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Hay girls glad you got something to help nc with your nauseous :)
My sil had a dd last night. I'm so jealous and upset. I don't even want to go and see her. Why does everyone seem to get there desired gender :( dh told me over the phone and said now the pressure is on for you :( feel like crying and so selfish for feeling like this.
ahh Tiff, don't feel like your being selfish. I would feel and do feel the exact same way. I get sooo angry when I see Mom's walking around with both sexes and I think why can't I have that? Every time I see someone I know with a new baby girl I am happy for them but I also feel like crying inside. Go ahead and cry:tissue:, let it out, you will feel better. Praying that you have a pink bean inside!! :hug2:
OMG...you are crazy! LOL! Only if it were 2 girls!!!! My luck it would be 2 boys. DS2 had a vanishing twin so it REALLY scares me!Quote:
Originally Posted by Rosie85
Sorry you are down Tiff! GD stinks!!!! My BFF is due in Feb and I am so afraid she will end up with DD2 and I will end up with DS3. It is so hard not to be jealous. Don't let everyone put pressure on you either. You don't need that!
Thanks girls had a good cry feel better now. Dh came home and laughed at me and said she really doesn't have any affect on our lives it doesn't matter what the sex of our baby is all that matters is that it's our baby and it's healthy and we can have as many babies till we get our girl (I don't really want anymore after this one) thank you for your support xx
Aw Tiffani I totally feel the same and it is so hard. Every time I see someone with a baby girl, or that has found out they are having a girl, I feel like they are taking up that years allowance of girls and I am bound to have my fourth boy!! I try so hard to be happy for them, and I truly do want to see everyone here get their DG, but the jealousy is hard to push down. I havent really told anyone except 2 very close friends that we swayed for a girl, because if DS4 comes along I do not want to have to listen to the thoughtless comments about how we didnt get our girl. Some people just dont understand. I had a really bad GD day the other day after my scan, but I'm in a better place now and hope that continues. Im trying to think of it this way:
If someone offered me a free mansion in the mountains or on the beach, I would take the beach house without a second thought. But if I wasnt able to, and was given the mountain house, of course I would adore and be so proud of the mountain mansion, and be so thankful that it was given to me. I would always look at pictures of the beach house and long to be there, even though I am sure I would be thrilled with my life in the mountain house. A baby girl is my beach house, LOL.
I guess its to say I would never be disappointed in HAVING another son, but only would be disappointed that ww would NOT be having a daughter, if it comes to that, and if that makes any sense.
Yeah it does make sense Hun thank you its so hard to see through gd sometime and clearly it's about me and my feelings I should be so happy for her now that she has a pp but when she was pg she said to me if she knew it was another boy she wouldn't bother pushing it out. Which hurt like hell at the time as I have 3ds and thought what a selfish comment to make to me but that's her all over maybe she would have known how I feel if she did have a boy and how low that was for her to say that as like you say they are all gifts to us. I hate gd I wish it would just go away now xx
Ok so I'm in a massive low girls I preferred feeling nothing :( been crying for hours now. Feel as though my chance of a dd is gone my sway was rubbish and I don't deserve it. I've put this poor baby into a awful position I feel so cruel. So selfish. How do you make this stop. xx
Aww tiff :( I don't really know what more to say other then I feel completely the same, GD is a horrible horrible thing! But at least you did sway and I'm sure that would've helped you hun, don't loose all hope all of us could be carrying our dd! Big hugs my love xxxx hope your feeling better today x
Thank you, all of you for your support. I feel a lot better and so much more positive this morning i guess gd just swallowed me hole last night with added pg hormones lol xx