Atomic it was a mixture of both this time. Someone made me feel inadequate and then I worked out a way out that was not a 100% win. It was more giving up some of my principles and choosing not to fight a fight in which I strongly beleive, in order to get something that I want for my family. I really have mixed feelings about it and am strongly thinking the situation swayed pink for me again. Having said that DD2 was conceived when I was feeling really good about myself at work, my job falls in the category of swaying boys under your Trivers Willard stuff. I have to be out there and agressive and winning all the time. So I don't know. I am hoping the diet will overcome this as I ate more this time despite feeling less hungry.