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Mummy in my last miscarriage my bloods were only slightly rising as well and it was not ectopic, so hoping for that tiniest of win for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by mummy2boys
Also I actually never started to lose the baby, my body wanted to hang onto it, so I don’t have insight on that. Once we monitored for a week and saw that he baby’s heart had stopped and wasn’t growing we scheduled a DNC.
Sending you SO MUCH love. What next steps do you have?
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Thank you kikurose, that has made me feel a little better. I was expecting the bloods to have gone right down like last time so was shocked to hear they’d gone up. And it’s like dragging out the inevitable. I’ve got another blood test on Tuesday and then the doctor will decide what to do. That week of waiting must have been awful for you [emoji17]Quote:
Originally Posted by kikurose
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I’m sorry you’re going through this ☹️ it’s really hard- the limbo and the loss itself. The dragging it out was so frustrating for me too. I understood why, but it was hard. Hoping and hoping it resolves itself for you and it isn’t ectopic. I’ll be thinking of you. Please keep me posted ❤️Quote:
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Mummy2boys my numbers fluctuated with my first loss too and it wasn't ectopic. Hoping that Tuesdays bw brings a clearer picture. The waiting is the worst, being pregnant but not pregnant at the same time is what would mess with my head and heart the most. Thinking of you [emoji173]
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Mummy- I'm so sorry for the continued pain, confusion, stress, and horribleness. I hope you get your answers very soon.
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I've been getting brown discharge for the past few days and wasn't worried, but just now it has turned reddish pink and I am not a happy camper.
So scary Mrs English. Are you going to go in? Hoping it’s nothing!!!Quote:
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I called my doctor's office and they said not to come in unless the bleeding gets heavy or if I have pain.Quote:
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Hope everything is ok mrs English. How far along are you now? Will they not scan you for reassurance?
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hope everything is ok MrsEnglish, I remember my sister bled quite heavily with her 2nd DS to the point she was convinced she was miscarrying but everything ended up totally fine and her son is a happy healthy boy. I hope its nothing serious for you xo
My second loss my numbers kept creeping up for awhile, and they just eventually had to d&c mine wasn’t ectopic.
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I think I'm 5w + 4d. My coverage gives me one early pregnancy scan where you can go in between 5-9 weeks, then nuchal translucency at around 12 weeks. I chose to schedule my scan on the later side (8 weeks).Quote:
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Are you still in the hospital? What are the doctors saying?
Mrs English I hope the bleeding has stopped and all is ok!!
Mummy2boys I'm pretty sure you had another round of bw today? When will you get results? And how are you holding up? So many hugs xxoo
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I’ve just been and had another blood test, will get results later.Quote:
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Hope you are doing ok? Has the bleeding stopped any?
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Thanks Pbn. Get my results at 4pm today. I’m feeling so down and really torn between wishing for a miracle and that it’s tripled and everything will be ok. ( crazy I know) and hoping that my levels have dropped massively and bleeding will start soon. DH is being ok but working super hard so never at home and barely saying anything about what’s happening, I just want him to talk to me. And I’m feeling terribly guilty about my boys having a rubbish summer break as I feel I’m not being the best mum either because I’m so stressed [emoji17][emoji17][emoji17]Quote:
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So many hugs to you mummy2boys. ❤️
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Mummy2, I am so sorry and sad to hear about your confusing and painful situation. I hope you can let go of the guilt about your boys' summer. You are doing as well as you can for them, given the circumstances.
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Thank you Gafan and MommyQuote:
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Just got my results, gone up a small amount to 3800 ish ( I didn’t listen properly to the number) waiting for the doctor to call with the plan for what happens next.
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Just spoke to consultant, they want me to go in tomorrow to talk about options, either methotrexate or surgery. I don’t want either! Anyone had any experience of these? They are treating it as an ectopic even though there was a sac seen.
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I don't have any experience with this, just wanted to say I am so very sorry you're going through this. I saw what atomic wrote and that made sense. Is there a way for them to explain to you why they want to treat for the ectopic even if there is a sac in the uterus? They know way more than me, but I think questions are never too many.Quote:
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Sending you so so so so so many hugs.
Hi!
Im new in this forum! Due early May 2019...
I have a question on betas...
Went the first day I had faint Bfp, and had Hcg of 5.
I started to worry to I went in 24 hours later... it was now in 14.
I know its the doubling that counts... but is tripling the numbers in just 24 hours too much? Ive read it should double in 48 hours. This was in 24 hours, and almost 3 times.
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Happymommy mine once went from 9 to 44 in 48 hours. It's common and normal for hcg to rapidly increase in these very early stages.
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Phew... thanks that makes me feel a bit better...Quote:
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How are you doing mummy?Quote:
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Mummy2boys checking in as well. Hope you are doing ok
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Missed this somehow and seen it quoted by kiku...Quote:
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Will they not monitor levels for a few more days?? I know someone who has had the methotrexate and went on to conceive the fourth cycle after. Pretty sure it's a 3 month minimum wait to conceive again due to it being in your systemthat long... You'd have to clarify with them though. Seems a bit odd to suggest surgery if they're not even sure [emoji848]
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Hi ladies, they’ve decided now they think it’s a missed miscarriage rather than ectopic so I’m having medical management tomorrow. I wanted it to pass naturally so have had one final hcg to see if it’s going down yet and just waiting for results. Has anyone had the tablets before? Think they are a pessary?
