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Sadly this pregnancy did not last. I miscarried and had a D & C.
I have just found out that it was a BOY and also that it had Trisomy 16 - hence the miscarriage.
There is that old saying 'everything happens for a reason' - even if we don't like the reason, I guess it is right. :sadflwr:
I was trying again, but as I am a bit taken aback about the results, I am not so sure now.... We will see xox
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So sorry this happened Immi. Your sway was awesome too! I'm not sure you could have done anything different. In the end it just comes down to whichever sperm makes it first and we really can only do our best to change the odds. Big hugs honey xx. You want to do HT?
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Thanks Covered xox I actually have already done HT back in March :( I got 5 eggs, they all fertilised but none made it to testing. I am worrying that those 5 eggs were no good, and now this one.... Not sure if I should tempt fate again. I don't want to give up, but I don't think I could do another miscarriage either.
I know, my sway was so solid, there really isn't much else I could of done. I have stopped the cardio as I found it very hard and time consuming. I actually got my 1st clomid script filled today and need to start it today if I am going to ttc this month... I feel like my head is spinning with what to do. Maybe I really am best at boys :bluesperm:
I'm thankful for you ladies on here to be around to help out with advice and any knowledge that you can pass on xox
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Xo Immi
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So sorry for your loss! Hope you find comfort in the coming days and clarity on what to do next!
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Oh Immi, what shocking news that must have been... Whatever you decide, we are here for you.... ((Hugs)) xoxo
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Thanks Ash xox
I was very shocked about the Trisomy 16 part - I wasn't really shocked about the boy part though - the 5th time I have heard 'boy', so I am kind of used to that :/
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I'm so so sorry for your loss Immi. What a shock that must have been. I think you should do whatever you feel is right in your heart. Please take some time for yourself and allow yourself to heal before stressing too much about what to do next. You may have a clearer idea about what is right for you after a few weeks have past. (((HUGS)))
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I'm so incredibly sorry Immi, that this had happened! Be kind and gentle with yourself. You and your DH will soon know what the next steps should be. Know that we are all here for you!!!
Huge hugs!!
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