Due in December/January/February 2013/14

Welcome oxo - you are due just before me. I have a girl's name (Emily) but no boys name. We had a few left over last time so might just use one of those as we loved them but didnt want to burden the little man with loads of names!

I don't have a boy or girl feeling yet but will totally be nubsessing! My 12 week will be here in Spain and after that I am not sure what will be available if anything! Yikes I am soooo impatient I would hate to have to wait till the birth. I also think DS1 and 2 would like to know.

I wish I was going to be a nub guesser but sadly I wont get another sono after my 9 week check til about 19-20 weeks. But I will be finding out at that time! Its just a matter of if we will decide to tell people we know or keep it a secret in order to avoid all the comments! I have not made my gender preference a secret after DS2 tho so I think just about everyone I am close to will know how disappointed I will be if it is a boy and I dont want to give them that pleasure! I know I will be happy when he is here (if he is indeed a he) and I wont care what people say!

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Originally Posted by Tree

I feel in girl mode for this one, because I swayed I guess. BUT I felt that DS2 was a girl, in fact I was really quite sure... So... Not reading too much into that got a feeling thing. I think it's hard when you want something for your mind not to persuade you one way or another. With my first I didn't have the slightest preference and I really felt he was a boy, which he was. Perhaps being impartial is the only way you get a genuine feeling? And I would expect even then it's wrong a lot.

My symptoms with DS2 were so much worse than DS1. In fact the two pregnancies were very different. And so far this one is quite a lot different too, more so then the others (at this stage) but I won't be reading into that either.

I do find it hard to imagine having a girl in some ways, largely because its an unknown and then also because I'd really like one. But above all I just want a happy healthy baby. I did my best sway so if a boy got in then he earned his place. :-) And its funny because I wanted DS2 to be a girl and oh my goodness he is just so adorable, wouldn't change him for anyone!

Hopefully we all get our dream genders. Statistically at least some of us will so that's something right. But who will it be....???

Who is doing early gender scans? Who's waiting until 20 weeks? And who is waiting until the birth?

And will you guys be nub guessing?

Welcome oxo!!!

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Tree I just love how you said if another DS comes that's because he earned that place, nicely said. I feel the same if Im blessed with a little precious daughter she was made for me!

I'm the same right now my pregnancies are totally different I feel different Symptoms but i know all pregnancies are different. again it doesn't say opposite genders all the time so I'm not even thinking into it, otherwise I know very well I will start over thinking things and making myself believe ( but my sixth sense still tells me it's a girl)

I deff want to go for an early gender scan, ill be in Manchester by then so I don't know if they will give me a date for a scan, so ill prob go private they offer gender scans at 16 weeks.. I'm trying to look into the nub theory alittle
More so I could have an idea when I do have my first scan lol
..I'm still bad at guessing though!

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Originally Posted by afy

Tree I just love how you said if another DS comes that's because he earned that place, nicely said. I feel the same if Im blessed with a little precious daughter she was made for me!

I'm the same right now my pregnancies are totally different I feel different Symptoms but i know all pregnancies are different. again it doesn't say opposite genders all the time so I'm not even thinking into it, otherwise I know very well I will start over thinking things and making myself believe ( but my sixth sense still tells me it's a girl)

I deff want to go for an early gender scan, ill be in Manchester by then so I don't know if they will give me a date for a scan, so ill prob go private they offer gender scans at 16 weeks.. I'm trying to look into the nub theory alittle
More so I could have an idea when I do have my first scan lol
..I'm still bad at guessing though!

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Hello afy how have u been? I feel this pregnancy is goin to be a long one. I do feel its another girl with me. Even dh thinks it another girl. But its ok, i will love her just like my first two. I dont feel sick or have been. Spots have cleared. How did ur first appointment go.. Did the giv u an exact date?

I can't believe I'm only in week six!! I'm so scared of another miscarriage :(

Was hoping that a bit of crying in the Doctors office this morning would mean I could wangle myself an early ultrasound but no such luck! It seems that two miscarriages in a row simple isn't enough for the NHS to put their hands in their pockets. I really don't know if I can hold out another six weeks! I would be even more devastated if bad things were happening now and I didn't find out until the end of June.

Feeling down :( miscarriages ruins pregnancy xx

3boys you are pregnant again?! How did i miss that? Huge congrats, :fx: everything is fine! Happy and healthy nine months!!

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Originally Posted by 3boys

I can't believe I'm only in week six!! I'm so scared of another miscarriage :(

Was hoping that a bit of crying in the Doctors office this morning would mean I could wangle myself an early ultrasound but no such luck! It seems that two miscarriages in a row simple isn't enough for the NHS to put their hands in their pockets. I really don't know if I can hold out another six weeks! I would be even more devastated if bad things were happening now and I didn't find out until the end of June.

Feeling down :( miscarriages ruins pregnancy xx

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I know from experience......it was so hard to be full of hope when I got pregnant that 4th time. He was my rainbow baby for sure!! And I pray that you get to experience a healthy, happy 9 months along will all the other girls here!!!

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Originally Posted by 3boys

I can't believe I'm only in week six!! I'm so scared of another miscarriage :(

Was hoping that a bit of crying in the Doctors office this morning would mean I could wangle myself an early ultrasound but no such luck! It seems that two miscarriages in a row simple isn't enough for the NHS to put their hands in their pockets. I really don't know if I can hold out another six weeks! I would be even more devastated if bad things were happening now and I didn't find out until the end of June.

Feeling down :( miscarriages ruins pregnancy xx

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If you have any cramping or spotting you can self refer yourself if you've had two or more miscarriages...

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Originally Posted by Pumpkin2011

3boys you are pregnant again?! How did i miss that? Huge congrats, :fx: everything is fine! Happy and healthy nine months!!

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Oh wow Pumpkin your pregnant too! huge Congratulations :)

I haven't really been on here much which is why you probably didn't realise :) don't panic... It wasn't pregnancy brain ;)
I plan on settling down on this board now that I have my BFP, before then I was finding it all too painful.

Pray we both get our little rainbows :)

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Originally Posted by I Love Ladybugs

I know from experience......it was so hard to be full of hope when I got pregnant that 4th time. He was my rainbow baby for sure!! And I pray that you get to experience a healthy, happy 9 months along will all the other girls here!!!

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Thank you :) this means a lot x