Agree 110% - ladies, please understand that many fertility doctors view you thru the lens of "success with IVF y/n" and for IVF you need tons of eggs. We old birds can't lay that many at a time LOL so from the doctor's perspective that means we're good for nothing but the soup pot. :p
For natural conceptions, all you need is one egg. And we don't even need one every month, even if we only have 3-4 good eggs a year we can still get pg! We just gotta wait for the golden egg to show up and just like Nuthin says, we can't be doing tons of sway tactics that really reduce fertility. And this is esp. true for you trishy since your hubby has issues too.