Sorry about your mum's reaction Mummyof3boys, but glad you have your sister to help. It's so nice to have someone near :)
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Sorry about your mum's reaction Mummyof3boys, but glad you have your sister to help. It's so nice to have someone near :)
I know dreaming :( I feel so naive now thinking the second trimester meant were "safe". I am even more anxious for my scan just to make sure things are alright!Quote:
Originally Posted by dreamingpink77
Good luck on your scan tomorrow! What time is it at? Can't wait to hear what they say!!!!!
Dreaming good luck for your scan tomorrow! :)
You guys don't mind me still hanging out on your thread do you? It's just I want to keep with you all and make sure your all ok and see what your all having and share your excitement etc.
OI MRS - U dont even need to ask - be nice to have your support. Hope your doing ok - ive been thinking about you.x
3boys, so glad you're still here :hugs:
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Originally Posted by cvd
It's at 10.00am so quite early. Can't wait to see that everything is alright.
Thanks hun :) Of course we don't mind, if you leave the thread we're gonna miss you so you def have to hang in here :)Quote:
Originally Posted by 3boys
I'm so sorry to read about the two late losses on this board. :( My heart breaks for you, mamas. 3boys, you are more than welcome to stay here with us, you're family now. :) If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. (((big hugs))) to you, mama. :awe:
Oh my goodness. DH is so so mad at me lol. I found a fabulous deal on an infant car seat a loooong time ago so I picked it up! He was upset I purchased it so early but I knew we'd need it so I figured why not with the price it was? I then started looking at double strollers and as I mentioned ages ago I purchased the Britax B Ready. I spent a few hundred on this expensive stroller, it took WEEKS of convincing DH. He was and is still SO MAD that I spent that much on a stroller and in turn he was aloud to buy a new TV for our bedroom!!!! WELL ANYWAY, I just found out today, the car seat I bought ages ago is *NOT* compatible with the friggen Britax universal car seat adapter. So I now have to ATTEMPT to sell this car seat (luckily I have not taken tags or anything off, but I did take it out of the box) and purchase ANOTHER MORE expensive car seat that works with this stroller. He is literally about to shoot me I think HAHA!
Oh hunny i'm sorry your not getting support either - i hope your sister is happy and there for you though. I'm dreading telling my mom - makes it harder that her and i are so close and she is so good to us and our boys, i feel like i've let her down but on the other hand i knew i couldn't go through life regretting not having another child or a try at a daughterQuote:
Originally Posted by Mommyof3boys
Oh dear - at least you have the pregnancy card to play - that usually lets you get away with most things.Quote:
Originally Posted by cvd
My hubby even told me i could have a new pram (which i needed anyway) - he seems so pleased to be getting a daughter and he wants to spoil her already - really sweet although i am a little shocked
I just wanted to let you ladies know I lost baby A yesterday. I had a scan and although last week Baby A was measuring 5 weeks 6 days and had a hr of 134, yesterday Baby A was measuring 6 weeks 3 days but had no heartbeat.
Baby B measured 6 weeks 1 day but its heartbeat was only 44. Also have a bleed (SCH) so the dr thinks I may loss both babies.
Oh my friggen goodness. I am so sorry to hear this!!!!!!! Terrible. I am prying this baby hangs on in there for you. Keep us updated. Hugs to you and your family :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Sunflower3
Thanks cvd. I just keeping praying for Baby B!
So sad to hear spinning and 3 boys sad news and also what sunflower and mum23boys are going through with their twins. Uncertainty and loss is just so hard.
Things are improving a little for me. Not quite so sick everyday now. Just mostly when I am hungry and tired. My kids are pretty full on and don't let me get much rest. But I feel as though I will get through this now. I've had a girlfriend come over and help me with my housework, which really lifted my spirits. And I seem to be able to keep up a little more with it now as the sickness is easing a little but certainly still there, just not so severe.
Oh no what awful news, we don't seem to be doing well on these boards lately, feel like every time i log on someone has some sad news :sad:
Sunflower i really hope baby b makes it (is there any chance for baby a - being that small could it just be a bad position, my son at 6 weeks had no heat beat but was fine, they just said it was too early to detect)
Mrs p - Baby A had a heartbeat last week but not this week. The baby's heart just stopped. I think yesterday morning bc the baby grew from
Last week. My tech spent a lot of to e looking for the heartbeat, but it wasn't there.
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Originally Posted by Violet_
u sure its not twins feeling that bad ?
I'm so sorry for all the beautiful babies that have been lost.. :( You're all amazing and so strong..
Violet I'm sorry you're so sick.. I'm starting to get pretty green now.. Urgh.
I just clicked over 6 weeks today and it may be just in my head but I swear I feel sicker today than yesterday... :(
I still haven't seen a dr, have booked an appointment for 4th of jan, and will have a scan after that.
Sending lots of love and hugs out -- I think we all need them right now xxoo
Oh my Gosh, there's been no shortage of heartbreak here recently, I'm so sorry for the losses. Sunflower, I'll be thinking of you.
I'm really not sure if I have twins on board at all. I haven't had any ultrasounds yet. I kind of feel that I might. But it is possible it's just my desire and wishes coming out.
I was equally as sick with all my boys. Or close to it. I do feel this is the worse pregnancy but perhaps that is just because I am in the thick of it right now. I certainly remember some many many months of suffering and feeling like I had a terminal illness until birth with all of my babies. I guess it's just the way that my body reacts to a little person on board.
