Am i being too picky and/or selfish

If you are selfish than I am beyond selfish!!! My first wasn't planned but he is a summer baby. My second was kind of planned and a fall baby. My third was fully planned and he is a spring baby and now ttc number 4 and that one is planned for a winter baby. I wanted 2-3 months in between all of them. I am nervous number 4 will try and defy my plans. So hoping I am pregnant right now or get it next month.

Thanks just fed up with people around me saying oh just go for it.don't even think about. If u keep thinking about it it won't happen.I'm like I need to do things so I can cope my way with things!
I started suffering with panic attacks when I was pregnant with my youngest which was by the way 8 year ago.lol. I thought they would go when he was born but they never did and I haven't had one for a while but I live in fear that it will creep up on me one day. So I am always anxious.

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Good news.my dh will be getting his redundancy!

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I'm so glad to hear your husband will be getting his redundancy!! I also think it absolutely isn't selfish to wait and try to plan things to the best you can. Why in the world would that be selfish? I always think anything you can do to help keep everyone in the family as emotionally happy and OK as possible is a good thing.

You are reading the stats wrong, as was mentioned in the other thread where it says "number of attempts" that meant the amount of times people had sex in the months they conceived. NOT the number of months it took to get pregnant. Hardly anyone has gotten pregnant the first month out unless they were doing a more relaxed sway to start with.

I agree with what Steph said, it is SUPER difficult to try to time conception. I really really did not want kids with two particular astrological signs and you'd think that with 10 other signs to choose from, I'd get lucky and that would occur (because I kind of was trying not to get pg in those months) but no, I ended up with one of each of the two signs I did not want.