diva... are your pics a lot more convincing this time?
16 more sleeps for me!!!!
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diva... are your pics a lot more convincing this time?
16 more sleeps for me!!!!
It was a very late loss I think as they had a funeral for him.Quote:
Originally Posted by fish2012
My cousin was over last night and she went on the computer and I had it on this web site and she saw my user name and everything and is talking about swaying for a third girl... :s anyways the conversations My thoughts and everything I talk about on here are private to me in a sense I would not talk to family about it... And now I'm worried that she will be coming here and reading all my stuff...
Oh wanting rubbish I had to come off baby centre as a friend did similar that sucks ;-(. Change your user name?!?
I tried to up sell ingender lol cause I don't use that one
Can you not change your name?
Ha ha cunning ;-)
I'm not sure if I can change my name... I know she's not planning on ttc for a year
You can change your name but I am not sure who you need to talk to about it.
Message nothin but pink she'll be able to do it for you xx
Thanks... I will if it comes down to it...
What a shame Wanting. I'm sure Atomic would change it for you under the circumstances.
Fish, I think it's a lovely idea to name the little one. For what it's worth, someone in my first mothers group lost one twin too, and she had no further complications and her daughter was fine. I hope they gave you enough information to reassure you, but I suppose it would be hard to take it in at the time. Is it possible to ring your obs and ask a few more questions if you find you're getting anxious about it?
This is going to be quick as I am dead tired but here are the new pics. Taken at 16+3. I am posting the 2nd one just because it's rather cute! :)
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[QUOTE=divakotka;377328]This is going to be quick as I am dead tired but here are the new pics. Taken at 16+3. I am posting the 2nd one just because it's rather cute! :)
Glad you got some clearer pictures this time!! These pics look a lot clearer than your others.
So I had to share what I have been doing all day... I must be crazy!! Now my back hurts because I spent half the day bent over but it will be worth it to see the look on his face. This is what DS2 requested on his birthday cake!! I am sure you ladies on here can relate with the boy themed birthday cakes. Most popular theme in my house is some sort of superhero.
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WOW Wanting!! That's fantastic! I bet he'll be over the moon!
18 hrs to go til scan time..
NBP will have no problem changing that for you! Message her! And yes, If it were me I would totally change my name, and take down pictures, years my sons were born, and location .. in a heartbeat. It's NOBODY'S business but yours! Bringing that stuff into your family will only bring ridicule, judgement, heartbreak, and embarrassment. I will tell nobody else in my life besides those that already know. It's just none of their business at all. Period!Quote:
Originally Posted by Wanting-a-girl
WOW!! Wanting - that is some cake!!! Awesome!! My boys would LOVE that!!
well done x
Good luck for your scan Honeychild. Who else is having scans this week? I need someone to stalk! I'm seeing my ob in a few weeks and I know she'll do a gender guess for me then (I'll be 15 weeks) but that's AGES away.
Thorz, I think going to a gender scan with your DH is essential, either way it takes the pressure off the anatomy scan.
That is an awesome cake Wanting. My girls know better than to expect such marvels from me!
Even though I "know" things are likely to be fine I'll take the Materniti21 blood test tomorrow. I'd decided it was unnecessary and my ob and husband agreed but over the weekend my mind changed again. The results will take three weeks so I need to do the test and forget about it.
Fish, hope you're doing ok.
Thanks Mum23. Can I swap you my blue dust for your pink dust?
Good luck with your test tomorrow too. It's an extra bit of peace of mind, that's always a good thing, but I'm glad you're feeling better about the odds now, that's great.
You can have ALL my pink dust!
Thanks! :D
Wanting....Thant cake is awesome! I love making my boys birthday cakes, and I relate EVERYTHING in this house is super hero related!!
Ugh I just had a vivid dream about this baby being a boy! It was a dream about the scan and there were boy bits staring right at me!!! Like I said, I better just plan on boy!!
Hey mum two three nhs reassurance scan on Wednesday and private gender scan on Friday!
Thorz my dh can't come to my twenty week anatomy scan either so partly why I've booked private gender scan so I don't find out on my own!
Baby is very active today and I've actually felt her on the outside!! She doesn't seem to like me sitting cross legged, probably because she's still VERY low down and feels squashed! I wish she'd move up as my cervix is getting sore and I'm getting fed up of constantly needing the loo for a little trickle!
Still can't believe I'm saying 'she' and 'her'!!!!
Wanting -- that cake is amazing! Way to go, momma! :)
Honeychild, I can't wait for your scan. Not much longer now but I know those last hours really drag.
Hey there Fish, how have you been? I've been thinking about you. Big hugs...
