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So I’ve decided to do e4d this month and no opk! Last month I did a e5d sort of thing so hoping this gives me better odds! 3 Months trying already I knew it could take a while but it’s hard when you’re atually in it!
May I ask how long it took everyone with now and previous pregnancies?
I tested with clear blue and negative:( something is wrong, i hope to get af soon. Attachment 38526 or maybe i should go to see my doctor? Never happend to me before
How late is AF? My cycle was the weirdest it has been yet and I was two days late. I had extreme mood swing, tender breasts, and was really hungry. I was worried I was pregnant and just not getting a positive. But my period showed up later than usualQuote:
Originally Posted by Noemi2017
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Eighme i am 2 days late 14dpo, my luteal phase is around 10-12 days, i hope af comes in few days.
I hope you get a BFP or AF comes really soon. The limbo and waiting was the worst part for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Noemi2017
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Noemi same thing happened to me last month my LP is always 12 days but was 14! :(
Hey ladies! Popping in to say. "Hi" and to see how you all are doing? I'm on CD6... and have 1 more dose of Clomid to do tomorrow... We are planning on BD E4D (72 hour version) .... my question to you all-- when should I start BD for this pattern? I finished AF 2 days ago so now I'm just in limbo until I start testing with my opks on about 4 days....
Last cycle (my first round of Clomid days 5-9) I had a positive OPK on CD13 and Ovulated on CD14. Without Clomid, I usually Ovulate early-- like CD9. I took my second dose (this current cycle) days 3-7.... do you think I'll O on CD14 again? If so, should I wait to start BD E4D starting tomorrow?
I know I'm probably looking into this way more than I should [emoji23]
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Star hi! I would start e3d now as in today. I also wouldn't worry about opks unless you plan on adding an attempt as it will just stress you out if see a pos opk (that may or may not darken more) on a non scheduled day. Not doing opks takes away thay pressure of 'do I, don't I' You'll be charting right? So we'll be able to see when you o by temps. Up to you but I've seen it time and time again when people choose an every#days bd pattern only to come undone by an opk that has sometimes been then sometimes not been their pos opk. They have themselves in knots trying to decide whether to add an attempt or not and that kind of stress and obsessing is terrible for conceiving. Opks are great for blue swayers and pink swayers looking at doing one attempt at pos opk OR adding an attempt in with their e4d. If you're doing a e4d 72 version I would leave them out. Again though it's entirely up to you [emoji4]
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Noemi big hugs xxoo Give it a few days before seeing a doctor. I cant tell you how many times I've seen peoples normally by the book cycle go out the window when ttc, my own included.
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Hey all - I'm back, sort of :) I got really busy with the holidays and then was out of town this past week visiting my DH's family. We've had crazy amounts of sickness in our family - respiratory stuff throughout all of December and now stomach bugs (my boys have had it - thankfully DH and I have not gotten it yet but several family members have, and I don't think DH and I are "in the clear" yet - still waiting to see if it hits us). I'm on day 19 since my m/c bleeding started - I *think* I've ovulated again but I'm not really sure as I haven't really been tracking things. Did a couple of Wondfo OPKs around Christmas day/day after that were I think almost but not quite positive, had a lot of EWCM around then too, and I think my temp has shifted but the mornings I have taken it, I took it much later than usual and on bad sleep. Going to try to check again tomorrow morning. I'm thinking AF will arrive anytime from the next couple of days to early next week, and then I should be able to get back on Clomid and attempt again in a few weeks from now. My diet over the holidays was not great - not terrible, but not great. Several cheat days so I'm worried about that :( Trying to get back on track the next few weeks. I've still been exercising some so I have that, and coffee/alcohol, and soon Clomid again. But I'm feeling sort of defeated about the whole sway thing - this has been such a long and trying process up until now and still no baby girl growing inside me. :( Just feel like it can't happen for me. So whatever - we'll see what happens. I guess I'm more relaxed about things now - 9 months of swaying, 6 months of ttc, and 2 m/c will do that to you.
