Hey Nicole, no, no, I did not take it as you giving me heck at all! Although I wouldn't blame you if you did. I feel really stupid falling victim to that crap. I should have known better, especially knowing about all the garbage that's on the Internet. To answer your question, we are not finding out because my wife doesn't want to and she says if she can't find out m, I can't..lol I really do appreciate your help though. I feel like you actually know what you're talking about because you said the exact same thing all the other friendly and knowledgeable people said on other FREE sites. Also, it's my second baby. I have a baby girl and she is 15 months.