Originally Posted by
Kiesse
Ok so there is a couple of us in the 2ww then!
Ribbons i always knew with my others (4 Pregnancies) I have 2 boys and have had 2 terminations, Please do not judge me for that it was for personal reasons and a personal choice.
The first thing i noticed was around 6dpo was my nipples changed, i would get extra wee pimple like bumps around them. that was always my first giveaway everytime apart from my last pregnancy, actually i didnt know i was pregnant with the last, my partner actually came up and patted my tummy and joked and said when are ya due? and it got me thinking shit my period is late and took a test that night and sure enough i was. After a long talk we opted to terminate as I had only had surgery a week prior and the doctor advised us that there was a very very high chance that the baby would have problems and deformalities, we had 3 ultrasounds and all were abnormal so we opted to terminate for these reasons, i know it sounds selfish but it is what was best for our family at the time, after that i decided that i could never undergo another termination, it was so hard to deal with and I had counselling for about a year after.
I may have to check out that website,
Ribbons, what was you CM like in the tww? arrggh i just want it to be next week already!
I will be keeping busy, my baby is gonna be 4 on saturday! my stepson is 4 today! so we had Stepsons birthday party on sunday, my son will have his this coming saturday, I have really spoilt him sooo much! just having trouble deciding what kind of cake to do! he loves motorbikes but it will be so hard to attempt to do a bike cake! I want to make it extra special for him as its his first real birthday party where he will have friends over and not just family. His sperm donor (nmy ex hubby) is a dick and is not coming because my partner will be there. ex hubby lives in aussie and flyes home every 8 weeks for 2 weeks so he can see the kids, well thats what he says, he picks them up for an hour after school each day and then drops them back to me and will have them for 1 night (not even 24hours) on the weekend then have them one night the floowing weekend. i had an argument with him la few days ago about DS2 birthday as i had hired a hall to have it so him and his family wouldnt feel uncomfortable (as it would make them feel uncomfortable at my place) so hired a hall and he said he wouldnt come as my partner will be there, told him that it is not about him, me or my partner, told him he doesnt need to even look at my partner but can he please put our son first just for an hour but he wont, just proves just how selfish he is. arrgghh sorry i know off topic just neede to vent!
