Part 3: Due January, February and March 2019

TP at this point the only way to clearly see gender is to get a potty shot, i promise you none of my 4 confirmed-on-scan boys were obviously boys from any view other than the potty shot, i even felt hope for a girl each time not seeing boy parts as they scanned about in all other angles including stomach and front views etc but then BAM got underneath them and there it all was!! you are still 50/50 for this baby i promise you that :heart: cant believe your dh is still being like this :( xx

kelbear when do you find out sex for this baby? im so sorry your husband said that :heart: i have everything crossed for the placenta issue to resolve for you xx

TP and Kelbear, I am so sorry you are dealing with such shitty circumstances. I wish I had better advice to give! Are your husband's usually this shitty or just during pregnancy? Either way it isn't right and no one or person should have to deal with abuse.


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So DH was definitely shitty during my pregnancy with DD. But not like this, for sure.

But we've been together 10 years and he's honestly been shitty for most of them. Have you ever encountered someone that everyone likes, sort of the "lovable" asshole where there shit is a quirk? Because that's my husband. He's always been obnoxious with his beliefs to people, quick to make someone feel stupid -- but just has this guileless personality that makes you kind of just go, "Oh, that's just him." And I think I have been excusing this as "not wanting to change him" for so long that I missed that this was a form of abuse. There's definitely other stuff with him. A history of sexual abuse we did a lot of counseling to get over, though he still admits he never hurt me... I don't know. He's just an extremely passive aggressive man, who's so good at being passive aggressive that I've felt it's all me until recently.

OMG, TP! I am horrified for you and so sorry that type of abuse and behavior is the norm. No one should be treated that way by the people they love. Is staying somewhere for awhile an option for you?

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Should’ve said tp, not abc sorry ☹️ this makes me hurt for you. I’m so sorry you and kelbear both are going through this.


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That should’ve said tp, not abc.


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9 weeks and heartbeat confirmed! I got to see some kicking. So far all is well. Due to my age I'm going to get some genetic testing in a few weeks so in the next 2 to 4 weeks I hope more good news is to come.

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9 weeks and heartbeat confirmed! I got to see some kicking. So far all is well. Due to my age I'm going to get some genetic testing in a few weeks so in the next 2 to 4 weeks I hope more good news is to come.

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Wonderful to see some good news, Gafan! Can't wait to find out what you're having!

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Congrats gafan!

TP & Kel, I fully sympathize with you. I have been with my husband 14 years, married for 9. We have had a lot of ups and downs, and he is a total asshole sometimes. In 2015 he wanted a divorce and actually started seeing another woman from his job. Worst 6 months of my life, I was so ill from stress. He ended up coming back after learning the grass wasnt greener and lo and behold, I treated him a lot better and didnt just stare at my phone 24/7. I took him back with the this will not happen again speech. And I wouldnt, my heart couldnt handle it.
With Oops, he was a total piece of crap. He wanted me to get an abortion so badly. He would yell, try to get me to see things his way, threaten that Id be lucky if he stayed. Shut him up real fast when I told him to leave then, this babies life was more important to me. I did see his side, we had just downsized house, just started to enjoy life and spending alone time together with the boys being in school full time etc. However, I had an abortion many years ago when I was young... I almost chickened out then, but went through with it because my mom threatened to throw me out if she ever found out I was pregnant and I had nowhere else and little options at 17. I have never forgiven myself and to this day think about what could have been and still cry. I could never do it again. I feel guilty enough. Sometimes I wonder if having all boys and all special needs is my 'karma' for doing what I did, and feel like a horrible human for thinking that. Its rough all around.

I just want everyone to know, if youre suffering with spouse drama, GD, or anything... I am an open book and willing to listen to all. :heart:
Im on Facebook often Valerie Zeller (in North Carolina) if wanted.

You are all such strong women!!