Oh ladies I just had a good experience. First off, I've stopped going to girl baby showers a long time ago because I ALWAYS leave in tears, and I won't hold my friends baby girls because its too hard on me. Well today I was at church and the gal conducting the Sunday school has a baby girl and she came to me and said can you please hold her while I conduct???i couldn't say no, besides she was already in my arms before I could respond lol! I DID IT I HELD A BABY GIRL WITHOUT TEARING UP or even getting sad! The church service was just what I needed too to remember that whatever gender I have growing inside of me, it is a blessing! I'm in a good place today... Besides that I went through all the confirmed boy nubs and confirmed girl nubs and I'm feeling that it looked a lot more girly. I know boys can have forks in them too, but my nub was obviously long and forked, and I didn't see any in the confirmed boy nubs that looked like mine and found quite a few that looked like mine in the confirmed girl section. Problem is I'm hoping my memory isn't playing tricks on me since I didn't get a shot of it! Lol anyway, today I'm just happy to be in a good place and feel blessed to have a happy healthy baby growing inside of me. I'm happy I have people on here that I can talk to and that understand my emotions concerning the gender of my baby! Thanks girls!!!, I'm excited for all the scans coming up! Fish you are still in my prayers!!
Honey waiting for your update :D
Hey Thorz and diva
Thanks for thoughts and prayers couldn't face church this morning everyone being nice would have been too much ;-(. Anyway mum took boys and ds1 enjoyed learning about donkey day ;-s. think mother in law has told everyone for me!
I'm seeing the midwife tomorrow and looking forward to hearing the heat beat fx!
Thorz weldone I hate the way I feel every time a friend has a dd I hope if nothing else whether this is a boy or girl this horrible experience might get me over that!
Northern so happy for you!
Thanks girls! 6 hours to go now. I've picked out a boys name I love so I've got 'someone' to relate to rather than 'another boy'. I'm going in with my youngest, so I'll have to get the sonographer to tell me in code or write it down or something! I feel like I'm bracing myself for an impact.
Thorz, what a great experience, good for you!
Fish, glad to hear your mum is helping out. Hopefully your dh is back soon.
Northern - aww, so happy for you!
Wanting a girl, when's your scan again? I'm losing track!
I had a terrible dream during the night that I was looking after someone else's little boy beside the sea and lost him! I found him eventually, but by then it was late at night and I was felt SO terrible. Not much sleep for me after that one.
They can have ALL mine too!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mum to three girls
Geez 6 hrs! It will be like midnight here lol
Mine is on the 8th... I'm going by myself... I don't have the patients to wait for a good time for DH and I know I'm gonna be fine regardless of the sex ....
I get to seee my midwife today, so I can book my gender scan. It will be about 2 weeks away. How im going to make that time go fast i have no idea.
In other news. My daughters school lost my daughter. Not a nice feeling to be the only mother standing outside the classroom waiting for their 5yr old and she never comes.
Eventually the school found her on the school bus with an older child who had pulled her on. Thank goodness the bus driver had a cell phone.
It was terribly stressful. School doesn't want to hold any responsibility for allowing her on the bus though.
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Originally Posted by Elements
Omg I would be losing it! My sons school calls me one day saying he's not at school I had a heat attack my heart just sank and they double check and he's there nd this other time they call me telling me he needs to go to the hospital he has a bad head injury! I don't drive and DH was at work so I got my dad to leave work to get him and he gets to the school and it's a different kid! How do these mistakes happen!
Good Luck honeychild xx
That is awful Element, I can only imagine how stressed you would have been standing there waiting for DD! the school should take some responsibility! I myself am a teacher and if I let a child get onto the bus without knowing for sure I would feel terrible and take responsibility. Did the school not get the notification that you would pick her up??
Thorz great to here you are going so well with your GD. I on the other hand am struggling as I found out my SIL is having a girl! I would be happy for them but they seriously don't deserve any children! my poor nephew gets push aside all the time and is dropped on anyone that will have him so they can party!! A baby for them is a government payment top up!! and they get one of each.... it just not fair there are so many more deserving people then my brother and his GF! Like all of you xx
Honeychild- Good luck, can't wait for your update!!
Fish- You've been in my thoughts too HUGS
Tomorrow I have another u/s, this time with the high risk OB. I can't wait to see my little guy again. That's the one upside of being high risk- tons of ultrasounds!
Honey child I have to sleep now - hoping for an update when I wake up ;-)
Oh NO Elements, how terrifying! Was the bus still at the school or had it left? And Wanting AG, that's appalling, a head injury and they call the wrong parents?!
Thinking of you Mum2boys, fairness doesn't seem to play a part in reproduction at all, does it? Some of the loveliest people I know can't have kids, or can only have one, and yet others have amazing luck..
Thanks for the well wishes! It's nice to know I'm not alone. 3 and a half hours now..
Ok ladies, I said I wouldn't obsess over my nub after the first day, but I got to looking at the pics and this one reminds me A LOT OF Northerns nub shot that ended up being a girl! At least I think it was Northerns nub lol. Anyway tell me if you see it. All the nubs we normally see don't show the legs but when it does have the legs in the pic, the nub seems to be more into the body than sticking out if that makes since. I hope I am not seeing things and you can tell me what you think or if you can see it. This is a pic of a pic because I don't have a scanner.
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