Congrats Boyz!!!!! Enjoy every minute with her and your loved ones! Can't wait for your vbac story...
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Congrats Boyz!!!!! Enjoy every minute with her and your loved ones! Can't wait for your vbac story...
Congrats Boyz ♡♡
And thanks for asking Taytum. I was in another round of prelabor for almost 48 hours, but didn't go in since it didn't pick up. My midwife did a sweep yesterday, and even had thought I had a slow leak of amniotic fluid (but I didn't :/), so I'm just wrestling with the fact that I'll probably end up being induced despite all of this stuff lining up beforehand...
Between this and how unsupportive my SO has been, I don't know how I can ever do this again. I feel like I'll never get my boy and can't imagine wanting this girl. Every day I wish this wasn't real.
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Oh Hun :( please, trust me when I say that your heart will start to heal as soon as you see her and hold her and smell her.... I still remember that first rush of love like it was yesterday.... You will see that she is your child created by your love. I'm not saying the GD will disappear overnight but wether you feel the love hit you like a truck or if it is more of a slow burn, you WILL feel the love, I promise :) GD in pegnancy is the worst (I know, I have been there BADLEY twice) but it does start to subside. Nature is very clever and all of these beautiful babies have a way of endearing themselves to us, and before you know it, the first thing on your mind in the morning and before you go to bed at night will be her (in a good way!) you are on the home stretch. Stay strong Hun and trust your mama instinct. You will get through this. Sending many hugs xxxx
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Originally Posted by Kittybear
I'm just coming to terms with how psychologically difficult pregnancy has been. I was feeling so pleasantly inclined towards this little one because I was having a relatively smooth third trimester, I was "surprising" all of my midwife's office with how things seem to be progressing so well for a FTM, etc.
Now with the impending feeling of "failure" to need induction (especially since they don't want me going too far past my EDD because of a few different hormonal issue worries), I'm right back to just deep resentment.
And I hate to say it, but my SO has been so awful. He's so excited for the baby, but focuses so much on the baby that I feel completely forgotten as I'm sitting in pain because the baby's so low that my hips don't work right, etc. etc. I'm obsessing and doing so much work for optimal baby positioning, getting the house ready, etc., and I get yelled at if I get even a little emotional :(
Throwaway the last days are the worst dear, its very normal to feel this way, especially when suffering from GD... I hope it will be over soon and you'll start bonding with your little baby and forgetting all the negative feelings!
Boyz she is beautiful! I am so happy for you.
Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!
Congrats Boyz on your princess! She's perfect - can't wait to hear all about it! [emoji177]
Throwaway - I'm so sorry SO is forgetting you. I feel like my DH was so excited about the baby and he couldn't relate to how I was feeling. But he was always supportive - I hope your SO comes around.
I hope you don't feel like a failure. My BFF was induced with her daughter in February and it sounds like it's common with FTM. After having an early baby, I wish I would have gone full term. We worried so much about him being early and the nurses were really scaring us and against anyone coming to visit us since he was early. So instead of celebrating with family and friends we sat in the dark hospital room just the three of us. It was so hard. Your little girl is going to be perfect!
Also, the first two weeks after having him home I WISHED I was still pregnant again. It was easier than a newborn. Adjusting to our new life was rough the first few weeks. [emoji17]
I agree - those first moments are so magical and you'll know you're her mommy. I think right now it's a combination of your feelings about still being pregnant, your SO and GD. Hang in there, lots of love to you! ❤️
Successful blue sway in May of 2016! Thanks so much Gender Dreaming! [emoji170]
Boyz ! She is just perfect !! Congratulations 🎀
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TP i am sorry ur having a hard time but it will be over soon just let mature take its course. Baby will come when its ready.
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Congrats boyz!! She is absolutely gorgeous!!!xxx
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