I haven't been able to read through all the posts from this board and not sure I'll be able to. I'm sorry girlsway that AF found you again. E4d sounds like a good plan. Noemi - sorry you're in limbo :( Good luck Star!! Eighme I can't remember if we've interacted before but hi!!! Hi Filzma!! Hi Mummy2boys!! Hi GirlSwayHGMama!! Pbn OMG your baby is coming soon!!!!!!! I CAN'T WAIT!!! Sorry for anyone I missed on here!
Great to hear from you Abc!!! Sorry to hear you've all been battling illness [emoji22] but glad to hear it sounds as though your new cycle is due to start! I go into hospital one week from today [emoji322][emoji322] I would have had my csection and be snuggling my newborn right now this time next week!!! Cant wait!!
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Ahhh that's amazing Pbn!! Enjoy your last week!!!!!!
Pbn - just sent you a PM!
Hi And! I don't think we have! Welcome back and I'm so happy to meet you! Sending well wishes to you and your family!Quote:
Originally Posted by ABC.2606
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ABC! So happy to hear from you! My Tapatalk messenger is messed up so I can see you messaged me but can't open it or reply! Will you try to send me a chat on here? Maybe then I can reply!
Sorry to all the ladies who got AF or are in limbo! I know the feeling. I read everything on the TWW threads but just haven't gotten in the swing of posting again since my 2nd m/c. I will try to do better!!
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As far as me, I'm CD 3 but AF is super weird this go round. Heavy bleeding CD 1 and absolutely nothing since! I'm on another round of femara and feeling so worried as this may be the last dose my Dr will prescribe. I was swaying pink, but I just don't care anymore at this point. I just want a healthy baby. I'm ready to get back to to temping and I invested in digital opks and preseed! FX and baby dust to you all!
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Thanks same to you Eighme!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Eighme
mtolbert yay good to hear from you! I was getting worried!! Sorry your tapatalk is messed up!! And sorry about the weird AF. The cycle in November I got pregnant on my AF was really weird - super light the first day, heavy the second day and then super super light again. The m/c I had in December was also really weird - spotting the first day, heavy bleeding for about 1/2 a day and then really light bleeding for a few more days. I told doc about it and he said it was probably b/c my hormone levels were so low. I'm thinking though that those meds (I'm on Clomid not femara, but still) can really mess with AF/bleeding. Hopefully that's why yours was off. Aren't you only on cycle 2 of Femara? Does your doc only allow 2 cycles on it? Have you tried Clomid yet - can your doc switch you to that if this cycle on Femara doesn't work?
Lovely to hear from you abc!! :) how long are your cycles usually? Will you be ttc in January? Glad we are ttc along side each other!
Noemi how are you this morning?
ABC and mtolbert, good to see you both. Hoping and praying all goes well and that we all get these elusive bfps as well as healthy happy babies at the end of it.
I can also attest to cycles going crazy, AF was heavy and has lasted longer than usual this time. Cd32 last month unlike the usual cd 27/28. Neomi, don’t worry too much, you’ll know soon enough xx
Pbn3 how time flies!! [emoji33]
Girls very strong witch arrived this morning, i knew something was wrong so i prayed it finished and i can start again. Good luck this month for all sweet girl here and thx for support:kissy:
Big hugs Noemi but glad you're out of limbo land. All the very best for your next cycle xxoo
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The witch played tricked on us both this month Noemi! On to January! :D
Yes it was strange month, i have feeling i was pregnant but something was wrong:( maybe implantation maybe embryo was damaged who knows...
Girlsway my cycles are normally 24 days.... The first month I was on Clomid (when we got a BFN) I think it was 25/26. Have no idea how long it will be this cycle since I'm just off a m/c but my temp this morning was definitely high so I think I probably did O already. I'm hoping AF comes this weekend or early next week. Yup - we'll definitely be ttc this month. Come on January bfps for both of us! (And all of us on here!)Quote:
Originally Posted by Girlswaylondon
Sorry AF came Noemi!! On to another month!!
