I am in the same boat as you! We get pregnant very easily but we got a BFN last cycle as well. Pretty sure I drowned my swimmers with rephresh and sylk. I think I'm dropping the rephresh this month. It creates white clumps and I'm not sure how in the world ANYTHING would make it through clumps. I am adding Zyrtec this month bc last month my positive OPK came WAY early so I never had a chance to take it. So I'm dropping rephresh and adding Zyrtec. Of course keeping my one attempt at positive OPK which I'm hoping will be here in the next two days!! If it goes as planned we will have 4-6 day abstain. My DH is 37 so I was too scared to let him go much longer. Healthy baby over anything else!!! Best of luck to you!!

