Nahri- I just feel so happy that this could be my long awaited and prayed for girl! Still have that horrible niggle at the back of my mind saying don't rush ahead yet, could still be a boy! :sigh:
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Nahri- I just feel so happy that this could be my long awaited and prayed for girl! Still have that horrible niggle at the back of my mind saying don't rush ahead yet, could still be a boy! :sigh:
Loving all the sway results ladies congratulations
don't worry it's the same thing with all the boy sways. i haven't seen one boy swayer in the last 3 months say they are having another girl...i feel like i will be the first to break the streak. even though that's a completely irrational thought (someone else getting a boy doesn't affect my chance of one, obviously), it's a very common one to have.Quote:
Originally Posted by happy1981
Thank you ladies for your support!!! I've kept myself busy all weekend so haven't had much time to worry actually.
What I am most scared of is not actually having another boy, I'm scared of my own reaction to having another boy. I am scared I won't be able to handle it, become depressed and not feel like I want the baby. My best friend is pregnant too with her first, and even though I'm so happy for her I will be so jealous if she gets a girl and I get a boy. I know that sounds crazy but that's how I feel.
I'm trying every day to get used to the thought of having another boy and that I will be a boy mom, but my mind just doesn't seem to accept it!
Time will tell and at least I will have more than half of the pregnancy to work on the GD before the baby arrives!
Missxo congratulations! I'm so excited and happy for you!
That's exactly how I think when people have girls, I get boys lolQuote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
I feel sort of resigned to the fact I'm having another boy and will never have a girl. What I can't handle is other peoples reactions. I'm allowed to feel how I feel but other people don't have the right to say anything stupid or insensitive! I just want them to be happy for us and keep their opinions and comments to themselves. I'm going public next week so we'll see how we go!Quote:
Originally Posted by happy1981
Me+4- when is your next scan? Other people are what makes me feel worse. With DS2 it was really hard. When he was born tho nobody made anymore comments.
My DH has agreed to let me have an early gender scan after going on and on ;) so it's booked for sat the 7th of March!!! Scared is an understatement! I wanted to go alone but knew DH would be so sad if he wasn't there (as I would be shoe on other foot) just don't want to deal with gender disappointment again. It hurts so bad as you all know.
When I had my last boy and went public I put it on Facebook and it went like this .......I'm pregnant 24 weeks yes its a boy and yes I'm happy if you can't congratulate me don't say anything seen as all I got was oh no on my 4th son the response was amazing saying how insensitive people can be ........Quote:
Originally Posted by Me+4
We all go into having a baby excepting 50/50 chances of either gender and although we want a certain one doesn't mean we don't want or love the other with all that we are I found being defensive worked for me last time as I cried with my 4th as not one person other than my mom said congratulations to me
Ok so I had my nt scan today. Good results and baby looked heathy.
Unfortunately I think I saw a boy nub but I don't know if it's visible in these photos.
Please let me know what you think!Attachment 23743Attachment 23744
Happy- such cute pics! I'm not that great with nub guessing! I can see a nub but not sure if it's pink or blue. Fx it's pink tho!
Happy I can't see a clear nub sorry!.
Two more sleeps until my 20 week scan. Eeek
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Happy how far along are you? I'd lean pink from these shots.
Thank you belleboi! Baby measured 13+0 weeks exactly today!Quote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
Happy that nub looks girly to me and it's not early... I think girl. I hope i'm right!
Oh Linz I sure hope you're right too!Quote:
Originally Posted by Linzshine32
Happy looks girly honey congrats X
I'm no good with nub shots but you definitely have a cute bub :)
Happy post on babynub and ingender. Those ladies are really good
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Happy, wait and see what Nahri thinks, she''s got an eye for nubs.
Did you post in our u/s forum? We have some pros on this site!
oooh rough call on happy's only a partial nub. Looks girly based on what I can see but cant be 100%
Yes I did! Thanks!Quote:
Originally Posted by Adia
Looks girly happy
I book in today yay I'm excited as I've had nothing yet and I'm 13 weeks tomorrow, feelings like I'm finally getting the ball rolling
Thanks Linz, I have now and have gotten mostly girl guesses so far...Quote:
Originally Posted by Linzshine32
Thank you Nahri. Can you explain to me what you think is the nub? I'm not sure what to look at.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nahri
Also the shadows around the pelvic area makes me worried! Can they be part of a nun or would it be more clear?
Thanks!
Good luck :)Quote:
Originally Posted by angel-pink
Thank you for all the congrats :)
I had an OB visit yesterday, My OB is going to start doing crrvical measurements when I turn 18 weeks, than at 20 weeks ill have the Anatomy and another cervical check. Starting to feel more real now that I know whats in my belly and the more doctor appointments I am going to have. After my appointment DH, the kiddos and I went to a mall and did some baby shopping. It still doesnt feel real to buy girl stuff for our DD, kinda felt like a lie? Idk hopefully it will start feeling more real soon :)
All booked in its official NOW I have the paperwork lol
Ok so I've been scaring myself by looking at confirmed boy and girl nubs on internet as I'm rubbish at this guessing game. Most boy nubs look obvious boy nubs but Some boy nubs look really really girly (with no stacking either ) and they said they got mostly girl guesses but then their next ultrasound confirmed boy. Aaaggghhh!!! I so hope this doesn't happen to me!? It would be so unfair to get this close and give up my dream. :(
We see what we want to, I swear! I've been doing the same thing, poring over nubs online and I keep seeing ones that were boy at the nub and turned into girls later! lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Ugee
I swear this is driving me into a crazy person!!! Belleboi on an up note I have just noticed your due date is one day b4 mine :)
I know right! I'm doing the exact same thing and it's an emotional roller coaster! And my next scan isn't until April 2nd!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ugee
It's so hard happy isn't it. I bet everyone who has had their gender scan had exactly the same conversations we are having now! Just part of the process I guess. I just want to stop thinking about it but it consumes most of my thoughts and even my dreams :-/
Haha! Yes, my DH just told me I need to stop analyzing and look at the pictures because he thinks I'm obsessing, and I am! But I just can't stop either, I was having trouble focusing at work today because of this!
My DH only agreed to having an early gender scan to stop me obsessing....not worked tho! Although to him I will make out I'm not even thinking about it now. Such a big fat LIE! Lol!
Whereas I'm hoping I'm one of those people that goes for the next scan and they say " your nub guesses were wrong and you're actually having a girl!" I don't know whether to get the gender confirmed when I'm 16weeks or wait for my 20 week scan like "normal" people!Quote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
Well there is still hope for a girl! If it was me I would find out sooner than later, but Im not like normal people!Quote:
Originally Posted by Me+4
Hi ladies! So I had my 20 week scan today. Baby is looking healthy and.....
It's a GIRL!!! Can't believe it [emoji1]
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Congrats Sarah!!!!!