What if we were to shower say a few hours after we DTD is that a good idea?
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What if we were to shower say a few hours after we DTD is that a good idea?
yes, once a few hours has passed it's fine to go about your business. The sperm are up inside by then.
We used plenty of pre-seed and are now expecting our little boy after 3 girls. :bluecheer:
I used Pre-Seed when I conceived both of my boys, not realizing that it swayed in any way. Needless to say I will not be using it while TTC our girl!
Atomic, here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...-pre-seed.html you say this:''How to use Pre-Seed to sway blue - Use some Pre-Seed every other day starting after AF is over (it doesn't need to be a lot, because it's expensive...just enough so your body is somewhat used to it when your attempt rolls around) then a bit more every day during your fertile window and then ALSO as a lube during your attempt. You may want to use the Pre-Seed before bedtime to allow it to spread through the VJ without coming back out. "
So do I use it every other day whether we BD or not or just when we BD?
Unfortunately, my DH is not capable of BDing 2-4 days af-O, so I'll be aiming for O-5, O-3 and O-1. So then lots of PreSeed?
If you say to put it before bedtime, then we should BD in the morning for blue outcome?
(The more I think, the more I'm sure, DH and I are designed to produce baby girls:( )
Where can i buy pre-seed? Have to try on my last attempt for a boy after 3 girls:)
You can get it at the drug store, CVS or Walgreens. I haven't seen it at Wal-Mart.Quote:
Originally Posted by Maybeaboyinthefuture?
My question for this... If preseed sways boy n ky sways girl, what would ky + baking soda sway? I have ky jelly n was planning to mix with bsf. Boy sperm like the higher Ph setting. So do you think adding the ky n bsf increase the boy? Just wondering since I did see a couple ladies used preseed and got girl. I guess it depends what else they did if they were actually swaying and not just ttc period. Im going shopping later today going to see if I can find this somewhere and check the price.... Im kinda confused on which I wanna use after reading all of these responses. I see most got boy with preseed but did see some girls. And I know boys like the higher Ph which is what baking soda does.. hmmm... looks like Im off to google lol.
I think you can get it online if you cannot find it at your local chemist/drugstore.Quote:
Originally Posted by Maybeaboyinthefuture?
Also, you may be able to find a different brand of sperm-safe lubricant where you live. Anything that is marketed as sperm safe, conception safe, fertility friendly, ALL will sway blue.
Do not mix KY with baking soda. KY is NOT sperm friendly and will sway pink whether or not you mix it with baking soda. It's about a lot more than just the pH. Stay AWAY from KY for a boy!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Momofboys
There will ALWAYS be a couple people who did X,Y,Z and got an opposite. No sway tactic can ever be 100% and people who have male-factor infertility (sways pink) are often told to use Preseed and may get girls with it, but that's because they may be "preset" for girls to begin with. It doesn't mean that for the average person Preseed sways pink, because it doesn't. we've gotten darn good results with the Preseed.
Pre seed has the perfect PH for boys :agree: no bs needed.
Oh sorry somehow I missed this the first time thru.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac
Yes, I would have you use it every other day or even every day, before you are starting your attempt, just in case your body doesn't "like" it and wants to wash it away. Not a ton of it, just about the size of a coin or so.
The only reason to use some at bedtime is to make sure it has time to melt and get into all the nooks and crannies. You can have your attempt at any time of day you like. Use more Preseed with your attempt. Unlike the pink sway jellies, there's no such thing as too much Preseed, it's fine to use a coin's worth at bedtime, again the next morning, and then the following night for your sway.
I am a little concerned with the timing of your attempts - timing doesn't sway, of course, but we want max numbers of sperm onhand to meet the egg and O-5 and O-3, while they will still help and are good for DH's sperm count, are still a bit far out to provide those max numbers of sperm. Is there any way you could have more than one attempt from O-1 thru O day? Or even an attempt on O-2? Highest rates of sperm survival is O-2, o-1, and O Day so by DTD more than once during that time period, you ensure you're getting good numbers of sperm to the egg.
I used preseed and got preg with ds2. Had no idea it swayed blue!!!
Me too I used withouth knowing it will sway blue and got a boy, I used 10 minutes befor BD I think is great for blue swayers :)
I used preseed with DS1, just wanted to get pregnant asap and it seemed like good idea, only used it just before attempts as lube kinda thing. Beauitiful boy was result!
I so appreciate hearing from people and y'all taking the time to share your experiences with us! Invaluable!
Hello,
We had our DS with preseed but we didn't know about swaying then.
DS is now 3 and we would love to have a baby girl. I'm worried as we had several months of failed TTC, charting, good timing etc. before using the preseed and getting our BFP. Everything for girl sways seems to make conception less likely and I do wonder whether we'll get anywhere without preseed helping us along! I'm 34, DH is 38, no known fertility issues.
