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Congratulations dreaming!
I had my 20 week scan today, no mistaking the boy bits, I said to the tech I think its a boy and my dh mentioned a gender scan and she said I wouldn't waste your money, essentially confirming my suspicions. I'm feeling so sad at the min, all I want is to give my dd a sister and I cant even do that.
Hope everybody else is well. Xxx
Hugs Mandy, sorry you didn't hear girl and that your daughter won't get her sister but I bet she absolutely adores her new brother when he arrives, xx
Congrats on your girl dreaming!
I'm sure your DD will love her little brother Mandy- Congrats!
Sorry you didn't hear girl Mandy. But congratulations on your Baby boy. I know I will be the same as you if I hear boy sad for my DD not to be getting a sister. I am sure she will love her new baby brother.
Thank you ladies. The tech didn't actually tell us gender and didn't actually look for it but to say to us about not wasting money on a gender scan when we both said we thought we saw boys bits says to me that she must have seen enough for her to know its a boy. I got upset and my dh was not amused about that. I'm thinking now I may as well just pay for a gender scan just to confirm it, hardly team green now anyway am I?
Mandy hun your dd will love the little bro. Atleast u have one princess there with u.
Dreaming congrats ��
Mandy, how many weeks along are you? Is it possible it could have been a leg or something else? Depending on how much gender scan is, I might do it to just ease my mind.
Ladies I need your help/advice - his morning I had a BM (I haven't had bad constipation, I usually still go at the time same every morning, just sometimes it's harder than others), and I thought I saw a little blood, but didn't think anything of it and I don't think I strained or anything too crazy. This morning then when I went to the bathroom later in the morning and wiped there was some blood. Not a lot, and none in the toilet, only after I wiped. When I did a quick check of my CM I noticed that it was still just white/creamy - no pink/red when I checked my finger or wiped it on toilet paper. Could this just be from the BM? Should I call my doctor or wait and see what happens the rest of the day?
Taytum~ if you checked your cm & it was normal, then I would assume it was from your bm..... If it makes you feel better then I would call the dr just to be sure :)
Congrats Dreaming!! :cheer::cheer:
I'm sorry Mandy.... Hugs
Congrats dreaminpink.
Thinkinpinkin no I took the clomid under my RE care.
Sorry Mandy. If it is a boy he will be the joy of your life and your daughter will still have a little brother to play with.
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Congrats dreamingpink!!! That's awesome! How exciting :)
Mandy, I'm sorry you're feeling sad. I'd probably do a gender scan anyway just to confirm, but don't go in expecting them to have gotten it wrong. With DS2 I had the technician say "I don't see any boy parts" so I was convinced she was insinuating a girl. Nope, she just really didn't see his boy parts which were very apparent at an elective gender u/s later that day. I was excited about a girl for about 2-3 hours, then when I saw my boy I was SO in love...definitely love at first sight (which honestly didn't even happen with my first!). I'm sorry if your DD doesn't get a sister, but whats most awesome is that you're giving your children siblings!
Hugs Mandy. I'm awol for the most part on this forum as I too heard boy and I'm struggling more than I thought I would. Xo
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Bless you hun, big hugs to you as well. I got so upset today as well, was crying and dh just didn't get it. I have a gender scan booked for tomorrow so just expecting to have them confirm boy. I'm so annoyed as well as I had just finished telling the tech that I didn't want to know, just for her to say that about the gender scan, as lovely as she was she should not have said anything like that. I hope you work out a way to get your dd hun, I have already decided that I will most likely try again if it is a boy, just got to convince dh, he is dead against having anymore currently.Quote:
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I'm 19 weeks now, I thought it may have been cord but for her to say not to waste money on a gender scan says to me that she thinks it was boy bits, she was not actively looking for gender (we have to have a separate scan for that in my hospital which we have to pay for) so for her to say that she must have been really confident.Quote:
Originally Posted by TaytumJ
I ditto what ash said re your cm and bm. Xxx
Don't give up hope Mandy, anything is possible
Especially if the Tech did not tell you the gender
If it will make your pregnancy journey more at peace I would recommend get the gender scan done. It will give you a chance to see your beautiful bubba again x
I'm 99% confident its boy #4 but I am having a gender scan tomorrow as at this point I feel I may as well just know, seeing as she pretty much told us anyway. I've had the conversation with my daughter and she was really grown up about it, she said she will be a bit sad if its a boy as she knows its our last baby and that she will never have a sister. But I'm already thinking about swaying again and including exercise next time.
