bec i am really sorry. hope to see you back soon..xoxo
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bec i am really sorry. hope to see you back soon..xoxo
Hi everyone. I just got a call from the Dr. about my 12 wk screening, and they said things are good. THe risk for Trisomy18 was something like 1:3000, and the risk for downs was 1:120 (which is good for my age).
I saw what I think was a girl nub at the scan, which really has me down. We were supposed to be team green, so I didn't get a nub shot to post. I am trying to come to terms with having yet another daughter. :(
Hi everyone. I just got a call from the Dr. about my 12 wk screening, and they said things are good. THe risk for Trisomy18 was something like 1:3000, and the risk for downs was 1:120 (which is good for my age).
I saw what I think was a girl nub at the scan, which really has me down. We were supposed to be team green, so I didn't get a nub shot to post. I am trying to come to terms with having yet another daughter. :(
Bec - I'm so very sorry for your loss, hun. xx
Hobbermittens - I'm glad that everything is looking good with your little one, hun. I wouldn't rule out a boy just yet. I was so sure I saw a girl nub with my son. I actually called up my DH and told him we were having a girl. I was so surprised when the doctor told me it was a boy. xx
I really hope this is the case for me! I can't imagine what an awesome feeling that would be.:awe::awe:Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy
Did you find out he was a boy at birth?
Glad results are good Hobbers x
No. I had a CVS and they asked me if I would like to know the gender when the results came back. I have tried team green before and it made my GD worse in a way, because I actually had hope that it could be a boy. I'm crossing everything I can for you Hobbemittens! :heart:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hobbermittens
Hobber I'm so glad that bean is looking healthy! FWIW I would NOT trust your nub view; I mean ... you saw what you saw, but really, you were early on right? Also I just worry that your fear might have biased you to see "girl" because you were so nervous about it. Maybe you're right, but there's also a very big MAYBE that you're wrong. FX that there's a little man growing away in there :)
FWIW I so badly wanted to be team green but like you I was just miserable over the not knowing, because I was sure it was a girl and I was crying anyway so ... I figured at least if I was going to be upset about it, I might as well know FOR SURE that it was DD3. Not saying you shouldn't stay team green though. My GD was really, really bad right before her delivery and I was wishing I didn't know, because I was so worried that it was going to ruin the L&D experience for me.
Anyhow ... FX you hear it's a boy whenever you do find out for sure. GD is a nightmare and I'd hate to see you have to go through it again :hugs:
Thanks Begonia. I can only hope that if it is a girl, I can be as happy as you in the end... your update about your baby girl and how happy you are after her birth really made my day.
I know swaying isn't 100%. I knew that going into it. But I had this stupid false sense of security going into it, since I had one son already... I guess there is a chance there could be a boy in there, but I think assuming it is a girl is really the best plan for me. If I get my hopes up, and it really is a girl, then I will just feel worse at the birth.
Thanks Foxy. I know what you mean about getting your hopes up. That's why I am assuming girl. I wish I didn't have a preference! I hate not being able to just enjoy being pregnant and loving this little baby growing in me just as a BABY, not as a possible disappointment. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy
Yep this is where I am now despite 100% boy guesses on every forum i go I am still thinking it can't be a boy and it must be a girl!Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
hobber-your scan was early so the nub is not even good to guess on.I wish you get a nub pic for us at least that was everyone could see it. Now it's just you think you saw a girl nub.
Hobber: Even if you seen a boy nub you would still wonder if it was a girl. Until I seen the goods I was still very sure that I was preggo with a girl.
ELP: I am always super happy after with a new baby too. I think new life is just so fascinating. We have chicks hatching on the farm and I am always so amazed. And growing a baby is just that much more fun.
Flava: When is your first appt? Maybe 3 more wks?
Another busy weekend, DH is taking half the children fishing and I am taking the younger half to finish up clothes shopping for them .....I hope. Thank goodness my mother loves to shop, but I know by the end of the day I am going to be pooped. And I looked at my ticker and realized I have less than 90 days until my due date!!!! That seems so short, but June seems so far away.
Hey guys! Look at all of your getting up there and close to your due dates! I hope you all are doing ok.
Hobbs, I totally agree with everyone, don't get down yet. Are you still not finding out?
wp- i think you do to much. No clue when i have appointment Im waiting for the insurance right now. Then I can call and make one.
Any good tips for m/s ? Tell me! I don't have it so bad so can't complain much but sure this is already enough to make me so grumpy.
And the cm omg...I though this will be a nice time with no tampon worries ect. But I have so much cm Im always wet and it's just getting more I have to buy panty liners now.hate this...
I used vitamin B6, 50 mg daily. Ginger tea can sometimes make you feel better.
Thanks for the kind words, everyone. :)
Flava, the thing that has helped my m/s is to not let myself get hungry, as well as snacking on salty/sugary stuff. Jelly Bellies help a lot, and sour patch kids! And salty chips.
B6 don't help me so I will stop taking it. Im going to try the candy next!
He is so cute ELP, congrats
(((hugs))) Bec, I am so sorry for your loss
More hugs and love Bec xxxxx
ELP, I finally tracked you and that gorgeous baby boy down :D Congratulations!!
I'm so sorry Bec x
i could really use some prayers ladies. im in preterm labor. im so scared. im dialted to 3cm and 100% effaced. the doctors and very nice and the nic -u has orders to prepare for a micro premie. i lost my daughter 2 years ago next week i can't lose my son too. im so scared. if anyone has extra prayers laying around my baby could sure use them.
oh no honey, I will definitely be praying for you and your babyQuote:
Originally Posted by girlmom
Thinking of you. I can't imagine how scared you must be xxQuote:
Originally Posted by girlmom
Thankyou all for your kind words. I know so many have been through this but I feel so alone. I have alot of support at home but I can't help but feel alone. Hopefully I will be back here in a few months though :)
Praying for you and your son girlmom xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Please KUP!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Originally Posted by Bec
OMG, So very scary .. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time :( xxxQuote:
Originally Posted by girlmom
((Hugs)) Hope to see you here very soon, Good luck hon xxxQuote:
Originally Posted by Bec
Hobber, I'm so glad to hear that everything is going well with your little baby.
Hi ladies,
I had an MRI scan a few days ago ..which unfortunately showed that my Placenta is still low. Doctors begin to worry about placenta accreta. I'm so very very scared ..She said that the placenta it 'MAY' still move up that's when the baby gets little bigger :(
MFC hope everything is ok?
5' I really hope everything will be okay :(
I'm sure it will be xxxxxxxxxxx
girlmom- hope everything will be ok and baby stay inside!
Bec-I hope you will be back soon!
fab- hope the placenta will move up .Don't be so scared you just need to take it easy. You will have a c/s anyway , right?