don;t care anymore who has a girl and who has a boy. Because they are not my babies and my babies are so perfect I almost feel sorry for other people their kids are not as awesome as mine :giggle:
I also lost a daughter and after going through this hell on earth all I wanted was a healthy baby. And that is still all I want and hope for. BUT I do not feel complete without my girl. A sister for my angel and my boys. I hope we all get what we want, so we can feel peace. I really long for that feeling to know I have all I ever wanted.
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Dana-Alicia, you are totally spot on!
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I feel you 100% I'm the only person in the family that has all boys and every year my family gets together and do a family portrait with mother& daughters only and I can never participate:(
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:( ugh that makes me mad and sad!!
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That is awful, do they realise how hard that must be for you? X
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