My poor ds1 has had it 2 times in the past 5 weeks:( he hates missing school!
So I think we are in the second trimester now about? I am alway confused to say at 12+0 or 12+ 6 is heading into the second....
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My poor ds1 has had it 2 times in the past 5 weeks:( he hates missing school!
So I think we are in the second trimester now about? I am alway confused to say at 12+0 or 12+ 6 is heading into the second....
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Wait. I am confused. It is 13+0 or 13+6. Sorry, prego brain/wishful thinking......
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I just got the call from the genetic counselor with my results from the Harmony test. I screened low risk for downs and the trisomies. I was expecting the worst given my age. I can't believe it's all good so far. I'm so relieved. So, she also had the gender information, but I told her that I couldn't hear it. The GD thing is so hard. I keep second guessing myself as to why I didn't do HT with PGD at least one more time. Everything was pointing in the direction that it wouldn't work for me. After 2 PGD failures and 4 other medicated cycles just to try to get pregnant that didn't work. I just have to believe that this this was the only way for me. Except for that little doubt. I just have to believe that I didn't have a choice and that this was something that I tried my hardest at but could not control.
Keshet- congrats on your great testing results! It is amazing you had the strength to pass up knowing the gender. I can definitely understand why. So are you going team green or just not ready yet to find out?? I guess the info will always be there waiting if you change your mind.
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Glad your testing came back low risk keshet that is wonderful news!!!
Ladies i could just cry. My cousins wife just had the first girl on my moms side. 6 boys and now finally a girl. I figured as everyone but me gets one of each but i seriously feel like throwing up because not only did they get my girl...they took my name!!! Of course they didnt know it was what i had picked out but oh man. This hurts.
I'm not sure if I will be able to wait the whole pregnancy. So I may cave before then. But I think that I need to work through the fact that I am actually pregnant at my age. I didn't think that it would happen and for a long time it was a fantasy that was out of reach. In reality, I feel old and am worried about how we will manage. I'm terrified. So the first thing that I need to come to terms with is whether or not it's healthy. I will also do an amnio and will only feel much better when that and the big ultrasound is complete. Then, I need to work on my fears of how can I muster the strength to be a good parent when I am scared. Later, I will deal with the GD. I have to assume it's another boy and I need to be 100% thrilled when he gets here. But, I have 6 months to work on that.
Rosie that really sucks! I would be so upset!
Keshet, glad to hear all is well with babe and I hope it's your DG. Fx
Second trimester is at 13+0 weeks. End of first trimester is 12+6 [emoji6]Quote:
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Keshet- I am [emoji120] that this is your DD!
Rosie- hugs! I'm so sorry for you! I would be upset too. It's hard not to feel gutted. I hope and [emoji120]that you are cooking your own DD!
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Sorry Rosie:( and the name:(
My moms side has mostly boys also. My grandparents (moms parents) have 9 great grandsons and only 1 granddaughter. The girl came after 7 boys, and that cousin just found out she is having another girl.
My mother has 5 grandsons, 3 being mine. I would love to give her a granddaughter. If not I know my younger brother will. But they live across the country so she will hardly get to see his kids if/when he has them.
Sorry again Rosie:(
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