Rosie, I'm so sorry to hear that. It makes me cry. Big hugs and praying....
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Rosie, I'm so sorry to hear that. It makes me cry. Big hugs and praying....
Oh no Rosie, this is terrible news. I'm so, so, sorry. I can't even imagine what you are going through. (((HUGS)))
I do have a question though-- why did they say to wait a whole year to TTC again? My best friend just went through a missed miscarriage and D&C at 12 weeks and the doctor said she only had to wait one cycle before TTC again (to make sure her lining is good). Even with molar pregnancies, I've read once you're HCG levels are back down to zero you are ok to try again. My best friend is now 2 weeks out from her D&C and her HCG levels as of a few days ago are at 112, down from 55,000. Are you in the U.S. or another country?
Sending you lots of healing vibes and positive thoughts.
Oh no Rosie!! I am so so sorry at your news. How heartbreaking, especially after everything you've already been though. And to have just told people and to now have to share this too. 😢
Don't be hard on yourself, you weren't to know any different and you have a right to be angry at the world! Take some time out to recover after your D&C both physically and emotionally and know you do have so much support here.
Sending you hugs, love and prayers. xxxx
I wish I could fix this for you Rosie:(
I am so so sad for you.
Get angry and tell us all here!
I know I'm not in your group but I was always checking in on you and I'll miss you:(
I know you need to wait cause there are risks with molar pg.
Rosie I'm so sorry!
Do you also get chemo? And do they keep you under check ups?
! I have no words. The worst case scenario you Could have had. My heart akes for you.
Rosie, I am floored that this has happened to you. How unbelievably cruel of the universe to throw this at you right after a miscarriage. Yes, you absolutely have permission to be angry at the world. Grieve, cry, scream, and do whatever you need to to heal from this. You deserved so much better. My heart broke reading your news. I was truly expecting to hear that it was nothing. Heal in your own time, but please come back to us when you're ready. We care about you here.
Rosie, I am so sorry that this is happening to you.
My thoughts are with you.
Be angry, cry and take all your time you need to be able to understand what happend.
You have wonderful children and after some time this sad experience will make you stronger and get your family even closer together...
Take your time and the next try you will be surely get a healthy sticky bean.
Big hug....
Rosie honey I know how bad you wanted this and how much effort you put in, im so sorry this is happening to you!! Be mad at the universe I would be too!! Ditto what essence said about hcg levels maybe get a second opinion from another doctor when you are up to it! I feel for you honey XXX
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Rosie I'm so so so sorry! That is such devastating news 😔 sending lots of hugs and prayers ur way xx
Rosie I am still in shock that this has happened to you I'm really going to miss you on this thread I really hope you look after yourself and make sure you get extra big hugs from those three little boys in your life Take care of yourself and your dh I hope to cross paths with you again on a thread here in the future xx
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Oh Rosie I am ever ever so sorry. Thinking of you so much now xx
Rosie, I am so incredibly sorry for what you're going through! That is such a kick in the ass and you should be pissed at the world. How dare the universe do this to you! Get all the anger out, and then go love on your boys. I hope DH can offer you the support you need. We're all thinking about you and hope you'll come back and visit us again once you've had time to process your feelings and all.
Also, I read that a partial is handled differently from a full, and that the standard recommended wait time is 6 months, so I would maybe get a second opinion as a full year seems excessive. Also, if you google it, there are a lot of women who got pregnant earlier against doctor's recommendations and went on to have healthy pregnancies. I guess you just have to make sure your numbers get down to zero first to be safe. Of course, you should follow your heart on this one and do what makes you feel most comfortable. Good luck Rosie! We're all rooting for you!!
Oh gosh Rosie. I am devastated for you. That is ridiculously unfair. I am so, so sorry you are going through this :( Molar pregnancies are scary and I hope your doctor helps you through it and is reassuring for future pregnancy health (I know people do go on to have healthy pregnancies after a molar, it just take a little longer). I wish this weren't happening to you. I will miss you lots on here. Biggest hugs ever. Feel free to PM if you want to rant and rave. I understand how awful it is to have things completely out of your control and just want to hate everything in the world. Take care of yourself lady. Again, I'm just so sorry.
Omg rosie I am so sorry :*( I dont even know what to say, I just wanted to send hugs ur way.
We are all here for you Rosie! I'm so sorry for all you are going through!!! Sending all my love and support during this difficult time. xxxx
Aww, Rosie. We are going to miss you around here! Please do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself. Sending lots of hugs and love your way!
I'm just catching up. Rosie, I'm am heartbroken for you. I wish I had the power to change this or take the pain away. You feel whatever it is you need to feel, do whatever it is you need to do. I hope, in time, you find a way to begin healing. I am so very sorry for your loss. Hugs from me to you. Take very good care of yourself...
Angie
I've been thinking of you all day and last night Rosie. I hope you have a good support system around you. And feel free to cry, be sad, mad, or whatever you need to feel. We are all thinking of you on here.
