Originally Posted by
srg09cag11
Hello all!
My NT scan went really well! I don't know whether you remember my story or not, but I have two older girls, and my third, a boy, had a very serious and complex heart defect that unfortunately led to his passing at 6 weeks old. This is our rainbow baby, and it's been less than a year since my boy was born. The scan showed four functioning heart chambers, which my boy didn't have, and no signs of Downs or anything like that.
The only downside for me is that the tech made an early gender guess, and based on what she was seeing and the "nub theory," this baby is pretty clearly yet another girl. I know that it's still early (12+3), and that I had to be prepared for another girl, but the disappointment has set in. I'm trying to get over my disappointment with the welcome news of a happy, healthy baby. My husband is just annoyed with me for being upset; he's thrilled with another girl, although he would have welcomed a boy too. Thanks for your understanding!