Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

You can add my name to the list of failed sways, it's a boy. I really thought I would be OK but it's been a terrible morning. I lost. A sapphire out if my right hand ring that has my and hubby's birthstones, I spilled coffee all over the counter and under the microwave just as I was about to walk out the door, I had to take ds3 with me and he was a tired whining mess and is now overview and refusing to nap, dh couldn't eave work so by the time I got home I am in meltdown mode and in tears and I'm not even sure why.

I know Tiffani3 - I was thinking about asking the tech to write down the gender at my scan in a couple of weeks but then I thought - who am I kidding lol! I know I would be looking before I had even left the room! Plus my dh will no doubt be pointing out the boy bits on the screen before the tech says anything as he did with our last two. x

Oh Winngrin, I'm so sorry, I was sure you were going to come back with happy news. Wish I could give you a big hug, try and take some time out for yourself when you can and have a good cry if you need to. GD sucks big time.

Congrats on your gorgeous little boy, we're all here to help you get your head around it and start looking forward to his arrival. xxxx

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Originally Posted by Winngrin

You can add my name to the list of failed sways, it's a boy. I really thought I would be OK but it's been a terrible morning. I lost. A sapphire out if my right hand ring that has my and hubby's birthstones, I spilled coffee all over the counter and under the microwave just as I was about to walk out the door, I had to take ds3 with me and he was a tired whining mess and is now overview and refusing to nap, dh couldn't eave work so by the time I got home I am in meltdown mode and in tears and I'm not even sure why.

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I'm sorry Winngrin. I'm right there with you today. Tears have been flowing and I didn't think they would. I feel so overwhelmed with all things boy related. I have no desire to buy boy clothes or decorate a blue nursery. I've been there, done that!!

Huge hugs winnigrin, it's okay to cry. So sorry your day has been so off.

This may sound stupid, but I'm angry that so many of us got opposites. This doesn't happen irl, so why here????

I was just looking back at the stats and it looks like we have 13 definite results so far - 9 boys and 4 girls! I know not everyone has found out their gender yet but still it seems like a really high number of boys so far! That isn't including Cinss who were are 99% certain is having a boy too (and swayed boy).
Of that excluding Cinss for now we have 8 failed sways and 5 success sways from what I can see.

The stats have got to start turning around for this group soon surely? Even just based on natural odds of having a boy v girl?!

I don't know...maybe we are the odd ones out and we came together by fate so we would have support.

Doesn't sound stupid Threemen, it almost feels like we've all got our sways mixed up and swayed for an opposite although of course I know we haven't. xx

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Originally Posted by mummypink

Doesn't sound stupid Threemen, it almost feels like we've all got our sways mixed up and swayed for an opposite although of course I know we haven't. xx

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Exactly!! I got a personalized plan and followed all of it. The one thing I didn't use was Rephresh. I know there are no guarantees, but going off of so many other ladies I thought I really had a shot. Knowing nothing is set in stone doesn't take away the sadness I'm feeling today. When I woke up this morning I thought about giving this baby up for adoption. I quickly came to my senses, but worry that I've become someone I don't know. As I'm writing this, I'm crying. I've felt this pain so many times before. I feel so lost.