Sweetdream this will be our last baby too.
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Sweetdream this will be our last baby too.
This would b my last baby too. Oncue how many kids u have?
I have 2 daughters. We thought we would stop at 2, but we think our family would be complete at 3.
Kitkat...I do have 1 daughter, you were right! She is number 5, so I've had another son since. I also have 5 brothers and remember feeling so desperate for a sister, so that is my motivation for all this swaying. Of course, she may not be as desperate as me!! But she has started playing with 'pretend' sisters so I'm thinking she might ask eventually (she's 3). She is just SO outnumbered and is left out of a lot of stuff. I really want her to know I at least TRIED to give her a sister. Of course, she could end up even more outnumbered but at least I gave it a shot and we will be looking into adoption at that point. That is in our plans anyway as we love having a big family but I know my fertility won't last forever!!
In answer to your question, my daughter was extremely prevented. She was the only child I really CRIED over getting a positive because we weren't ready to have another baby. My health wasn't good and I just didn't want to risk it. So she is a condom baby!! But if I look back at my lifestyle, the things that were going for me was that I was dieting on Slim Fast to get rid of previous baby weight, and I wasn't at my healthiest. In fact, I got swine flu the month she was conceived and prayed for death I was that ill!! I really, still, to this day do not know how she was conceived. We were incredibly careful and I went over calendar dates for Ages to try and figure out HOW I was pregnant!!
The difference with all the boys was that they were all when we were having frequent bd and so none of them were a surprise. My daughter was definitely a ONE and only attempt plus with a condom.
Aw, sorry Lilly :-(
It's so disappointing isn't it??? Hope next month is your month.
Wow Sisterplease, sounds like your daughter was just meant to be here. I grew up with all brothers and really wanted a sister so that's nice that you're trying so hard to give her an ally.
This will also be my last attempt but I know dh will want to try again if it's a girl. I know that I'm not trying my best with this diet. I don't eat enough calories, although I'm eating way more than I did with my 2dds. I have been lifting weights more and taking more vitamins. This is my fifth attempt since bcp, and like most of you, I thought it would happen the first or second try! I am 8dpo today and still feeling like af is definitely going to show.
And Lilly, I also hope that you will soon get your bfp! I know how frustrating it can be.
Hopefully next week I will log on and see some good news from you ladies!
Sorry Lilly - lets hope for next month xx
Kitkat, I too feel quite weak at the moment...I'm sure I'm deficient in sme stuff - prob iron which I usually get from red meat. I will review my diet and do a lighter version of LE as I have lost weight I didn't really need to loose anyway and find it hard to maintain ...
I'm not sure if I should do FRER or just wait for After AF time...too scared to b disappointed...
This all also be our last baby (#4) and can't wat for a pink baby :-)
How many dpo are you, laVieEnRose?
Hi ladies!
Got AF today :( Two days early!!! At least it saves me from my 2-3x a day POAS habit!
Will continue my LE PCOS as best I can, though we will be on vacation for a week so it's tough. Will continue supplements and OPK as well. I'm supposed to ovulate during the trip.
I'm really impatient about the whole thing and my desire at this moment to have a third is overriding my desire for a girl. Will have to think long and hard about the whole thing. DH is of the opinion that we should "just do it a lot" lol. Right now I'm sort of on the same wavelength.
Good luck to everyone in their 2ww and really hope to hear some good news from all of you!!!
Sorry to hear that! I can truly empathize with you because now my desire to just get pregnant overrides my desire for a boy! After 4 BFNs I am getting so frustrated and I'm gaining weight on this diet. I don't want to gain weight before the baby but I'm thinking I got my girls from being smaller and eating small...I don't know. I really hope you have good news next month, lovinmyboys. I'll take your blue and give you my pink dust!!
Sorry that u got af,loving my boy. I m also getting af af earlier as 9 dpo.otherwise my cycle was longer
Wow we are all in the same boat such a great forum for supporting each other! Upping potassium is a good idea more fruits and veges I think ...I'm 35 ttc girl after 2 boys I feel I can stay on this diet for six months max as like a few of you my le is more relaxed so I intend to stay on it for longer!! I had gained weight with both my boys, massive breakie snacking all the time, I was also a vegie and BD once in our fertile window and of course big O !! This is also my last baby :) finally convinced DH now my youngest is 4.
Good luck to all testing or on their next cycle attempt ! I think you know when you are done with this whole swaying business that said drop everthing before diet and one attempt for a girl I am pretty sure that is what atomic recommends xxxxxx
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I'm 8dpo I think. Expecting AF tues or wed (or not?!).Quote:
Originally Posted by MIka1104
Sister please thanks for sharing! You must have been pretty happy she was a big oops baby!! Xxx
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Ah sorry, lovingmyboy ...I felt like you when we were TTC for our baby 3- after a few BFNs, I was just on a mission to get pregnant so we bd every day and it worked. DS 3 is only just 1 year old so I haven't got the desperate urge to be pregnant so im happy to sway for a few cycles although I'm 39 so really, I haven't got a lot of time either...
