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daydrmbelievr, I am so very sorry for your loss. It is devastating to say the least. After my 1st miscarriage, I read a lot about them. I found it very helpful to read books about it. There are a lot on amazon. Here's a good one: I Never Held You. I also recommend telling supportive family and friends so that they can help you to grieve properly. Plus, you know who else around you has suffered a similar loss and is able to really support you through this horrible time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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I haven't experienced a molar pregnancy but I know I would be experiencing similar feelings. Not only are you dealing with a loss you're also dealing with all of the complications of a partial molar. There are some great forums for women going through exactly the same thing and I think that can be really helpful in times like these when no one understands. Big hugs to you.
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Im so sorry for your loss :-(
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So sorry for your loss. I lost a sway pregnancy last year and took some time out to recollect my thoughts. Please read up on it when you're ready so you can come to peace with it. Helped me alot to read this forum as well as others to know I wasn't alone as none of my RL friends have experienced losses.
Hugs x
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Im so sorry for your loss. :(
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I went through this in 2013. I had a beautiful baby at 8w4d with a strong heartbeat. At the 13 week check up, they could no longer find heartbeat. Called in the ultrasound machine, and I looked at my gorgeous, perfectly formed 12w2d (they guessed) baby. Just passed away....D&E ensued just a week later as I had no signs of miscarriage. Suspected molar pregnancy, followed blood tests for months to be sure I reached 0 and stayed at 0 for an entire month. I got pregnant LITERALLY 3 days after I was given the go ahead to try again (This was only 3 months after D&E).
Make sure you rest. Grieve. And if you can, take those supplements that help fertility and eat nutrient rich foods to recover physically. Emotionally it will take time. Even my new baby that is now here in my arms did not "replace" the one lost. I will be praying you are well, and take time to recover and heal!
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words as I know there are none that can heal this pain. After having an early m/c in April 2014, followed by a boy/girl twin pregnancy which resulted in losing our daughter at 25 weeks and giving birth to her "born sleeping" and her surviving twin brother just 2 weeks ago, I know the heartbreak all too well, especially as I am in the midst of preparing my angel daughters funeral.
No mother should have to lose a child and a loss is a loss whether it is early in pregnancy or through still birth or childhood. It is just not fair.
Thinking of you. x
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Just reading this now and am tearing up. I can feel your sadness and despair through the screen :( Hope you are doing better now and wish you a healthy pregnancy in a few months.
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I am so sorry for your loss xx