Ladies you are all so very sweet. Thank you. Been a long hard day. I feel so much worse than with a miscarriage. I feel gross for growing a mass instead of a baby. It will take a while to move past this all. I'm terrified of the risk for cancer. It's 20%. Praying it doesn't happen to me.
On a brighter note I did go on vacation. ..they said I could wait for the d and c. It's been a good time. I hope everyone is feeling well...I will be thinking of all of you and will check back in on you all. I hope everyone will get their dream babies.
I am so so sorry to read this. Stay strong and hope you all get through this together xxxxx
Rosie, so glad to see ur update and thst you went on vacation. It's always nice to relax and take mind off of things ♡
,Attachment 20092Btw. My hubby is outta town so had to share with u ladies since we haven't shared our news with anyonr yet.
I had my first check up today and everything looks great. Baby measured right at 8 wk 4 days with a strong heartbeat of 167.
It was nice to get a peek at the little blob..I cried and cried lol
Cute little baby odd Congrats x
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Thanks daisymoo...I'm kinda hoping the ramzi theory is right in my case lol..I ovulated from left and my placenta is on left
That ramzi theory goes right over my head! I haven't a clue how it works But here's hoping you get your dream gender x
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Cute little baby, Odd!
I'm so sorry everyone I missed all of you all these days since I'm in holiday but now I'm trying to catch up again the great news I've read cause I have internet at the beach now.
Congrats to everyone! It's great to read positive. This makes me raise my hopes(sorry for my bad english).
Lala, I love your daughters name - Diella.
For boys I like Eric and Dominiq. Girls - Aida, Anastasia and Alessia.
So who did the blood test, can you tell me what s the minimum time you can make it? I mean, how many weeks...
Hi MyByC I did the panorama blood test and they say you can do it from 9 weeks. I did the test around 12 weeks (which I think makes it more accurate) It took about 10 days to get the results xox
Oh, Rosie! I am chocked to read what has happened to you! Just came in here after quite a long time and it's just heartbreaking to read you updates. I am so, so sorry for you and your family. I wish I had something wise to say that could be helpful, but no words seem to be enough. I hope you find a way to get through this and that you will recover in best possible way from this. A big hug!
I am also sorry for not having been active at all in this thread. I am now 12+0 and will do my NT-scan on monday. This time I have been so stressed about and afraid of chromosomal defects, loosing the baby and also being a bit nervous about gender, I have tried to focus on everything else but my pregnancy. Therefore, my visits here have been very few last weeks. By not reading or thinking much about it, I try to keep myself calmer.
I hope to be able to feel more relaxed (and active here) after seeing the baby on monday - hopefully alive and with all parts and chromosomes intact.
:wave: marika good luck for Monday FX its healthy first of all and you get some girly guesses thinking of you xxxx
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My 20 week is Monday! SOOOOO excited:-)
Just had some really light bleeding :-( Just this morning I was finally able to hear the heartbeat with my doppler, but then after the spotting, I can't seem to find it anymore. I'm sure it's nothing serious since it was very light and no cramping, and I'm not even 10 weeks yet, so the Doppler is not 100% anyway. Still... It worries me. Probably going to wait to call the doc until Monday though unless there is more bleeding, and will just try again later with the Doppler to hopefully ease my mind. The spotting has stopped and was truly very little, but I never had that with my first pregnancy, so it's still a little unsettling.
Fingers crossed all is ok crazycat. x
I had that too crazy cat about 2 weeks ago and it really freaked me out. It was very light but enough to convince me something was wrong. Everyone keeps telling me it's normal.
crazycat my friend just had some pink tinged discharge as well but docs said unless there is lots of bright red blood all was well. I'm sure everything is ok:-)
Hope all is okay crazycat, sounds normal but still worrying when its you x
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Hey crazycat, it sounds like something that Cld be normal but I totally understand the worry! I think I wld be the same. Hopefully it doesn't come back and you also get some reassurance from ur doctor on Monday. Just take it easy and try relax as much as you can xox
I decided to have an anatomy scan on the weekend to see if they wld confirm the gender at 15 weeks. I didn't tell the guy what we knew, and he confirmed it's all boy. Was pretty unreal seeing him on the 3D scan toohttp://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/08/03/nyrazaba.jpg
Crazycatcouple I know bleeding in early pregnancy is very common and I'm sure everything is perfect Try and rest up for the day and hope all goes well at the docs x
Oncue what a cute little man you have growing there! Congrats again!
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Thanks everyone. I'm feeling better about it all... The bleeding hasn't come back and this morning I was able to find the heartbeat again :-). I feel so much better now! I'm sure it was nothing to worry about, but when it's something new, we're bound to worry!
Oncue, what a great potty shot! I remember at our sneak peak for Lyra (we swayed on IG), she wasn't cooperating at all to get any face shots, but her butt was in the air and her legs were spread, lol. It was exactly what we were looking for of course, but the ultrasound tech felt bad we couldn't get any face shots and let us come back another day.
Crazycatcouple-glad you are feeling better and found the baby's heart beat again.
Oncue awesome potty shot!!!! Congrats!