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Junie- my goodness do you ever need a break! I think it is wise to add in small amounts of meat to give yourself some extra nutrients- you need them at this point! I think your maternal condition may be too low! I think you'll be fine!
Sage- I agree with Junie, your little man will come to you soon!
I'm rooting for all of you ladies and Xing everything!
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Congratulations sc1411!!
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way Junie. .Take care of yourself.
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Junie you have done so so well to keep going after your mc and while you've been ill and with two kids to look after! Maybe you could have some more cals without upping your nutrients too much. You have come SO far!
I have set myself up for a massive disappointment if I don't get pg this cycle. It's my first o since the mc last December so I know I'd be very lucky to catch it. But I am a wild wild optimist despite all the evidence! Poor DH is exhausted - and it isn't as wonderful as it sounds having as much sex as you can in a four day period! Well, here we go. One last attempt tomorrow if possible - but here I am in the dreaded 2ww. I wish I could just wake up 14dpo.
I need some advice.
We bd Sunday night ( pos opk, clear blue gave me smiley and cb motor gave me a peak fertility 12 hours later).
I'm doubting whether my attempt worked since my husband claims he abstained for a WHOLE MONTH.
My dilemma is whether to bd tonight. Clear blue monitor gave me another peak day today ( last peak day). Opk turned pos after 8 min ( not like it turned pos super fast last 2 days) and clear blue digital DOESNT give me smiley face.
I'm pretty sure I ovulated very recently. Would you ladies attempt again tonight ( after bd Sunday night)????
I feel my first attempt isn't successful with the long abstain.
Please advise since I need to give a heads up to my husband.
Thanks
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I'm a blue swayer, but I think if you have not ovulated or just recently ovulated you will have two attempts in the window. Hopefully, someone else can help, but the egg might stick around 12-24 hours after O, you will never know. GL!
I'm also a blue swayer. From what I understand, there are quite a few pink swayers who add attempts after not getting pg for a few cycles, aren't there? Your husband will definitely have affected his sperm count abstaining that long - right? Could you do a really shallow, no fun for you, jump right up and run around kind of BD? That would be my way of trying to have it both ways. That way you'd give yourself just a few more swimmers, but not too many...
But there may be expert pink swayers who strongly disagree.
Healthy-I would wait until tomorrow. Then, that's 3 days instead of 2
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I would wait until tomorrow. If you must, you can BD tonight. Just know that it lowers your chance of pink by another 10% down from 70% to 60%. When swaying pink, we NEED all the help we can get!!
Remember, people get pregnant all the time from one attempt with a long abstain. It is your choice to make.
If you did already ovulate, it could be a mute point anyway and likely to not make any difference. On the off chance you haven't though, you could in fact be swaying blue with a new batch of super, duper swimmers.
GL!
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Healthy girl, both my boys were conceived with lots and lots of BD. But according to what I've read from atomic, timing and how much BD you do is the least important when swaying. I'd say go for it, it increases your chances to get pregnant considering you have 12 to 24 hours to catch the egg after you ovulate.