I can't blame you for going back. I hope your tech was just being a knob and you have a beautiful dd cooking.Quote:
Originally Posted by mandyp85
Afm I AM going to get my dd. I'm now a dream member and have filled out forms for a consult with Dr potter. Due to my age and how much worse things could be in a year and a half, I am planning an embryo adoption. I just have to find a way I come up with the money and figure out how I can overcome the laws here, and manage to complete my pretesting And get meds prescribed.
Swaying again for me is no longer an option :(
Xo keep me posted on tomorrow's Scan.
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I hope she was too but I saw what looked like a willy several times so my only hope is that it was the cord we were seeing. I'm scared to sway again but have no option for ht being in the uk and there is no way we could afford to do it abroad, unless we get a big lottery win of course lol. I will update as soon as I get confirmation :-) good luck to you on your journey hun, I hope things go well for you. Xxx
Mandy are they not allowed to tell you gender when they are looking right at it? I've never had a scan and I'm in the US but we don't have specific scans just for gender. Sorry she wouldn't just tell you rrrr. Good luck tomorrow
Congrats dreaming! Got your pink! How many weeks are you?
Thank you - we will stay in touch for sure! Xo
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Crazy with technology I am 9 weeks and could find out next week if I wanted. Still debating if I want to go through the hassle to see on just to get blood work out the way and no its all covered. I usually don't see midwife till around 14 weeks when I start feeling better. Def. Wouldn't drag my butt to an ob's office right now. Feel like shit. Only a month more to go hopefully. Ugg first tris suck!
I'm 12 weeks and still sick - even with diclectin the end of the day is hard for me.
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Ladies. Here it is. Please give me your guesses!
Gorgeous baby babypink :). Glad your scan went well.
The first trimester will be over before you know it ladies. Hang in there xx
Thank you. Of course tech couldn't confirm but baby looked to be healthy and no concerns. I'm leaning towards boy, but wanted to make sure with everyone. Any guesses?
Thank you :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Atsaukina1
Just over 15 weeks
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Originally Posted by babypinkno3
Baby pink I would leane boy too
Well she pretty much did tell us but not in the exact words, just when we said we were sure we saw boy bits she said not to waste money on a gender scan, I took that to mean don't bother with one as you are right. Cant see what other way she would have meant it really. Thank you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Atsaukina1
Yes I would also lean boy baby pink. Will you try again if its baby boy 3? I always thought I wouldn't have anymore but now I'm in the position I am going to, as long as dh doesn't go to the vasectomy clinic lol.
They can tell that early? I thought it was 20+?Quote:
Originally Posted by DreamingPink2015
[QUOTE=mandyp85;764255]Well she pretty much did tell us but not in the exact words, just when we said we were sure we saw boy bits she said not to waste money on a gender scan, I took that to mean don't bother with one as you are right. Cant see what other way she would have meant it really. Thank you.
Are you in the US? Just wondering why you didn't ask and they didn't just tell you?
No not in the US I'm in England. The hospital I had my scan in just don't do gender at the anatomy scans. They will tell you to book in for gender scan at a hospital down the road if you want to find out and you have to pay for it. This is just the policy for this particular hospital, many others in England will tell gender at anatomy scan and do not charge.
My baby is most definitely a boy, I don't feel too bad about that right now but I will most probably sway again and sway harder next time.
It's interesting to see the care in different countries.
I'm with you sweetie! When this little guy is 3-4mo, I'm planning on LE Diet, cardio (walking DS2 in a stroller while wearing DS3 to a park to play), one attempt by BDing every 4 days, folic acid and fiber. That's it. No other supplements.Quote:
Originally Posted by mandyp85
I don't want to do a kitchen sink sway- I've seen too many opposites with those. I just don't want to take supplements this time- they messed with my fertility too much last time.
FX for you too- in the future [emoji6]!
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I feel like my emotions are getting the best of me - I started a new job this year (began in August) and one of my male coworkers had told me a few weeks ago his wife was pregnant again (they have three little boys). They had lost a little girl at birth a few years ago. He told me yesterday they got their panorama back and it's a little girl! I seriously cried for him; and I don't even know them!! I am just so happy for her (and I've never even met her! Lol). Little miracles. :)
Bright and early tomorrow for my first ever u/s! Lots of prayers!
I would hve cried too. We emotional women
Most likely not. I'm done at 3. I can't see myself with 4 kids, much less the possibility of 4 boys, but who knows. Never say never I guess.Quote:
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