I'll be taking 2000 mcg since I am 36. It's what my OB recommends.
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I'll be taking 2000 mcg since I am 36. It's what my OB recommends.
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
Xxforhubby - good on you. So will I if I go through with another attempt. I've been up and down lately and the prospect of another pregnancy and experiencing another miscarriage gets me quite anxious. I think it's also because my immune system has been low and I've been stuck with this throat virus I can't get rid of.
Try Honey and fresh pineapple for your throat. Works way better than actual medicine.
(see our advice isn't just limited to swaying around here ;))
This always works the best for me!! I've been doing this for years, thanks to my grandma!Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], DS3[emoji170][emoji577][emoji843][emoji602][emoji170] Jan. '16 I'll sway for a DD[emoji166][emoji171][emoji166] for my DH!!
Will give it a go. Thanks. My friend had her baby on Saturday. I was very happy for her but sad for myself at the same time knowing I won't be experiencing the joy of childbirth again probably. She had a boy after two girls and two days prior to her having it I had dreamt that she would have a boy. Two weeks before my miscarriage I woke up disturbed after I dreamt of a blood-soaked pad. I pushed it aside and ignored it at the time and 2 weeks later I have the miscarriage. It's not the first time I've had dreams or feelings that have actually happened. I think I am also on such a downer because DH and I are sooooo on different pages. I am still sad about the miscarriage, whereas he has just swept in under the carpet and moved on. Plus I am wanting to make one last try in a few months time and I know he will still be adamant about not wanting to try again. So I'm stuck between a rock and a very hard place really. The only thing I can think of is to just start the diet and taking my sups and pray for some sort of miracle. I just find it soo frustrating that he was excited when I got pregnant and sad when I miscarried, yet again he says no for trying one last time for a 4th (because he believes he already lacks patience with the 3 we already have). He is being a selfish pig and won't even meet me halfway with any sore of compromise. I have even offered my approval for his vasectomy after this last pregnancy, amongst other things, and still his answer is no.
Guys don't get it. It isn't the same for them as it is for us and expecting it to be is akin to expecting a lion to become a vegetarian.
My heart breaks for you 1moregirl because I so totally understand what you're going through. I really, truly think that those of us in this generation (in our 40's right now) were sold a bill of goods about postponing childbearing and being "good girls playing by the marriage rules". Expecting that our partners wanted the same things we did out of life because that was always how it was portrayed in the media - the men who seemed so happy and delighted when their wives got pregnant - I know they do exist but they are certainly few and far between, it seems. But we truly believed that if we just waited for "the bigger house, till I finish school, till the kids are older, till the bills are paid" then it would all happen because we played by the rules and sacrificed in the short term for our husband's desires. Especially in Generation X. :/ What I think we have to accept is that the "truth" that was told to us when we were girls and young women in the 70's and 80's isn't what the actual reality is. Honestly, thank goodness that we do have our families because there are so many of our compatriots the same age who hung on waiting for a guy just to marry them in the first place and it never happened. :/
Yes Atomic. That is soooo true. Bloody men! I just received my lost 10 week scan in the mail from the hospital today from when we found out the baby had died in utero. I've been staring at it and staring at it. It really really looked like a baby shape at that stage. Has made me feel sooooo sad all over again. I keep wondering if I did something wrong or if I did get pregnant again would the same thing happen again? And I feel soooo angry. If my eggs are becoming too old and dodgy then why did I have to fall pregnant at all and then get to nearly the end of the first trimester only to lose it? I know....it could've been worse, but it still feels pretty bad. I would post a copy of my scan pic if I could.Attachment 27993
I know it seems so very unfair. I'm sorry. I don't have the answers and no one ever will, at least not in our lifetime.
Hugest ((((hugs))))....
Oh my God atomic u r such an inspiring speaker. I love u all ladies[emoji8]
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