The cardinal rule of swaying is "if daddy ain't happy, ain't nobody happy". If he wants the FR then DO THAT. It is NOT worth it having an uncooperative hubby because then they start to rebel and say they are doing things (like abstain) when they aren't. :/
Don't mix BOTH the daily FR and then the hurry up FR (the release an hour before). Pick one or the other. Doing both cuts odds of conception too far and many husbands were not able to complete the transaction when they tried it. Even the ones who are sex machines had a heck of a time with that combo
again atomic thank you so much for being so helpful, ok great so do we know whether the girl results are higher with FR or the release an hour before? (apologise for so many questions)
None of the frequency patterns have stood out against any of the others. All of them were about the overall success rates of the site or even lower. (in other words, they don't seem to work). Keep the one attempt, that DOES seem to work.
thank you so ONE attempt then and would you say a day before pos opks so its roughly a 3 day cut off, so even thou my DH wont abstain is it still worth Fr but not not DTD or would you just forget about that part of it and carry on as usual?
I am not following your question, can you rephrase? Sorry.
If you fr it can be dtd/ pull out or solo or skip frequency and do j&d/ one attempt.f you are doing one attempt its usually at positive opk since you don't know what a day before is for a cutoff.
sorry I don't think I worded it properly I was just panicking as im not abstaining I thought that it may lower my chances. Ok so ill do one attempt once I get a pos opk which is usually cd 15-16 im on cd 8 and in the mean time as I think it is now to late for abstaining DH can frequent release if it wants to (solo) so that we are not having more than one attempt.
also I usually get a faint line a day or so before I get a strong positive so should I DTD when I get my faint line or wait until I get a strong line?
thank you
Yes many people just let DH "do what he does" and then have the one attempt.
Wait till your line is dark as or darker than the control line.