I'm sorry about the BFN hun, this ttc bulls@!t messes with us sometimes, everything usually happens for a reason so maybe May is your BOY month and your body is holding out for that :)
Cinss-hopefully you stil get your BFP :)
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POP- im sorry for the bfn...:( Please don't get any more reading there is no way someone online can tell us when we get pregnant. They can guess but that's it. I had some free readings too and even paid for 2 I guess but really we make that baby , right?
is AF here or not yet? You sure is a bfn?
cinss- sorry about bfn , but no AF yet ! I hope someone get a bfp here! It's so sad our blue group is so small now...I think there are more ladies ttc , because they said hi here in GD but not posting here or more just lurking.:(
Also there is always very few post in the blue crew grads.
Hope I can hang out here .
hey dloui how do you do?
Pop, do you think you had a chemical? I'm really, really sorry--I thought for sure this was your month! As far as psychics--I had a ton of readings and only one got the month right. Several told me I would conceive in March, but I got pregnant in January. I know they can't all be right, but it is hard not to get your hopes up.
I know you will get pregnant soon; it WILL happen! Maybe all the stress of swaying and TTC is taking it's toll on you?
Cinss, don't give up yet! I looked at your chart, your temp is still up, and you don't have AF, so you still have a chance. Some times it takes a while for the BFP to show up!
Personally I think the readings are BS. I asked all of the ones that predicted April or earlier for an update...only 2 have responded so far...one to say she felt I would conceive in 2012 and gender was the same (yay...so spot on...sometime in the next 8 months!! Even I could be that accurate), the other has changed gender to a girl now and I will either conceive or get a BFP, or due date or give birth in July 2012 or July 2013....so sometime in the next 3-6 months. So if they can't be a little more accurate, how in the hell can they charge for this crap??
Cara is going to read for me again...but she said sometimes it's out by just a little and it could actually be May that I conceive...at least that is a specific month and she was still standing by her first prediction!!
Temp went up today a bit, still spotting and a BFN so must have been a chemical or a faulty test!!! I have decided I won't be temping or testing after O from now on. I will wait for the day before AF and if no spotting that day or sign of AF....I will test the next morning. I don't want to get my hopes up again and I think less obsessing would be better. I will use opk's and temp from after AF ends to 3 days after O and thats it.
Is this spotting normal for you? Strange your temp has gone back up any chance it could be implantation...
I would think if it was implantation that I would get a BFP today. Not normal for my temp to go back up at this point in my cycle....spotting was pink yesterday and brown today. If I did O last sunday I would expect AF to start sometime today....
Really we dont know exactly when O occurs so it is possible that it is implantation hey? I remember this pregnancy when I had cramping right when I suspected implantation it took another good 3 days for a very faint bfp..