ColdWater, can you take a look please?

Thank you. I have a scan in 15 days, not sure if I will update then or wait to share the news until the 20th scan. Going horse riding with my son now, couldn't have come at a better time. I'm sorry again for hurting people

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Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink

I think the vast majority of us understand your last point and those that don't should probably not hang out on a gender website!

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I'm sorry but just because i dont agree with what was said does not mean i have no right to be here.As i said i suffered GD so i hand on heart know what it feels like but having also lost 4 babies and ttc for a year to finally get a bfp ,i also know the other side to the coin. I dont use this site to pick battles and i have no intention to do so now, but i have every right to be here whether i agree or not agree with the statement.It was the comparison i was not agreeing with not the fact that Joannek is upset and hurt by comments.

Joannek as i said maybe it's time now to let it lie and enjoy your little girl. I just think a statement like that is no better to what you have said hurt you. I wish you well and hope you get 100% at your next scan.xx

Thank you irish mom. I know nobody knows because they aren't here but I'm truly sorry, I have been throwing up and shaking for days, and after reading how much I hurt people by my comment, I'm not coping very well. I am bawling and I'm trying to be strong for my boys because they can't understand why I'm so upset , but I am so so upset that I've hurt people, I feel sick. I've taken my comment away and as I said, I don't know what else I can do. If you want me to run in front of a truck I'll gladly do it because I'm struggling here. I hate disappointing people, I hate hurting people. But I've been hurt too. I can't imagine what it feels like to struggle with conceiving and have the pain of losing children. Nobody should experience one of those hells let alone two. You have every right to be here, I'm just going to stick with kind comments from now on, regardless of how hurt I am by others comments.

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I'm sorry but just because i dont agree with what was said does not mean i have no right to be here.As i said i suffered GD so i hand on heart know what it feels like but having also lost 4 babies and ttc for a year to finally get a bfp ,i also know the other side to the coin. I dont use this site to pick battles and i have no intention to do so now, but i have every right to be here whether i agree or not agree with the statement.It was the comparison i was not agreeing with not the fact that Joannek is upset and hurt by comments.

Joannek as i said maybe it's time now to let it lie and enjoy your little girl. I just think a statement like that is no better to what you have said hurt you. I wish you well and hope you get 100% at your next scan.xx

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I wasn't speaking of you! The other lady on the other site was whom I was referring to! Sorry for the confusion.

This whole Internet thing is not working lol. Too many misunderstandings and confusion

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I'm sorry but just because i dont agree with what was said does not mean i have no right to be here.As i said i suffered GD so i hand on heart know what it feels like but having also lost 4 babies and ttc for a year to finally get a bfp ,i also know the other side to the coin. I dont use this site to pick battles and i have no intention to do so now, but i have every right to be here whether i agree or not agree with the statement.It was the comparison i was not agreeing with not the fact that Joannek is upset and hurt by comments.

Joannek as i said maybe it's time now to let it lie and enjoy your little girl. I just think a statement like that is no better to what you have said hurt you. I wish you well and hope you get 100% at your next scan.xx

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Oh yes you have every right to be here xxxxxxx

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Thank you irish mom. I know nobody knows because they aren't here but I'm truly sorry, I have been throwing up and shaking for days, and after reading how much I hurt people by my comment, I'm not coping very well. I am bawling and I'm trying to be strong for my boys because they can't understand why I'm so upset , but I am so so upset that I've hurt people, I feel sick. I've taken my comment away and as I said, I don't know what else I can do. If you want me to run in front of a truck I'll gladly do it because I'm struggling here. I hate disappointing people, I hate hurting people. But I've been hurt too. I can't imagine what it feels like to struggle with conceiving and have the pain of losing children. Nobody should experience one of those hells let alone two. You have every right to be here, I'm just going to stick with kind comments from now on, regardless of how hurt I am by others comments.

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Turn the PC off for a few days or a week and have some time away to clear your mind xxxxxxxx You need to be calm for your little GIRL :D

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gotta add my 2 cents here. if you know its a girl and you want everyone to back off why do you keep posting and stressing and freaking out about every little comment? everyone said enjoy your pregnancy and let it go. so let it go. plus i didn't get the whole other story but you can't compair someone who can't even carry a child to boo hoo i didn't get a girl.

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I think what has happened is she has shared her news and a few people replied with some rather uncalled for replies (which has deep down affected J and put that doubt in her mind now).

J, I am going to logg off from this thread now xx

Joanna, I don´t know if you already did, but wouldn´t you like to join a due date buddies-thread on here?
That way we can continue to chat without focusing on the negative stuff:)