UK SMOG Wannabes - March

Indigo - congratulations! When he arrives it will be easier I promise you! I popped back to ig for the first time in ages last week and it made me feel sad to core. Partly because I spent years there ttcing which was sad times. Sad because some people I knew for years was still chasing the dream. Sad because a part of me will want a dd forever. You be sad because for every bad feeling you can find two more great reasons to have another little boy. Wait till i finally get out of my pjs and do the school run - no one will be feeling sorry for me with my three handsome kids I gaurantee it!

Hi all!

Love the name Ashton maybe :-) omg, breastfeeding at the begining is just so painful isnt it, i had tears at times but its fine now, just hang in there :-)

Congrats on your little boy indigo, hope you are feeling ok x x

Inglewood, wow your girls are doing well, great sizes!!

Kell, your ds is just gorgeous bless him!

Babymad, glad you had a nice time away, sorry to hear you are still suffering, roll on 10 weeks and you will be out in the sunshine pushing your new little boy in his pram :-))

Sunset, ah so please ds2 is home now, what an awful time for you all.

Deaks, i know what you mean, i never allowed myself to look at the pink things, good job really lol x

Wasn't eastenders sad tonight, poor heather :-( x

Hi petal nice to see you ;-) I have recorded it. Today is the first day I haven't cried with hormones or pain! Good god it's not easy! Plus it's like both dh and me have totally forgotten how to deal with newborns. Baby puked on dh just now and dh acted like it was red hot lava, k changed baby on the sofa without the change mat and he peed a pint over the sofa! Honestly we are clueless all over again!

Maybe, i do get sad wondering if ds3 will be our last baby, i would only have another if we done pgd but i cant see that ever happening!! Always got something more 'practical' to buy, sigh.
How are your big boys with their new brother, bet the adore him :-) My ds2 (he's 7) said to me in the car today that he has 2 special memories, his first was when he came home from nannies and met his baby brother for the first time and the other was when we went to lanzarote 5 years ago lol x

Lol, i know what you mean about forgetting, we have 7 years between ds2 and 3, but its also nice as its like having your first born all over again and i love getting to spend time with ds3 alone whilst my big boys are at school :-) x

I think I would do PDg if money was issue. Right now I can't have four kids fit into my three bed semi and I can't do PDg without the money I need to put down for a deposit. It's one or the other and being 38 next month I don't have much time left for either. Might have to asky mum for a loan. Never say never!

How sweet what your ds said about meeting his brother. It's nice having a bigger age gap sometimes. I was just thinking how sweet it will be at christmas with three kids getting excited. Lots of lovely things to come. First smile, first step, the first time they tell you they love you without prompting. Oh and the first night I don't get to bed after 1am! Zzzzz

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Originally Posted by indigoviolet

thanks ladies for thinking of me and sending me all those positive vibes. Of course, this is definitely a boy, I knew deep down it was but just had that teeny bit of hope....at moment feeling ok as dh being so supportive and seems to really understand how I feel. I really can't believe I'll be a mum of 3 boys, so so weird. I always used to see families of all boys and feel sorry for the mum, serves me right.

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HUGE hugs hun been thinking about you loads x glad dH is being so supportive it does take a while for it to sink in it may get harder before it gets easier x as for looking at mums of boys and feeling sorry for them SNAP even now i feel for them.....i worked with a lady who had 4 boys when i was pregnant with ds2 and my initial thought was WOW she was desperate for a girl....never thought that would be me :( HUGS lady

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Originally Posted by deaks66

ladies, just wandering how much you all suffered with morning sickness? I havent had much and what i did have seems to be disappearing...much like it did with my boys. Have you expereinced the same as with your other pregnancies ? inglewood/kell has yours been much different considering you are carrying a different gender?

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my ms this pregnancy was sky high much much worse than anything i have had before x so alas for me didnt mean F all x

oh and indigo your scan is on my birthday :D happy scan day for then :D

Morning ladies!!

Deaks, I had terrible M/s with ds2, but it was tons worse this time, but was told that was as it was a twin pg and possibly girls? so not quite sure??

Babymad, that's sweet that the boys get excited when you show them things, mine do too and ds2 would buy the whole of mothercare's toy section for them if he could! Another mum told me in a lovely way.......(she has 4 boys, 2 are twins) when I was pg with the twins (b4 I knew girls) that I should hope for boys as when a family has less girls then the mother is not the 'apple of everyones eye' as the wee girl will be fussed over, but if you have more boys, you will always be their no 1 'girl' and it's the best feeling ever. Took me a while to think about it, but since then a few other mums (with mixed families) have agreed that and said 'sometimes' that is so true and they would prob get alot more affection and attention if they were the only woman in the house. Every family is different, but now, in my family I am lucky and looked after well my all my men folks, but know that will change when the girls come as my side of the family is male dominated, these babies are 1st grand-daughters for my parents, they have 4 grand-sons. That's all fine by me, but do understand what the other mums meant and you will then the 'apple' of 5 men's lives..... for always! Hope all that made sense??