Anyone use SMEP and get a girl?

Thanks! ;) if you have other strategies in place that are more pink friendly, it won’t hurt your sway that much to try SMEP , it will only help you actually get pregnant – and remember that swaying just ups your odds of one gender, so lots is still out of our hands ;)
if you feel like you can wait a bit, worth doing what Atomic suggested or just a few months which is still very pink friendly and then maybe move on to a “light” SMEP – i.e. drop a few of the BD sessions maybe if you feel it’s too blue friendly but still up the number of BD sessions as compared to what you have been doing so far?

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Originally Posted by LMSM

Thanks! ;) if you have other strategies in place that are more pink friendly, it won’t hurt your sway that much to try SMEP , it will only help you actually get pregnant – and remember that swaying just ups your odds of one gender, so lots is still out of our hands ;)
if you feel like you can wait a bit, worth doing what Atomic suggested or just a few months which is still very pink friendly and then maybe move on to a “light” SMEP – i.e. drop a few of the BD sessions maybe if you feel it’s too blue friendly but still up the number of BD sessions as compared to what you have been doing so far?

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Yes LMSM.. good idea :)... im thinking a semi-SMEP kind of thing.. as you suggested.. i wont do ALL the eod BD attempts but i will deffo do the 3 attemps at +OPK.. its that one you do after you skip a day that is bugging me!!! But that might be what it takes?!!
How did you do yours, if you dont mind me asking??

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Originally Posted by squigglepink

Im feeling foolish now for not doing the e4d plus one :rolleyes:..Sigh! My DH pointed out last night that although we have been at this forever since MC last year, it took ages for my spotting/irregular bleeding and all that to go away and get back to a normal cycle, which i can safely say i have had back for 3 cycles. Not sure if to say maybe with all the spotting and irregularity i was never in with a shot anyway!.. but then again, these past 3 cycles have not worked for us either and not due to lack of trying.. So i think its all pointing to SMEP at this point i just need to get my head wrapped around it.

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Not my intention to make you feel foolish, I just wanted to make that clear so eeryone reading this post understood why I was having you do it that way. :)

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Originally Posted by squigglepink

Yes LMSM.. good idea :)... im thinking a semi-SMEP kind of thing.. as you suggested.. i wont do ALL the eod BD attempts but i will deffo do the 3 attemps at +OPK.. its that one you do after you skip a day that is bugging me!!! But that might be what it takes?!!
How did you do yours, if you dont mind me asking??

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why does that one bother you?

it's just to cover in case O is delayed

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Originally Posted by Noemi2017

Girls sorry but what is it SMEP?:owl:

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

why does that one bother you?

it's just to cover in case O is delayed

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I think it just screams boy to me with all the BD but i guess i shouldn't be concerned about that at this point!

Im on the SMEP train now :)

Good luck, SP!

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Originally Posted by squigglepink

I think it just screams boy to me with all the BD but i guess i shouldn't be concerned about that at this point!

Im on the SMEP train now :)

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that BD is the least of our worries! that one will just cover in case O is late

If you look at my signature, my chart and BD pattern is there :)
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3abf30/
So we did CD 3, 6, 8, 10, 11,12 and 15
That basically gave us an AM BD on O-2, a PM on O-1, and a PM on O day – didn’t manage to do another BD session after O just to be safe but we had BD on one day on either side of pos opk plus the one on day of pos opk…
Still got a girl!

Just wondering.. for anyone in the know!!.. As for SMEP - we BD on wed this week then again on Friday (yesterday)- (that being before a positive and part of our eod method for smep).... TODAY however, i have a positive OPK. SO.. we are meant to BD tonight and the next two nights.. But we dtd yesterday because i didnt think i would get a positive this soon! So should we skip tonight and perhaps BD tmw am and the next 2 nights, or should we just go ahead and do the next 3 nights starting from tonight seeing as i got the positive??... This is our first time doing SMEP.