Oh 3boys that is just terrible honey! I am really praying for a speedy recovery for your MIL and yes may 2013 bring you blessings, joy, and prosperity!
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Thanks thats great to know a price to compare - I am near Gatwick so not far but might as well if not that much different in price use the lad i used before - its a bit scary to think i could know in 4 weeks time though !!!
This doesn't have to be your last. My BIL is 45 (he has 3) and his wife is 41 just had their first (her first) so it is possible. I am 37 and plan to have another after this LO, although we will have some medical assistance due to fertility problems. I wish we would have started a little earlier too! Just follow your heart.
I totally agree. I am so sorry you didn't hear girl, it has to be especially hard after how sure you were (that is how I was with ds3 - completely convinced he was a girl until the ultrasound proved otherwise) but brothers really are amazing. I was so upset when I found out that ds2 was a boy, but I would not change him to a girl for anything now. He and ds1 have the best relationship, it is so awesome.
Is anyone getting really bad headaches? I can't remember getting this before - think supposed to be a boy sign though??
Yo had one for four days last week paracetamol was no help only water helped
Oh yes, I never had headaches in my past pregnancies the way I'm suffering them now. I keep the tylenol handy!
Yes when I'm really tired and/or dehydrated (vomiting a lot). I try really hard to keep fluids up but even that's hard some days. Sometimes I can't keep water down but sipping ginger and lemon tea often stays down and helps.
Oh Violet, that's awful. This pregnancy was the mildest morning sickness I've had, though it didn't feel mild when I was in the thick of it. I really hope you're feeling much better very soon. Judging by your ticker, you've only got a few weeks left in the first trimester. I hope the second tri is much much much easier on you. Hang in there.
Ok so I'm off for my first u/s today
I'm sooo nervous.
I'm just hoping I can see a little heartbeat that will make me satisfied for now!
And hopefully make me less moody.... Anyone else super moody with the more preg they have had???
I feel like a insane maniac emotions all
Over the place!
Well
Bring on 1 pm :)
Good luck mummyof3!
I've been really moody with this baby and had head aches - only with this one though. Often feels like i have really bad pms
ok so i had my u/s today...abdominal could only see the sac and the silly u/s tech said well we cant confirm your pg when did u take pg test ME:over 2 weeks ago HIM: well uj might only be 4 weeks cos it shows up after 2...ME umm ok ( was just upset not thinking then later realised we are not pg at 2 weeks we are doing the deed to get pg!!!)
So i say can we do a transvag he says ok but we wont see anything...me im willing to take the risk lol
Surprise surprise we see a heart beating away 127bpm...So i got the short straw with the u/s tech today never had a prob before
ANYWAY my dates made me 6w2d does this still sound right to you ladies .....how early can u see h/b through transvag
the guy didnt even end up giuving me due date he still kept trying to say i was maybe 5 weeks agggghhhh why o why did i have to get this D H going away 2moro night and i thought this u/s would hold me out now im more than anything wanting to go somewhere else but no i cant for a couple of weeks!!!!
Thanks for listening
AND HAPPY NEW YEAR LADIES xxxx
Sorry to hear you had such a D H mummyof3boys. Congrats on seeing your baby and knowing that it's heart is beating. Good on you for insisting on the transvaginal and getting a closer look for peace of mind. I know what you mean with crappy u/s techs, I had a shocker with DS3's 12 week scan and I was almost crying. He kept saying how I was too fat to get a proper look and could I hold my fat out of the way. So rude, I wasn't even that big and I was pregnant which made what weight I was carrying on my tummy stick out further then norm. He wouldn't let me see the screen to see bub until he was happy that bub was the right size to check for measurements so I had to ask hubby if there was a baby on the screen and he got up me for being impatient. Was awful. Just try to shrug it off and at least you know that your baby is fine and I hope you have a better tech next time.
Mummyof3 sorry you had such a crappy us tech - cant believe you had to insist on transvag. They do that at our hospital on every scan now to check cervix etc and baby things they can't do normally and before a certain amount of weeks which I think is 11 they just do transvag. Violet - how rude of that tech - did you complain? I would have been horrified although I probably would have been rude back and had to point out that they were ugly or something! Am speechless at that - shouldn't matter what size you are and you certainly don't look large to me in your pic.
Got another headache but I think that's cos hubby has snored constantly through the night - wish we had a spare room lol!!!! He has been irritating me anyway this past two weeks but that maybe cos I am a touch moody although dont like to admit it to him!!!!!
Happy new year to everyone hope 2013 makes everyone's wishes come true xx
Happy New Year to all you lovely ladies! Hope 2013 brings us healthy, happy babies!
mummyof3boys i had early ultra sounds with all two of my babes, ds2 i was six weeks and they couldn't see a heart beat, they said it was touch and go as to whether they found it in the sixth week, that was transvaginal. The week later he had a proper heart beat.
This one i was 7 weeks plus 3, they said she measured six at the time (although dating that early is never accurate) but she had a heart beat and may dates turned out to be right at my 12 week cvs scan.
I think a heart beat is only visible between the latter part of week 6 and week 7 so its not very likely that you are only 5 weeks - heart doesn't start beating until the beginning of the 6th week from what i have read.
Hi again.... So after having the internal u/s yesterday afternoon I have woken up this morning after going to the bathroom and had blood when I wiped, like a decent amount but after that of cos I have been to the bathroom 1000 times there is the the tiniest bit each time I wipe... No cramps pain ect do u think it could just be from tranvaginal u/s????
