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I'm sorry to keep you hanging! :HH:
Had a really vivid dream last night. Tummy is really bloated like last month, and I got kinda nauseous before bed.
Nothing definite yet, but I think it's a tad darker... I'll do my same thing of taking supplements now and take another in a few hours after my pee looks kinda radioactive! :rofl:
When I see a ghostline it's like a 4-5 day long thing so ugh... Have to wait, hate to wait! :nervous: :o
With my first loss my cycle was crazy wacky. I didn't Ov until 56 days after my loss. I don' know if that helps with your confusion or not (what CD are you?) but the first cycle post-m/c is often a little crazy. Did you test the HCG out of your system? Knowing when you got your first BFN would help as for all intents and purposes the day your HCG reaches 0 would technically be CD 1 as your body can't even begin to try to Ov until after that point. Also, if it has been 8 weeks since your loss or more you may want to call your doc and get a progesterone script. That is what my doc told me to do and he said sometimes after a loss your body gets confused and kinda needs a reboot, so to speak, to begin working properly again.
Thank you for your interesting insight, I appreciate it! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
After my first loss I Oed and conceived within that month. Miscarried at the ER on May 3 and got my BFP June 3 with the princess in my profile pic. Vitex helps speed things up and raspberry leave tea/capsules heal and strengthen the uterine lining! :wink:
However, I only had my BFP and miscarried one week later. This time, I miscarried almost one month later..BFP April 13 and Loss May 9th. So things might be different I don't know. I have faith I can make them happen like they did last time. I did have an OPK that was behaving right but I kick myself because I do not know what day it happened. If My Loss was considered CD1 then I'd be on CD21 today just waiting for my period. Patience is what I just don't have. lol Usually when I see a ghostline it means I'm prego and I just wait for it to get darker. With my last loss I did get a light line on my hpt right before my BFP.. In My Vitex Journey. My preg tests did go negative so if I get a line and it gets darker then I know I'm pregnant. :o I'm expecting to know my answer on or around the 9th! So I don't know why I'm testing yet. I'm nuts, that's why! I'm having all kinds of obvious symptoms. But you're right, In a couple weeks if I still have symptoms, I know I have a problem! :rofl:
My previous loss and all shared info was a 20w 5d loss and I didn't test out the hormone with that loss. This time, a 7w 4d loss, I did and I got my first BFN CD 21 AND my temp dropped substantially the next morning (my chart if you are interested). Prayers and *fingers crossed* that you get your BFP and a pink rainbow baby!
And I gotta say I am seriously hating on May... BOTH my losses were discovered May 1, six years apart (what are the odds?!?!?), and now to hear your loss was also early May... I am beginning to think May is fricken cursed or something. Which is another reason I want to get preg quickly. Call it crazy, paranoia, whatever... but I DON'T wanna be preg in May if I can avoid it... so I have until Aug 15 to get preg to avoid it. I won't quit TTC after that but it'll likely make me a bit more nervous.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.. I have no words.. 20 weeks I am so so sorry sweet lady! Are you interested in trying Vitex?Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
SAME, but I'm hating April!!!! I conceived in April of '12 and lost it May 3 Just crazy.. So I'm hating on April but can't hate May because I luckily conceived right after. Gosh, so are you swaying with us or just charting and trying to conceive again?Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
Thank you. I am very sorry for your loss as well. The length of the pregnancy is irrelevant when it comes to the heartbreak of loss. (((HUGS)))
I have taken it before. I used to spend over $100 a month on various herbs and supplements trying to get my body to ovulate. None of them had any effect at all except the vitex which just steadied my temps a bit (I know it was the vitex because my temps changed when I added it to the mix, after a time of course... didn't work overnight, and I phased out all the others and my temps remained steady)but still no ovulation. This is why it took me 2 years to conceive my first angel... lack of ovulation. My point being, I have nothing against it as it was the only herb I took that had any effect at all... BUT my doc offered clomid for TTC and I am thinking about taking him up on that offer and I don't believe you can take the two at the same time :/
Forgive me I clicked edit post and not reply with quote ugh!Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
You're totally right! A loss is heartbreaking at absolutely any stage :broken:
I would jump on climid for sure, and I know you cannot take Vitex with it.. so totally take it, it sways pink!!! :xx: When are you going to try it!?
No common factor in conception months with me. My first loss, Riley, was our late christmas present (we found out we were expecting shortly after christmas) and this last loss, Kendall, was conceived in March.Quote:
Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit
Going to try swaying. TBH it is a bit overwhelming but the idea of the only girl we ever get being the one we didn't get to keep breaks my heart. We were looking into swaying before I got preg this last time but by some miracle we got preg without even trying (we were pre-TTC and all my signs had gone back to infertile when we DTD so I thought eggie was gone and surprise! Lol) so we never got a chance to do a solid sway. I was taking some sups, but that was about it... I don't know.. I have a post in the TTC a girl forum asking if I did something right or if I just got lucky, lol, but I don't know. This time we still aren't going to be doing a completely solid sway as I plan to start TTC asap. But I am hoping if I am super strict with myself once the swaying starts it will make a difference...
