TTC Girl - January 2012

It is funny because I think the same thing....FR sways girl...as it depletes over time..is that what you think?
The only difference is that twice a day is overkill when DH is not used to it...I just think your body adjusts. A lot of men release and think nothing of it, so they need twice a day. My DH never ever releases....I believe him. So, last month when we bd and FR 9 times in 6 days,....well, it just wasn't the same! He was able to perform but barely. Does that make sense?
Anyone else contribute?

I also think abstaining sways girl.
Same reason...the boys die off first.

So, here is the funny part...DS 2 was a 2 day cut off and abstain. I still believe it...lol!

It is hard for me because we tried to get d/h to abstain and by the 6th day that was it he just cant do it.....So really we have no other choice but to f/r. I do think twice a day is over kill but i think twice a day every third day is good.

pinkin2011...do you think age matters?
I ask because you look so young and maybe younger dh should release more often. DH actually looked it up (as I said he was not keen on subsituting the real thing for hot water) and he said that the internet basically says your body responds to your needs. If DH releases a lot then I think he would have to do it more often as his body will replenish often. But, if DH does not release a lot then maybe a few releases do the same thing.
Just my theory. Next month, DH will not be doing tooooo much,....I want the spermies in me:)

How is it going?
When is your o day?

I just broke down and cried to DH about how badly I want this little girl, and in an effort to make me smile he said "I'd kiss your tears but we're not allowed to have salt." It worked, and I laughed. Just thought you all might enjoy that.

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Originally Posted by xokatietatie

I just broke down and cried to DH about how badly I want this little girl, and in an effort to make me smile he said "I'd kiss your tears but we're not allowed to have salt." It worked, and I laughed. Just thought you all might enjoy that.

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So cute Katie, Hang on to that one!!!!!

And remember, you are soooo young. It might not make you feel different right now as you desperately want your little girl, but I am 38 and feel the same way.
It will happen!!!!
Hang in there!
The salt cannot be that high!!!

KATIE
:kissy::hug2:

Well Lemon I was thinking the same thing the mens bodies would just keep working on new batches as soon as one is released.. OOHHHH i dont know i just hope that by the time i am ready for my attempt that 2 times in that one day of attempt is enough.. I am going to get him to release just once a day now until the 8th. I am due to o ( I think ) on the 9th or 10th but my opks are still not that negative.. so i think i may o a bit earlier.

I am 27 by the way and d/h is 29

awww Katie how sweet is your d/h!!!!! xx

Hello, You are young pinkin2011!!!
I think I meant that DH will replenish but the difference is in lowering the sperm count. If you release often your body will know that and replenish better. If you are not a fr then your body will not be as quick to keep them going.
Zanacal did FR twice a day bc DH already released once a day so she really want to change things and have him deplete even more.
So, maybe just do more than he does...but not overkill if he is not a FR.
Just my thoughts.....hopefully someone else can add in.
How many attempts are you doing?
Will you use rephresh or anything?

GOOD LUCK!

We're about the same age! I'm 26. ;)