Thank you so much xxforhubby for your reply. It's so hard not to obsess over the little things and I know alot of them are just wives tales.
I think the best thing we can do Boyzmommy is just asume they are boys until confirmed to avoid gd. It's so hard not to dream of a little girl though. I have three sisters, one has a boy, one has boy girl and the other three girls. I can imagine having a girl but really see myself as an all boy mummy. I hope I'm wrong.