We are waiting on test results that should be in next week and if everything comes back good on those then we are just waiting on my first PP AF at which point we have a green light. I had a D&C so we can't TTC right away because my body needs time to heal, so right now we are sitting at a red light for what seems like an eternity.Quote:
Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit
I was trying to figure out what on earth you were talking about with the edit thing... I see it now, lol, and no problem :D
Okay, If I remember right though clomid sways all by itself, and you don't do the girl diet. But atomic can correct me if I'm wrong here because you need to know what to do! :o I hope that everything looks good for you next week and you can try as soon as AF is over. :HH: Best of luck and please stick around! :HH:Quote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
Really? I'd love to know, but she seems pretty busy and I don't want to bother her :/ It's all quite confusing to me lol. I read stickys that recommend this and that and then I read a reply that says not to take those because they are dangerous or don't sway well. Plus clomid changes the game on sups too as I know I can't take vitex or SP with it but I don't know which I CAN take, if any. I really need to just buy a plan so I can have it spelled out for me lol, but with my loss, missed work for hubby (I don't work as I was let go when I got preg with Kendall) and subsequent med bills it just isn't in the budget right now. I know she says she will help anyone regardless of plan purchase but I feel bad asking a thousand questions and not paying. This is her job and I know I wouldn't want to work for free, you know? I just wish my brain would get with the program already, lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit
Yes, you do the girl diet when on Clomid.
I cannot keep up with support threads and I only just luckily clicked on this. If you aren't sure about something it really helps people ask me the question instead of relying on me to read every single post in every single thread when I literally can't do that.
Twointow, PLEASE PLEASE ask me questions. Please don't worry about bothering me, I would much rather you asked me a question than TTC not on the girl diet. :)
I didn't want to thread jack so I sent you a message atomic :)Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
Baby danced an hour and a half ago. Left side light cramping in uterus. Have not peed on another stick! lol
*fingers crossed* and prayers!
Alright absolute last post today I promise! I peed on another stick and can clearly see that the ghost line has gotten darker than the earlier stick! So if I don't see a line by morning that I don't have to move the stick back and forth against a white background to see... then It should be Sun I should see a line without having to do a thing!! :running: getting excited now! :HH:
Woohoo!!
Yay! *fingers crossed* :fingers:
FX!! I've seen a lot of people do filters that invert the photo of them and you can see the line so clear! Try it!!!
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Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime
I actually thought of that too, but I don't think anything will show up..However I will still try it in a few hours! :)
Sound totally fun! I've never done that before!
Get the pregnancy checker app lol it's free.
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Yay!! I'll be checking back!! So excited [emoji16]!
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Aww scratch that! I'm super tired and falling asleep I will have one up after I wake up!! :HH:Quote:
Originally Posted by XXforhubby
Okay scratch what I just said.. It's only an hour. I just looked at my test and for some reason I can see the line better now... :running: So I'm gonna do this!!
Alright ladies, I am sorry that it took SO long!! I can see it in real life, and I did a couple of tries and lighting and different angles but I think you can see it on this one. You have to move your head side to side and you'll catch the line. ;) It will get darker in a couple days! Inverting it just won't work at this stage! :(
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I see it!!! Can't wait for it to get darker!!!
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huge congrats!
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Originally Posted by XXforhubby
Yes!!!! Thank you!! :HH: :running: Me too!! :running: I'll take one this evening and then tomorrow. I took one with FMU but it's no darker than this one.
:HH: Thank you Atomic my dear friend. I'm cautiously optimistic. It happened SO fast in almost the same way again, I almost can't believe it! :oQuote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
My ghost line counts, as you say "a line is a line" lol
So I skipped RRL for 3 days and the last time I took it was last Sunday. Should I take it one more time or call it good? Is it one you really need to wean off of? I'm so nervous!
OMG yes I SEEE ITTT! *shreeks like a little girl!* Yes yes yes huge congrats!!
You make me laugh hard btw with all your peeing on a stick and scratch that and changing your mind, we could be twins haha! I'm so going to order the sticks you're using! Which opk's are you using btw? I wants!
Is that an OPK or HPT? I ask because my IC (internet cheapies) OPKs are blue and HPTs are green. I got a ghost line in my most recent preg for days, made me think I was seeing things since they didn't seem to get darker. Finally called for a blood test as I was scheduled for surgery the next day... turned out my HCG was only a 13 @ the time (not sure how I saw a line at all that low). Point being if it's an HPT then I am cautiously optimistic for you!! *fingers crossed* for a darker line!
bahaha Thank you Dana, I'm so glad I'm making you smile AND laugh yay! Okay, go to page one of this thread and I link you to both the opk I use and my hpt!! :) They are THE best, you will love them! :awe:Quote:
Originally Posted by Dana-Alicia
That is my Blue Cross Babi pregnancy test! You need some! The link to them is one page one of my thread! :D Yep, I see ghost lines for 4-5 days that get a tad darker until they are normal and pink. They did with my DD and my loss, and hopefully the same will happen now but I am hopeful! :awe: It's so hard to wait but I think I'm only going to take one a day with the FMU and try so hard not to do 2 a day. I don't want to run out, because I can't get more for a bit! lolQuote:
Originally Posted by twointow83
Thanks lovie, going to order both now! I'm a huge POAS addict and they're so expensive here to get the 25 hcg tests, so these ones are great!!
Hahaha so glad to hear that! :) It's so fun stalking ghost lines! :rofl:Quote:
Originally Posted by Dana-Alicia