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Mummy I suppose that’s “good” news. I think atomic wrote up about tablets in a miscarriage post somewhere. I’ve heard they can be hit or miss.Quote:
Originally Posted by mummy2boys
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Mummy, given the circumstances I'm glad to hear they think missed miscarriage. With mine I had the D&C, no tablets. Thinking of you.Quote:
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I'm glad they found it was a missed miscarriage instead of an ectopic, I hope the rest of this time goes as smoothly as possible for you. remember, we are all here if you need to chat about anything. Im very sorry you are going through this right now, it just isnt fair xox
Sorry I didn’t see this before being as you’ve probably already made your decision. I’ve used the tablets for a missed miscarriage before. They were inserted vaginally. Doc said they can be taken orally but vaginally is more effective. It was a hard process but over within 8 hours. I felt like I was constantly on the toilet. Painful cramps. Weak from losing blood and fluids. It caused diarrhea too. I had a friend go through the same situation and she had a very similar experience. It wasn’t pleasant by any means but pretty sure nothing of this nature is. I haven’t had a d&c so can’t really compare.Quote:
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Sorry for all you’re going through. [emoji22][emoji177]
Hi ladies,
I hope that by writing this I don't make everyone think I'm a psychopath, but I just wanted to get this off my chest. Usually during the follicular phase of ovulation I am a very calm, slow to anger person, but during the luteal phase I have a strange anger problem, and now in pregnancy the anger problem is stronger and there seems to be no end in sight (until after delivery). Why I call my anger problem strange is because I don't (thank goodness!) act out on it, I just have terribly violent fantasies so intense that I clentch my fists.
I tried googling rage fits in pregnancy, and it seems pretty common, but for everyone else it was directed at their DH as a response to something annoying he just did, and then they yell at him. I sometimes feel a dull resentment toward DH, but the burning rage is never directed at him, in fact it's directed at various people who mistreated me in the past (and nothing like sexual abuse) and who I haven't even seen for quite some time and aren't in my life anymore. And I just get these violent fantasies of mauling them which is way overreacting to what they did to me.
I don't think I need to see a psychiatrist because I am not acting out on the anger, and once the rage fit passes I am ashamed of what I imagined doing to the person. I'm not interested in getting on some kind of medicine, but would like practical tips on how to stop/minimize this rage.
Has anyone experienced anything similar?
Yes, I have the same thing and I've learned it's actually only the first week of the luteal phase (at least for me) and I figure it has to be progesterone. Actually kind of looking forward to menopause to get rid of it to be honest. Sometimes it's anger with someone present, other times it's things from the past or more global situations where I just get furious with people that I don't even know LOL.
Some months are terrible, some months are barely there. I felt it was at its worst during my late 30's and has gotten better since then.
Ugh... my HG (hyperemesis gravidarum). I was puking at midnight, 130ish, 330ish, 5ish, 630 before work, 730 at work, and ended for now at 1230. Kept down half of lunch and went almost 24 hours with no food or fluids staying down.
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@MrsEnglish - dont worry you're not alone with the crazy angry moodiness, I have struggled with that ever since having my daughter, I think my hormones have shifted a little because it does feel different.
@HGmama - oh you poor thing, that must be terrible! are you taking any medication to try and ease the nausea at all? hoping it improves for you soon xo how long were you sick with your last pregnancy?
my whole family has gone down with a cold so we've just been laying low and trying to recover :( getting sick while pregnant really takes it out of you thats for sure :( went to my 1st Drs appoint last tuesday and got a request form for my Harmony Test and also a routine ultrasound at around 12 weeks, so yea will be waiting for those when they come up in a few weeks.
Missiz- my HG lasted until approximately 33 weeks, and then was able to stay on just oral meds. I went to ER at 14 weeks for fluids and then L&D for fluids at 16 weeks and then started home health at 18 weeks. So I got IV fluids at home when needed and then started a zofran pump in my abdomen from weeks 18-33. I delivered at 38 weeks.
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HGmama that sounds so intense!! how awful for you :( I didnt even know there was such thing as a zofran pump, but I am glad it helped you at least some. I wonder if this pregnancy will be different, maybe it wont last as long? FX for you anyway xox
HGMama, you're a hero in my eyes. Fx for you that it will be less severe this time. All the mom's who suffer HG are heros in my eyes. I don't vomit often (maybe once every two years) but when I do it totally knocks me out where I won't go to work that day and won't go shopping or do chores, just stay in bed all day.
Last pregnancy I had pretty bad nausea the first trimester but the only time I vomited during pregnancy was when I was in labor. So far this pregnancy is the same with nausea but no vomiting.
Well it looks like it was a miscarriage rather than ectopic as my levels have plummeted from over 4000 to 121 in 4 days. The tablets weren’t that bad really, some cramping for a few hours and then bleeding a bit like a heavy period. They’ve referred me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic too. Just have to take a test in 3 weeks to check it’s negative. It’s so sad to be taking a test and hoping for no line [emoji17]
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thanks for the update mummy2boys, so sad that you have to go through this. I'm sure you feel relieved it wasnt an ectopic but it definitely doesnt make it any easier :( I hope it all goes as smoothly as possible for you xo