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I am really sorry for your loss trib, it is an awful thing to go through. I lost a baby a few months before conceiving my son and although at the time I was really upset, I would never have conceived my beautiful boy if fate had not gone the way that it did so please don't give up hope xx
I am not trying to start an argument or anything at all. Really. Especially in this kind of thread. I just do not want you feeling to blame for a loss that was in no way your fault, nor blaming things that had nothing to do with your loss. Wishing you the very best of luck moving forward with this.
My job on Gender Dreaming is both to offer support but also to keep information accurate as I possibly can. One way that I feel I can support people is by providing accurate information that enables them to stop blaming themselves for things that are in no way their fault.
I realize this may sometimes come off as argumentative and that is not my intent. I am trying to support you in my fashion, which is to give you the best info I have at my disposal (even if it disagrees with things that you may believe or that a doctor may claim) and also to enable you to get pregnant again more quickly hopefully wiht your desired gender (even when that disagrees with sway tactics that you may believe in.) I don't mean to be harsh, abrasive, etc etc. and do wish you the very best of luck moving forward in the future.