I think there was some worry about early termination due to sex within some cultures here... They go back and forth whether they will even tell us at the 18-20 week scan. Currently they will ask if you want to know, put it in the drs note and then you have to find out from your doctor...I assume the reasoning is the dr can decide if you are stable enough to know?!?
I'm not sure I have the will power. I am thinking I will get the tech to look and write it down so its available to me and I might sneak a peek...I think because I'm optimistic it's what I want to see... But if I'm wrong, I'll wish I hadn't so it's probably still not a good idea!!
I'm just sad that I won't get to do the nursery other then neutral and if it is a girl...it could be kinda fun! Would give me something to do as I'm obsessing over what it is!!!
I told my mom I was thinking about finding out and she really wants me to experience the surprise. But I told her I'm obsessing and that it's not the same when you have all of the same gender, it's overwhelmingly consuming for me esp now I sneaked a peek... I'd like to think of something else for the next 5 months rather than if it's a boy or girl. I'm such a freak lol!
