Aw hugs :( bfn is so awful. Xxxx
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Aw hugs :( bfn is so awful. Xxxx
(((((Hugs)))))Quote:
Originally Posted by Rabbit0809
Rabbit any new testing today? I'm praying for you. I saw your chart post. I got high temp on my bfp day...good luck!
Hi pooh,no Im not going to bother with any more tests,am sure Ill get AF today,backache and cramps full on,the kind I only get hours before AF is due :( sigh
I really dont know what else to do,our bd frequency was great,now im thinking maybe we didnt give spermies enough time to recover.
The only thing I can think of is DTD every other day starting cd7 till cd13 or ovulation,this should help,if not I dunno what else :(
Feeling empty and heartless thinking of going on to cycle 4, am terrified of the thought what if we arent meant to be blessed for the third time .
I totally understand rabbit. I had a bit of a time limit for us as well. But as it was drawing near I felt those desperate feelings creeping up and knew I wouldn't give up so quickly. Also, our failed attempt was with lots of dtd. I got my bfp when we dtd every other day from af through the week of ov. Wishing you no af, but wishing you all the best and luck!
Ok, officially back in the 2ww.
Ovulated today on my right side (after 3 cycles on the left). The biggest follicle measured 23 - that's huge! And my endo was 10c. My levels from my blood test were spot on so please let this be our month!
Rabbit - thinking of you!! 10 more days and you'll be back in the game! <3
Hi girls I'm back in the 2ww too so here's hoping for some nice bfp this cycle I swear all these Neg tests r just awful :( xx
{{hugs}} Rabbit, BFN are so hard :(
Good luck and baby dust Am3a!
I'm currently at 4DPO in our 7th cycle of trying. I never expected it to take this long, DS1 was a surprise, DS2 I was on BCP, so I figured when we were doing it on purpose it would happen immediately...I was wrong.
I haven't been around here much because I was getting frustrated. It seems like there was a big wave of BFP's in the 2WW threads and I still had nothing :( I'm trying to make peace with that, and "when it's meant to happen it will happen" but it's still discouraging. I don't think I've ever had so many pregnant/just had babies people in my life, I feel like I'm surrounded!
Thank u for ur sweetness ladies,got my answer today sadly,AF showed up,ugh, so its cd1 for me, on to ttc cycle number 4.
Am def going to cut down on bd this month,last attempt we were crazy bding like the world was gonna end,hubby was convinced it was gonna be our month,when I told him af showed up today,he did his best to cheer me up,but I could see the hurt and disappointment in his eyes,he just didnt want me to c it.
This month will def bd every other day, cant wait for ovulation now,lol.
And one more thing, I promise not to spend one more penny on a pregnancy test before AF is late,coz this is just rediculous,ive spent sooooo much on pregnancy tests its a sin really
Geez Daisy, our in sync cycles are freaking me out haha! Good luck hon! XQuote:
Originally Posted by Daziedazie
Am3a I know it's a wee bit crazy lol.. I'm on 3dpo now and I'm really gonna try and hold out as long as possible on the testing xx
As for testing this month ladies,I promised myself,I WILL NOT TEST if I dont miss AF,period.
Now,if only ovulation could come soon enough,so we can start this torture all over again.
To make things worse,I just found out from a friend of mine,who is taking antidepressants and has mirena IUD, that she is 4 weeks preggo by mistake even while on IUD ,and she was sad and crying,she doesnt even want a baby,doesnt want to be preggo.
She doesnt know what US ttc ladies go thru each month , ugh, life is unfair sometimes,but God knows best <3
It's so true rabbit we are faced with such different dilemmas and some get it easy or harder than others!
I'm currently 9DPO I'm not wanting to try earlier but what is the earliest we can check and get fairly positive result.
I'm abit confused about the nausea thing it doesn't need to be accompanied with vomitting is that right? Iv been feeling slightly queasy few days ago and now it's kind of increased I feel rather queasy like you feel like you want to do sick that weird feeling you get in your stomach but I haven't been at that point where I actually want to do any sick it's more queasiness sometimes quite extreme.. Again I don't want to think anything of it lol
It's so true rabbit we are faced with such different dilemmas and some get it easy or harder than others!
I'm currently 9DPO I'm not wanting to try earlier but what is the earliest we can check and get fairly positive result.
I'm abit confused about the nausea thing it doesn't need to be accompanied with vomitting is that right? Iv been feeling slightly queasy few days ago and now it's kind of increased I feel rather queasy like you feel like you want to do sick that weird feeling you get in your stomach but I haven't been at that point where I actually want to do any sick it's more queasiness sometimes quite extreme.. Again I don't want to think anything of it lol
My update. My period came full on this past Sunday. Now I am CD 8. Looking forward to my attempts this month. Saying prayers that this is the month for a BFP! Good luck ladies
I got my BFP ladies!!! I hope you all join me asap xxx
I am in such a similar spot. This will be our fifth month trying, after two really easy conceptions for my sons. It has been so emotional and I want this so badly, but each month that goes by makes me wonder if it is just supposed to be the family I have now (which is a wonderful one). I am going to try every other day this cycle, but if it doesn't happen this time, I wonder how much longer I want to put myself through this.... Thinking of all you ladies who are going through just as many challenges.Quote:
Originally Posted by HouseOfTurtles
I am actually living in my own ttc bubble,nothing else that surrounds me interests me,I couldnt care less about the world, I just live for ovulation each month,this is seriously stressful, and am really worried.