Oh you poor chook... I'm feeling rubbish but I've never felt sick past 14 weeks. I hope it eases up for you at least a little soon.. I don't know what I'd do if I was still sick after the first tri. Yurgh..
If you have a scan, when will you do it?
I'm not sure we can afford the $170 for a 12-13 week ultrasound. Although if I could afford it I would have it. My doctor and midwife both want me to have a dating scan as I'm pretty unsure of when I did actually ovulate. But I just don't feel comfortable before second trimester or thereabouts to have an ultrasound. Apparently the dating scan would only be accurate if it was done soon as the earlier in pregnancy it is done the more accurate. So don't think I will still be able to get a free scan if I wait until I'm comfortable to at 12-13 weeks. So unfortunately might not be until 19 weeks. Unless I go to the doctor, and ask if it appears that my uterus if higher then usual or some other reason that points to possible multiples and perhaps he will send me for an ultrasound sooner. I'm just going to play it by ear. I will have at least one ultrasound though. Really uncertain about finding out gender. As much as I know I will love another boy, I can't help but hope for a girl and think I may cry again if told boy and I don't want to cry. I think I need the hope of a girl all the way to the end. Even if it's not a big chance of a girl. I don't want to go through the last half of this pregnancy upset and hurting. I believe this pregnancy is my last chance at a daughter. 4 kids is a lot and DH wants to stop. I also can't keep putting my children through a year off being able to do anything with them while I almost die for a year. My boys want me to do active things with them and all I can do is lie or sit down and whenever I move I vomit or gag. Plus I don't think we can afford more kids and it's not fair to keep bringing children into the world that you can't afford to look after properly. So this is it for us. But that will mean that I want it to be a girl even more. Ahh, to not have a gender preference would be so nice.
I'm so very sorry sunflower. Sending my love xQuote:
Originally Posted by Sunflower3
I am so so sorry Sunflower.
Ladies, so sorry to hear of the sad updates. What a roller coaster journey for you all. Thinking of you all & hope you are all coping ok. :awe:
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Oh my God, another loss :( So sorry about this Sunflower, I really don't know what to say anymore. I know it's hard hun but I'm praying for you that at least your other baby will make it through. So sorry dear :(
Sunflower :sad: I am SO Sorry about your loss. :sadflwr: I hope that your other little bean stays STRONG!!! I hope that the Lord sustains you and your family through this difficult time so you can all make it through the holidays.
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UPDATE GIRLS! Just came back from gynae....it's a BOY! Was not easy to see and gynae said he is 90% convinced it's a boy. Little one kept on moving all the time, I think he's gonna be a naughty one! There were either his legs or the cord in the middle so he couldn't see well. He tried with a potty shot and I thought I saw his penis but gynae said that that was the cord. Then tried with a 4D and we think we saw his eggies down there, so probably boy. Gynae said don't go buy blue yet, but i'm sure it's a boy. He seems healthy and is measuring 16weeks 3days, almost a week ahead. I think I need to eat less chocolate and cakes! Don't want him to be too big for delivery :(
I already had my cry in the car, but after reading this thread, I'm trying to be positive and think how lucky I am that the baby is healthy, but it is not easy to admit that I'lll never gonna have my lovely girl. This is the last one for us, so bye bye girlie :( My son is going to be very happy though, he really wanted a boy, so at least that's a plus! I'm waiting for him to come from school and he finished early today cause they had the Christmas party.
Please say a little prayer for me so that I learn to accept this little one soon, I feel so guilty for wanting him to be a girl :(
:HH: again to you Dreaming, Congrats on the healthy blue bean! I promise you it will be okay! And hey, one day if you guys change your minds and have another baby, your DD will have one more big brother to protect her! ;) Respond to my pm, I'm anxious to send you something!
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Congrats dreaming! I know you will love your little boy to pieces. Plus it's so nice to have brothers to have each other and be best friends! Congrats again Hun!!! xxxx
Dreaming I am so glad to hear all went well and baby was healthy. Congrats to you! What did your son say when you told him??Quote:
Originally Posted by dreamingpink77
Congrats dreamimg x you will adore your little boy - hopefully one day you will get your dd x
Aww Dreaming, 2 boys are so special together. The relationship that my boys have with eachother is really beautiful, I'm not entirely sure my eldest could've had this bond with anyone else but DS2. Congrats and enjoy your boys!
Dreaming congratulations on your healthy blue bean. If I was only having 2 then I think I would prefer the same gender for the bond between the two brothers or sisters.
So we went for a visit yesterday and the Dr. performed an inpromptu scan. Baby is well, we were able to see everything BUT the sex because his/her legs were clamped shut. We are going to try again January 22nd. I so wanted to be able to tell everyone the sex for Christmas...
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Haha yes by the time he came home from work he was over it, thank goodness! Aw that's so sweet! I'm sure she is definitely going to get spoiled :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Mrs_P
Dreaming - sorry that you didn't hear pink but at least he is healthy.
Kels - sorry you didn't get to see a potty shot.
Sorry you didn't hear pink Dreaming but I am so very pleased that your little one is healthy. Give yourself some time and don't be too hard on yourself if you have a little cry. A loss of a dream is tough no matter what. Sending my love xQuote:
Originally Posted by dreamingpink77
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I could have written this myself - we will not be finding out the sex either as i want thta little bit of hope right until the end plus a friend had a baby last week and was told at 16 weeks and 20 weeks it was a girl and she called me from hospital to say there was a mix up and she is coming home with a boy can i try and change some of her stuff for her before they get back !! Made me realise even more that it can still be wrong !!