Lavieenrose you are one day ahead of me 7dpo today and symptom spotting big time! I know I'm going to be disappointed if its another BFN!! Played monopoly here tonight stormy weather out and I did not get competitive!! My hubby did though hehe good luck to all xxxx
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Well i've tested this morning. It looks like a BFN. But when I take a pic its like you do see a very faint line... Sigh... Try again tomorrow
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Maybe I just want to see it
At a first glance it did look neg but when I looked from another I angle I actually see something, a very faint line :-) Not sure about the colour, if it's grey or pink. Fingers crossed for you!!Quote:
Originally Posted by sweetdream
Sweet dream I think I can see something faint too! Def test again tomorrow, hopefully it's darker! X getting excited for u
I thought I was blind. It's 11DPO today according to FF.. (I tested positive with 2my boys at this stage) I think it's grey the color though.. But I never had that before.. white's i did. but negative was always negative and def on picture..
Tomorrow we will try again.
Good luck sweet dream fixed its your BFP!! Xx
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I tried to put the pic in negative but couldn't. in black and white when I make it a bit darker. you see a better vage line!:D
I'm so excited... what if!? ...
Thx for al your support girls!
Good luck sweetdreams! X
Omg!! Good luck testing today xxx
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I tested again.. ... alright I confess I tested twice. the second one also a vage line but more clear and clearly pink then the first.. but from this evening BFN
I think there chemicals.. although the brand clames they have non... (last month I also saw vage Lines. but they couldn't be captured on film. and I needed to try hard looking at it.. from this afternoon I see clearly.
Ofc I've got al kinds of symptoms today.. head is messing with me... It's prolly physical.. I'm nervous.. so that prolly makes me nauscia... and got cramps.. like AF is started.. but no blood.
We'll see.. I'll just think AF start tuesday..
(and I know it's stupid to test so manny times cause your HCG lvl just dubbles every 2 days and you can't messure it by the hour...
Also I know that in the evening your urine can be less concentrated... but I don't want to hope.. wich ofc I do... :( )
Sweetdream I am expecting AF on Mon/Tues too. I did a FRER test this morning and BFN. So I prob won't test again unless AF is late. I'm feeling the symptoms if AF aswell so expect her here soon! Good luck everyone xo
Oh oncue and sweet dreams this particular wait is so so hard!!! I expect AF Thursday but usually spot 2-3 days before so I will get a heads up if I am out xxx
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Again a very faint line.... I'm thinking these tests are bad....
Luckly I'm not home today no more testing this day. Lol
I Will test tomorrow cause i've meds wich needs to be upped in case of BFP. Asap. Thats why I take early tests.
Oncue and KitKat good luck girls. Its very hard.
Another photo sweetdream?
If anyone has experienced changing their period cycle with he diet. I had cycle of 30 days but with he diet I got af at 26 day heavier periods. I got pos opk at cd 18. If Any one can answer.
Sweetdreams, oncue, kitkat: I'm due af on tues or wed too!
Feeling strange but prob imagining symptoms...
Not going to test until af officially late ... Agree it's so hard to wait!
It's sooo exciting with all these test :bigsmile:
Can't wait to join in and poas as well! Will probably by a big pack and start early, like 7 dpo. Crazy I know, but I see it as one of the fun parts in ttc ;-)
Hi Lilly 585,Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilly 585
I definitely have. I honestly do not even know what happened to this cycle. I didint buy cheapy opks this time because i promised my self i would only test using my cbfm monitor but even the monitor didn't give me a peak day :(. My cycles are 28 to 29 days long. I ovulate on cd 16 according to my temps and positive opks. This month I had my period for almost 8 days and spotted for another 8 after. I bd this month by reading my cm. But yes, it will definitely change your cycle for sure. The month i tried green tea, i ovulated late and had a short luteal phasr so i dropped it completely. Atomic says that the supplements will also throw your cycle out wack as well. Good luck and hope your cycles adjust to your diet!
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Plz put me out of my misery.....
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This one I've edited.
I can see a slight line but its quite hard to say for sure...I would perhaps buy a different brand and see why result it gives you... Exciting!!! Xx
Thanks yogi &booboo for replying. I have read that short lp become reason for not getting pg. especially when it's shorter than 10 dats . I have lp of 9 days.i hope Ur lp would b longer than 10 days
Lily. Yes def cycle changed. My cycles went from 28 to 32 days. I think. Its messy. Ovulation on day 18 too last month a bleeding at 10DPO. Af 14DPO.
Ok, so I guess I can officially join this thread after our attempt last night.
Can't sit still today....it's going to be a long 2 weeks! :(
Temp drop.....