I've been trying to do the LE diet, I have to take baby aspirin for another condition. At the end of the day another boy would be just as loved and wanted as a girl but I can just picture myself giving in and getting preseed after a few failed attempts, having boy no 2 and wondering if I should have been more patient!
The trouble is I have a health condition (unrelated to fertility) and have to change medication when TTC, so really we need to get pregnant ASAP to shorten the time I'm off my normal medication. At the end of the day a boy would be just as wanted and loved but you can't help but wonder what if :think:
Lots of people have gotten girls on Preseed too, though. It's not a magic bullet and if you need it, you need it.
Thank you - it's not easy to be patient when you're TTC!!!
I was on Clomid but had a very boy friendly diet and used Pre seed with several attempts and conceived a boy.
We used preseed also and had a boy! Didn't know about swaying.
I used pre-seed and pretty sure going by nub shots and everyones guesses I have a son coming :babym:. Will find out on Monday.
It's very luby though, DH didn't like it much. Had to use a little. Not too much.
Good luck.
Two boys using pre-seed and clomid here.
I have two boys and used preseed with both...this was before I knew anything about swaying!
Used preseed with my first boy and had a boy friendly diet and loads of ewcm. Didn't use anything with the other 2 but naturally have too much ewcm.
I used preseed as part of my sway and I am having a boy :)
I used LOTS of KY lube when i concieved DD it was jst something that hubby happnened to pick from CVS, we didnt know back then it wasnt good for sperm!Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
i will be and Am already using preseed soo much more natural!
I agree with you A.S. and I am one of those who it happened to. We were always said to have MFI although some times I think it is more severe than other times. Only took 7 months this time but we used Preseed just to get us pregnant. Never in my life would I have guessed that I would have a daughter but she is due on June 20th. I do think we probably were "preset" to have a girl being we have MFI. All I know is I just heard your voice saying "you can't get your desired gender, if you can't get pregnant at all" so I took the plunge and used the Preseed. Just my two cents worth :curtsey:Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
i am about to start trying for a little boy in the next couple of days.....I was planning on using pre seed and doing the baking soda finger but now i am torn on the BSF......what was your experience with this? I see you dropped it.....how come?
I'm not sure if you're asking me this but the reason why people are dropping BS is that they are not getting pregnant while using it, it's causing irritation and horrible yeast infections, and biologically it is just as bad for sperm to encounter very high pH as it is very low pH. Y sperm do not love high pH, NO sperm love high pH - it kills them. Preseed is designed to be perfect pH for sperm survival, and for reasons we do not understand, everythign that helps sperm to survive, sways blue.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cdurkin12
I tried the BSF and I hated it, it burned and was very uncomfortable and I wasn't getting a BFP while using it. The month I dropped it and just used preseed I got pregnant and had a little boy :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Cdurkin12
I thought I would chime in here that we used Conceive Plus Fertility Lubricant when we conceived our DS2. I didn't know lube swayed at the time, and we wanted to try Conceive Plus before we spent the money on Pre-seed, because this was less expensive. I would recommend it to anyone trying for a boy. Got pregnant the first cycle using it too. Good luck, girls!
Uh oh, I didn't know it swayed blue and we used preseed this time and we really are hoping for a girl! We have 3 awesome boys. DH does not have MFI. I was also taking baby aspirin, Mucinex, and Vitex (only 1 cycle on Vitex). We also used soft cups. So far nub looks very girly. Fingers and toes crossed!
I hope this is it for you Blended!
None of these things are magic bullets and people can and do get either gender using them.
I do not recommend Preseed or Conceive Plus for TTC a girl and I do not recommend soft cups for anyone.
Yes Conceive Plus is also good for blue! thanks for sharing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mrs.Ingram
3 boys
1st dtd on full moon and o-cramps lots of natural ew only one time
2nd used robitussin lots of ew and dtd all week long
3rd preseed, maca, roysl jelly and dtd every other day missed o day- twins
This time rephresh, vitex, sylk, baby aspirin, and prayed- twins again (gender unknown)
7 pregnancies and 4 losses :(
We just found out we're having a GIRL!!! So, Preseed didn't sway boy for us this time!
Can I ask if this pre-seed can be used as per attached pics as it stated sperm friendly at the same time mimic women V ph which may sway pink. Im trying for blue and already on diet now
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Any sperm safe lubricant (such as Preseed) sways BLUE. It mimics vaginal pH around ovulation which is high and sways blue. It is NOT low pH - Preseed is vaginal pH at ovulation (high). Preseed is a blue-friendly lube and sways blue.
Great purchased it. By second week i will add on my sway. Fingers crossed. Throw all the blue dust you have to me...Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
@atomic - If I was to sway with Clomid, what lubricant would you recommend that would be ok for a girl sway if pre-seed sways blue?