Sorry to hear about AF, Noemi. I will say. I'm grateful to have all you lovely ladies company this month!
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I wouldn’t be too worried Noemi.[emoji846]
I really hope this is all our month.[emoji5]
Feeling really positive and ready to start. Let’s do this girls!
My vitD ran out- need to stock up.
Well I MAY, repeat MAY, have had an implantation dip yesterday! We did find my thermometer. It was stuck in the clean laundry. I truly say MAY because I'm still having the after effects of being sick so I could have had my mouth open a little too much when sleeping. Also been getting poor sleep due to this sickness.
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FX GirlSwayHGmama!!
Abc- Yes I agree I think it may be chlomid/femara that makes the cycles wacky! Can you add me on FB messenger? It's easier for me to message that way! This is my 3rd round of femara since my most recent m/c and she wants to monitor me on it this go round. That's the only way she'll continue to prescribe it. The problem is, insurance doesn't cover the monitoring and I'm not sure if I have to pay out of pocket up front or if they'll bill me. It is SO hard to reach my Dr so I don't have answers yet. I went back and forth with her staff today so maybe I'll have some answers tomorrow..
Hey Flizma! Good to hear from you! Yeah these weird cycles are awful and confusing!!! What CD are you now? Will you remind me what you're swaying?
Noemi- I'm sorry AF came, but I know it is relieving to be out of limbo! This past cycle I was late and not 2 mins after I took my last FRER AF came.
Girlswayhg- FX it was an implantation dip!!!I'm sorry you're sick and I hope you get to feeling better!!
Hey Eighme, and star! FX for you both this cycle!! I think im close to the same days in my cycle as you both! I am CD 4 today.
Hey girlswaylondon! Sorry to see AF tricked you too! I was so sure this was going to be my BFP but the witch tricked me too! What CD are you now?? FX for you!
Mummy! How are you??? I've been wondering about you and praying for you! Hope to see your BFP any day now!!!
I hope I got everyone! FX so tight for us all!!
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Oh and PBN- I can't wait for the 10th!!!! I know you must be so ready to meet this long awaited baby! What about your boys?? They must be so excited too!!!
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Mtolbert I'm now officially ready! My sons back to school and bday (5 days after csection) is organised and my hospital bag is packed! 6 more sleeps woohoo!!!
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Hey mtolbert1! I’m at cd9 this morning. Swaying boy. Not sure how many are, but we seem to be minority around here. It makes sense as I only see baby boys and toddler boys everywhere lately. [emoji7][emoji3]
Pbn3 your knowledge, experience and invaluable help will totally be missed around here. Can you not split yourself between hospital and here? [emoji17][emoji5] jk, I’m super excited for your new addition. Hope everything goes well for you and baby. Xx
Filzma I wont be far away! I'll check in when I can plus I have chart links to stalk [emoji12] being in hospital with a newborn will be a holiday compared to being at home [emoji23][emoji23]
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I caved and tested early. Either 8/9 dpo unless I o’d late and bfn.
Pbn3- six sleeps!!! Love it. Can't believe you have a birthday party 5 days post though! Busy lady!!!
As for seeing boys everywhere--- I just keep seeing pregnant bellies. Had a dream two nights ago about girl vs boy. I had a little boy in my grocery cart who was not my son and was admiring this little black girl with pig tails. I'm white.
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So excited for you Pbn. You're so close!
Afm.. I am 9 or 10 dpo today and been getting faint second lines on frers but nothing on my cheapies. By this point it should be getting darker than what it is I think.
I'm only 4 days away to starting my ivf cycle. I am anxious but so excited to think that this journey might all soon be over. We are hoping to have some healthy girl embryos!
So excited for you pbn glad you won’t be gone complertely I need my chart stalker! :highfive: