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Awww Jen/Skrimpy those girls are gorgeous!! Thank you all for the lovely words of encouragement. Been feeling bad for a couple of days because i've lost interest in the baby...i heard myself speaking to the baby saying "just bear with mommy for a bit while i mourn the son i'll never have". Feel awful for feeling like this but i know it will pass in time. Hope baby understands
B, you only 33 am i right so maybe you could try for another one. It's too late for me i'm 39
Another thing i find myself saying when i'm out & about & see boys/men i'm like there are so many of them so surely they arent hard to conceive so why have i not managed to do that?? I know someone who's absolutely rejoicing that i'm having a girl because she's always been jealous of me & now that she has a boy & girl she thinks she's managed to do something i havent.
Well if thats all she's got on you then I wouldn't sign herself up for the Nobel prize just yet:) Can she also tie her own shoes I wonder?? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by babydes56
Too funny! So when do you find out? FX it's a boy, we need more happy news on hereQuote:
Originally Posted by ELP
Glad it made you smile:) I have a scan on the 25th but I've never asked before. I think I should ask so then at least the info can be used by others swaying atm. If its a boy I'll be pleased but also a little sad that I can't swap with one of you ladies, I have some blues and would happily swap a blue ticket for a pink one with one of you guys xx One of us needs to win the lotto and start the GD high tech scholarship:agree:Quote:
Originally Posted by babydes56
I am totally sure your baby will understand :) Don't feel guilty- now is THE best time to grieve and work through your feelings of loss for your son , so that you are in the best place you can be when you welcome your baby girl it is better to take the time now IMOQuote:
Originally Posted by babydes56
I think it is a totally normal grieving process you are going through....I have a strong feeling I may be feeling very similar very soon and i plan to give myself the same leave pass :) Afterall our emotional health will impact on our new babies when they arrive-- so really when you get right down to it your doing all this for her!
ELP- oh I'd love to see my dd's duplicate lol and please oh please find out :bigsmile:
Baby- thanks! It took me a while when I found out dc3 was yet another girl. I looked up stories of u/s being wrong and even paid for a second one to be sure. I will admit even though I knew I refused to believe till she was born. Within a few hours I was in love but still got a little sad every time I walked past a baby with the "It's a Boy" sign in their bassinet. 4 yrs later she's my little buddy, we're closer then I was with the others she doesn't know or remember I didn't want her to be a her. Don't feel guilty for being upset no matter how long it takes to shake it.
My bil laughed in dh's face when he found out dc3 was a girl while they were having a boy. I hate people who need to feel superior.
How bout you Cheeky, finding out soon?
Ugh. I guess he isn't laughing now though! :D My BIL laughed when we had DD#4 and they had their 2nd boy. They already had BGGG. We were due the same month and I knew she would have a boy from the mean comments BIL kept making even though they kept the gender a secret until birth.Quote:
Originally Posted by 3Pink1Blue
ELP - I'm sure you are going to hear boy :) Great sway btw!