Anyone swaying april/may?

Pickles--Sorry about your friend's baby. That happened to me...my best friend was preg with her girl after 3 boys the same time I was preg with boy#3. She had her baby just 4 days before me. Made my pregnancy rough but I was so happy to be having my baby. Then last year my SIL had a girl and named it the name I have always wanted for my girl. She said since I wasn't gonna use it she would. I cried for days and only DH and my sister knew how hurt I was but I got over it since she REALLY wanted a boy and now has 2 girls Buhahahah LOL! Praying for a pink bean in there!
P4P--Sorry AF showed up, I may sway with you again next month. this may sound really weird, but part of me thinks this miscarriage is a blessing. I so wanted to be pregnant that at this point I just want a healthy baby! I really think if I have another boy I will be so very excited. I had never had a MC and never knew how sad I could be over a loss when I was only 5 weeks along. Maybe I'll be super relaxed with my next sway since I really want to get preg again!
Uma--I haven't even started my diet again. Dh has this whole week off and we have so much planned. there's no way I can diet this week so I'm taking supps and then will go full force and try to lose about 5 pounds along the way. I think will just try to be a super vegetarian for the next several weeks!
Wishing--praying that's your pink bean in there!!!!! I think it is--my gut says it's your girl!!!!

Thanks girls! For some reason, I knew the next day after DTD that this wasnt our month. I just had a feeling!

Yes Wishing, I am thinking of switching to Replens this month! Hmm, I forgot about the Sylk!!! Did you do the lime douche or just Replens and Sylk? And did you just do finger replens to help keep pH down? I havent gotten to try out the Replens to see how it does with my pH, so I guess I'll have to do that quickly...as soon as AF goes back where she came from!!!

I really thought we would get pregnant the first try seeing as how we got pregnant right away with both boys! It must be the Rephresh, surely!

Oh yeah--I know I called this thread april/may swayers, but do you girls wanna stay on here so we can still find each other and follow our sways? Let me know if you all move over to another thread so I can find you!!!!!

P4P--everything I've read on ingender and here really makes me not believe in timing at all! I agree that you should stay on the diet and change your ph from the inside and use the creams as a lube but I think if you lower your VJ ph that much, you're really just killing all the guys....and gals LOL! And if you are totally missing O time then your chance of getting preg are so slim. I plan on doing the diet and losing some weight, use the replens as a lube and I will douche one-two hour before my attempt, then the next day to get rid of EWCM.( the only reason I will use douche is cause my mom always douched and had all girls--she looks back and says she thinks that is why she never had a boy) I will use frequent release so the sperm quality will be good and then DTD 2, 3, 1 day before O (Up to the first day of positive OPK) so I think I will end up with a 1-1 1/2 day cutoff.

Glittergirl- i cant believe your SIL named her girl the name you wanted, but most of all that she said she may as well use it as you never will, OMG, i so cant believe she said that. Im so sorry you had to go through that.

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Originally Posted by Three Gorgeous Pickles

Glittergirl- i cant believe your SIL named her girl the name you wanted, but most of all that she said she may as well use it as you never will, OMG, i so cant believe she said that. Im so sorry you had to go through that.

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OMG! I know...I can't believe that...as if the shop was closing & you weren't going to have any more kids. Man, I'm so sorry, GG! HUGS!

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Originally Posted by Glittergirl

P4P--everything I've read on ingender and here really makes me not believe in timing at all! I agree that you should stay on the diet and change your ph from the inside and use the creams as a lube but I think if you lower your VJ ph that much, you're really just killing all the guys....and gals LOL! And if you are totally missing O time then your chance of getting preg are so slim. I plan on doing the diet and losing some weight, use the replens as a lube and I will douche one-two hour before my attempt, then the next day to get rid of EWCM.( the only reason I will use douche is cause my mom always douched and had all girls--she looks back and says she thinks that is why she never had a boy) I will use frequent release so the sperm quality will be good and then DTD 2, 3, 1 day before O (Up to the first day of positive OPK) so I think I will end up with a 1-1 1/2 day cutoff.

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What type of douche did your mom use? LOL personal question...hope you don't mind me asking:) Your sway is close to mine...frequent release, sylk, replens, plus benadryl on the days leading up and through O.
And I have to say...I'm so sorry that your SIL stole your name:( How terrible.

Wow GG, thats pretty rotten of your SIL!! If I hadnt changed into a better person ;), I wouldve laid that "B" out!!!! Lol
Thats what Im thinking too GG, that the rephresh was killing them all! I havent read where anyone has used it swaying before and gotten pregnant....it seems to be a newer thing people on here are trying. So Im switching!! I guess Ill buy Replens AND Sylk,so I have both on hand. I was thinking about doing the douche as well....what kind of douche did you use? Im just praying the Replens doesnt make my pH go UP, because I havent been able to test that one out yet!

Oh and yes, I intend on staying on this thread with you guys!!! April, May,June...July....whatever, theyre all in the same vicinity!!! Lol

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Originally Posted by Glittergirl

Wishing--praying that's your pink bean in there!!!!! I think it is--my gut says it's your girl!!!!

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Thank you so much hunny what a lovley thing to say you made me well up a bit, bloody pregnancy hormones lol>
Sorry i dont post on here as much at the moment i still follow the thread and am keeping an eye on you all, had a rough few weeks with nausea and heartburn been feeling pretty sorry for myself. I knew to expect it you just kinda forget, i feel really miserable at the moment trying to snap out of it but feeling sick from when you get up till go to bed is not nice. So sorry for the rant ladies i feel really selfish moaning about it but hubby dosent quite understand so thought id get it all out on here lol.
P4P i used replens about an hour before my attempt and a finger amount everyother day before that. I also put a tiny bit at the entrance 5 mins after. I used sylk as a lube when we bd and i really did need it TMI!! I didnt use the lime douche as tried it the month before and it gave me a slight infection, also i used the same cut off so thought maybe i killed all the little swimmers.

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Originally Posted by praying4princess

Oh and yes, I intend on staying on this thread with you guys!!! April, May,June...July....whatever, theyre all in the same vicinity!!! Lol

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Me too! I had joined the June Swayers as well but I post here most often.

Wishing - Vent away, Mama. No one knows how rough m/s can be unless you've been through it. I have a reaaaaally tough time w/it and I know P4P does too. I hope the m/s starts to subside soon...When I get it, even sitting at the PC is too rough. And don't get me started on those preggy hormones! Those are the worst! Sending lots of PINK THOUGHTS your way. HUGS!


I don't know if we will actually TTC this go around...This is a bit off topic but has to do w/why we probably won't TTC right now.

A week ago yesterday, DH had to put his 16 yr old pup to sleep. It was so rough on all of us and we just felt awful. Then yesterday, while I was out, DH let our two remaining dogs outside (it was 94 degrees out). I came home and asked where the dogs were and we rushed outside...One dog was at the door panting, the other was laying in the sun on the grass, lifeless. We brought the sickest dog in and as soon as I called his name, he tried to lift up his head but then died right there in my arms. DH lost it and just feel so terrible. He keeps asking me to forgive him and I told him I don't blame him at all. The 16 yr old who was put to sleep a week ago always barks to remind DH to let them in but she was not here to do so and DH got wrapped up w/ DS#1 who had a potty training accident. A week ago, we had 3 dogs, now just one. We are depressed beyond belief and completely horrified. I don't think my body even wants to ovulate even if we did DTD which won't happen anytime soon. I think we'll just have to wait until next round to start. Sorry to go off topic...Just wanted to let you guys know I'm out this round and I may be away for a bit.