I really hope so! X
I don't belong to this thread but wanted to say I think the spotting is due to the vaginal u/s you had. I've had the same thing happen to me in my past pregnancies and baby was fine.
Thanks!!! :))I no I can't change whatever's meant to happen anyway so just need to go with the flow.. Well try anyway
But yeah never ever bled with any of my preg that have been fine so just freaking out a bit! And to add to it going camping today with the family including mother in law bro inlaw his partner , friends and thier kids so sorta having a panic attack that here I will be bleeding having a miscarriage while camping:/
Wish I could get u/s before we went today but being NY day here everything's closed so will see how I go over today and if I'm still bleeding will try n find somewhere to go get one 2 Moro!
Thanks for listening makes me feel a bit better
And this is the sort of thing that really pushes GDesire away I just want a baby!!!!
Happy New Year Ladies, hope you all had a good one. Very quite for me, didn't even see 12 o'clock, would rather my sleep.
Mummyof3boys, so good you got to see baby and a strong HB but not a great experience. You would think in the job they are in they would be a bit more sensitive. I hope you have not had any more bleeding and can try and enjoy your time away.
Ladies, I too have been really moody and want to cry all the time. Yesterday I could have shouted at everyone all day. It was a really hard day and the MS has got a bit worst. I am back to work tomorrow so really hoping it will be OK. Also i am showing already so will need to hide it as much as possible. I am only 9 weeks, anyone else showing this early?
Happy new year ladies :) hope you all had a good one. X
LO123 check out the bump and toilet roll thread - im not quite 9 weeks yet and am mahoosive !!! Im in maternity leggings and tops already just cos they are baggy and hide the bump. I need to hide it until atleast 15 weeks which im thinking is now near on impossible !!
Happy New Years ladies!!!! We didn't make it till midnight but Ryder woke us up to celebrate at 3am with a fever :( I think his 2 year mollars are on their way!
Happy New Year!
I started showing early and told family earlier than I would have liked because of it.
I go for an NT scan with a MFM on the 8th and I am so excited! I'm sure that we will be able to see a nub!
Happy new year ladies! Hope 2013 will bring lots of wonderful things for you all. After two sick kids all over christmas and the family here things are slowly starting to get back to normal.
CVD- sorry you didn't hear pink...the u/s photos are super cute though.
3boys- I read your story....still can't believe they didn't give you a d&c. Hope everything is ok for you and you are slowly starting to feel alright again...give yourself some time to mourn the loss.
mummyof3boys- really hope everything will be ok...am sure bleeding was result of the exam. I had bleeding in the 6th week and they saw recently my placenta was lying low which is the probable cause. But still any sight of blood is terribly worrying. I still worry things could go wrong.
LO123- sorry to hear your MS is getting worse. Mine has got much better...just a bit in the afternoons...hitting the 14th week now. As for moodiness...I think mine is borderline depression! I get into such bad moods lately...find it very hard to pull myself out of it and snap of course very easily at those closest to me. I don't remember the mood being so bad in the last two, but with the illness and catering for the family over xmas maybe it was all a bit much. Also the time of year....dark, dull and cold all day and stuck in the kids...doesn't help the mood either! Also know that with each increasing week the chances of seeing the gender increase which also add to the anxiety as I have such a feeling another boy is on the way...am going to delay finding out for as long as possible to keep the dream alive! Am starting to show...but still in normal jeans and clothes thankfully. Probably down to not having putting on any weight...which is due to the ms for the first few months.
Happy new year everyone! Hope 2013 brings us all our dreams. X
Hey LMO!
So annoying you have to go back to work with awful MS! It is the pits huh! Hope you are not vomiting or gagging all day..
I too was showing at 9 weeks, and you know my situation.. When we announced my pregnancy people said 'What, you are only 12 weeks? We thought you might be 20' LOL.
Bet you can't wait for that scan huh! It's so exciting and reassuring!
Happy New Year to you, good luck on the job, rest up as much as possible at home. Hope DH is being good to you. XX
Happy happy New Year ladies!
I most certainly didn't make it to midnight - not a chance. However I was woken by the fireworks that sounded at 12am and seemed to be right outside my window, scared the crap out of me, lol.
Hope this year is a stunner for all. XX
Mum23boys, I will check it out. Nice to know others are showing also....
cvd, hope Ryder is better soon and that you don't catch anything.
Heidih, I too wonder if my moods are related to GD. This morning I woke up with this awful sinking feeling and I struggled to get out of bed. I know the feeling is related to me thinking this is a boy, I don't want to be sad about it but I am. The hard thing is my Mum says she really thinks it a girl. I don't want any false hope. I get mad at myself as I think my sway was not that great the month I fell and I blame myself now if it is not a girl. I really hope you hear girl and are feeling better soon. It is an awful place to be.
Maple, how are you doing? So far survived half the day at work and it is not going too bad. DH is away at present but back tomorrow so that is good. Hope you had a nice time away.
Hope everyone else is doing well.
I lost another angel baby! :( devastated .... Not sure I can go through this a 4th time I'm so glad I have my boys I can't imagine going through this 3 times and having no chn!
I just can't believe I've had 3 totally trouble 3 preg in a row to be followed by 3 losses
Oh hun. That's terrible news. So sorry to hear this!!