Atomic please help with new girl sway after 2nd trimester loss of another baby girl

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Originally Posted by jenn1112

The only thing about waiting till the 2nd cycle is that my husband is going to be traveling a lot in for the next few months and even in the summer. I don’t know when those trips will be yet but they are out of the country so for at least 2 weeks each time. So I don’t know if we’d be able to try the 2nd cycle. My dr said it was fine to try the first cycle but do you not think it’s safe or higher chance of miscarriage? I’m still spotting now so I’m thinking it will be 4-5 weeks before my cycle comes back. Would that lessen my chances of a girl trying the first cycle with femara? Or have you seen luck conceiving with people getting healthy babies the 1st cycle back?


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As long as you have your doctor's ok then it's fine by me. The standard recommendation has been to wait out the first cycle, but the past few years I've noticed that they've relaxed the recommendations on when to try after a loss (which is GOOD really because the previous recommendations were far too strict and based in old school beliefs about women being mentally unhinged after losses, and things like "dating purposes" which make no sense whatever since we have ultrasound machines now.) Totally ok in that case, because they know what's going on inside far better than I do.

It won't lessen your chances of pink at all, it's simply that I want you to be safe but if the doc has given u the thumbs up, it's fine to proceed.

Yes I've absolutely seen people have healthy babies the first month!

Jenn, I just wanted you to know I sent your plan, so be on the lookout for it. If you don't see it, check your spam, and let me know if you don't see it.