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Thank you for all your support ladies. No one else to talk to.
I mean I can and do talk to DP but I don’t think he realises quite how much I think about it.
I’m feeling pretty low, I’m getting a glimpse of the feelings ahead for me and I’m scared.
I really want to believe that there is still hope but feel like I’m setting myself up for an even bigger fall.
Ah sonny I know, it’s scary to have hope in case it makes you feel worse in the long run. I think preparing/expecting a boy is a good idea and then anything else is a lovely surprise. Have you thought of a boys name? I’d picked one and was calling it by the name. It didn’t take away the feelings though. I really hope they manage to see something at your next scan so your mind can rest. Maybe once your holiday is over work will distract your mind so time goes quicker as it just drags so much doesn’t it. Could you afford to have an early scan privately to see if you can get better images? .
The more I look at your picture the more I don’t see what they’ve drawn as accurate. It’s not accurate either way anyway as it’s too early and all nubs can rise at this stage but I don’t see it as a boy nub yet, even when I draw a line meeting up with the bladder. When I look at my babies curled up pictures the bladder looked a lot lower than the nub which if you drew through it would be boy angle... I just really think their guess is totally unreliable so please try not to dwell on it. This is what a get from your picture, one discounting bladder theory (red) and one taking bladder theory into account (green). Hope you don’t mind me drawing on your pic Attachment 41628
I think Bobsters drawing makes more sense too
Thanks bobster and sparkles. I think they missed out half the nub in their drawing too but I still thin it probably is a boy. I’m so obsessed at the moment.
I remember being like this with my DS2. Everyone guessed boy and I was online for hours looking at boy nubs that turned out to be a girl. Even at the gender scan I was looking up how possible it is to get that wrong. I think I’m doing the same now.
I’ve got a couple more scan photos and it looks even more like stacking :(
I can’t find any pictures online that look the same though as the lines are long.
I’ll post a photo. But scared you’ll all confirm boy. I guess I have to face reality.
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Stacking with three lines. I was hoping it was a leg or cord!
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DS2 scan at 12weeks
Everyone guessed boy. Very obvious!
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Another pic from this baby scan 12w
More stacking but three lines
That does look like stacking, but I'm not great at guessing.
Maybe Nell will have a look? She seems great at nubs.
I do think there have been so many wrong guesses though, best wait to get a yay or nay from your next scan.
Do you have a date?
Btw Sony.
I posted my pics to a facebook guessing site last week.
The first guess was girl, and i felt so relieved, then throughout the day dozens of boy guesses.
Everyone sees something different