Belle, I'm with you...I announced with much excitement & love for those having their desired gender or a little girl--even though it was really hard for me to buy those things. It's not that I'm fishing for a congrats from his sister, I'd just like to be ALLOWED to be excited. I wrote a blog about a year ago where I shared my pain about not having a daughter & all the hurtful comments people say to us. So, I thought she'd at least feel better knowing that I'd suffered too...just in a different way? I don't know... anyway...