Congrats hon! FX it's a pink one! Did you sway?Quote:
Originally Posted by katewantsagirl
I totally get it. And now after 6 full-on months of living and breathing ttc, I'm ready to just love what I have and move on... 2 boys, my youngest is almost 2 and life is starting to get easier, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by ltester
However I am in my 2ww so that plan may change. Feeling angry at myself as I did not sway at all this attempt. We took the positive thinking approach and dtd 4,3 & 2 days from O.
Hang in there lovely. I think the swaying does make it trickier to conceive especially if you're doing a few different approaches. Baby Dust to you. Xx
Hi ladies I finally get to come into this thread for the first time! We had a positive +OPK Saturday afternoon and again yesterday and today it was negative so today is 1DPO! Wait is that right? Anyway I am glad to be in hear finally! I feel like we have been gearing up for months and now we have graduated! Haha!
Hope everyone is doing great and hoping for BFP's for us all!!! Now the wait begins....... I'm trying to learn patience! We shall see! :-)
I hear you! The sun is out here, the coats are off and everyone is pregnant! Argh.Quote:
Originally Posted by HouseOfTurtles
Afy I have never vomited through ms so what you described sounds just right.
Rabbit big hugs I know what you mean. It is so easy to get pulled into obsessing. Not that it helps but you are not alone.
Cd2, ugh, 10 more days to go till ovulation,cant wait,seriously cant wait.
Hello all. Joining you at 2dpo. I don't have much confidence as I'm feeling kind of crampy (already!) and cranky.
Thank you!!! Im preparing myselfing to have another boy, its more than likely. I didnt really sway at all. I was drinking two peppermint tea a day, we dtd twice before O- 2days before and 4days before, no orgasm and he withdrew both times. Then did an o+21 and i jumped and dumped. Pretty weak but im happy with whatever outcome :)
Cd4 today,planning my attempts already,we quit swaying , and r focusing on getting pregnant asap.
Last month we got excited,and bd'ed for 5 days straight from cd8 till cd12 and on two days we even dtd twice per say,so I think maybe we overdid it and ran out of spermies, this time we r abstaining two days,then bd 0-2,0-1,and 0 ,and vowing for dtd only once daily ;)
Rabbit your plan sounds like mine this month, however am wondering whether to DTD O+ 1. So far this month:
DTD Sunday evening -OPK ( O-2)
DTD Monday evening -OPK (O-1)
DTD Tuesday evening +OPK at 7.30am (O)
I have had a strong negative OPK this morning which i should imagine will continue to fade throughout the day, am now wondering whether to DTD tonight or not?
Congratulations!:celebrate:Quote:
Originally Posted by katewantsagirl
Congratulations, Katewantsagirl!
So, I'm CD8 and I just started symptoms of a yeast infection (a mild one, I believe) after a week's worth of antibiotics to fight off a sinus infection. I really don't want to skip a month of trying.... any thoughts anyone?
TSP (tiny skinny positive) rather than BFP this morning with FMU:) spotting and cramping getting less and temp still looking good. I am starting to get more excited than worried. Will POAS again tomorrow to see if the line is stronger and can be photographed.
Um... I have always been told a line is a line!!!! (Unless you're on Clomid that is...)Quote:
Originally Posted by Emily
Test again tomorrow and let us know!
Katewantsagirl ---- Oh my! I seriously just had this! I can't remember it with my boys. I'm 6dpo. I'm thinking its a good sign! :-/?!?Quote:
Originally Posted by katewantsagirl
7dpo ladies,am extremly excited for our attempts,Im gonna be changing my bd plan since Im having ewcm already,so I might Ovulate earlier,I usually ov cd11,
We r going to try sperm meet egg plan,will bd tomorrow cd8, then cd10,cd11,cd12, and last bd cd14.
Fingers crossed,heart beating,praying praying,plz let this be our month.
Cd8, bd accomplished :)
Fingers crossed for u rabbit I hope this is ur month :) I swear my life is revolving round ttc at the min... Only thing iv just remembered tho is this month I got a positive opk but no ewcm maybe I didn't even ovulate at all xx
LOL loving the military TTC speak. It does feel like a mission sometimes with all the planning and tactics! Fingers crossed that your mission is accomplished!Quote:
Originally Posted by Rabbit0809
LOL Emily,isnt it,it surely feels like a military task,waiting for DH to deploy the missile,hahaha
Cd9 today,we r not bding today,as per sperm meet egg plan we r supposed to skip today,then starting tomorrw cd10 bd three days straight.
Im a bit concerned about my cm though,im not getting any ewcm,hmmmm
Dazie,checking again today,update s asaupoas(as soon as u pee on a stick) ;)
Well I'm a wee tad disappointed this morning I dint think uts any darker and had to take t out of the casing again to really see a line :(
I still see a line Dazie,I still c it clearly,I dont think evaps will happen to u on 2 consecutive days,i mean what r the odds..
Fingers crossed sugar,its ur month,i feel it xoxo
Thanx rabbit I'm still containing the excitement and hoping and praying ut mite b darker tomorrow 12dpo it's got to b lik... Xx