Oh sticky dust being sent your way! I have to tell you, I never really had many symptoms with my pregnancies (successful or not). The only consistent "symptom" I had was fatigue and it didn't start until week 6 or 7.
I understand how hard it is to be in limbo....I'd be shopping around for someone who'd do the ultrasound earlier. But then again, in Canada, I have quite a few options. I'm not sure what it's like where you are. Once I figured out I didn't have to wait months to do it at the hospital, I could get in within a few days.
I'll be thinking of you! I hope all works out. And I hope you swatted DH for his no money comment! (not that I condone marital violence... but sometimes they really DO deserve it :P)
Keep us posted!
Angie