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at least if you give it your best shot you'll know that, if it's a little boy, he really wanted you to be his mummy very much to overcome all of those obstacles... and you won't have regrets wishing you'd done more
the diet IS awful and so is TTC, but it's only short-term in the scheme of things
Yeah you are right, I am just real down right now about it and i hope i can have a better out look on it by next month! If d/h was fully behind me also i would feel so much better but without his support makes it even worse
I'm nearly a week late for AF and accepted all my BFN's... And have done the diet half the time at the moment. :( Mind you, my weight is staying steady so not worried about the odd extra thing I've been having. If AF would just turn up I could feel ready to go again. Right now I feel blue and still cramping and waiting!
My DH said we could just continue like normal as it's still 50/50 but I told him, "Tough... I already bought everything again, so no!"
He laughed and said, "All right, I'll take my roots and do my releases!"
Ha...
I likely won't be as perfect this time, either... but we're only human and I'm at peace with another boy. I just want a baby! I'm drinking red raspberry leaf tea this time, though.
Come on, CD1....
Not to mention I already weighed under my pre-pregnancy and overall adult weight, anyway, before the diet! It was a mixture initially when I moved to the UK and ditched having a car (in the US my weight was always 135 or so, and when I moved here it went to around 120) and then after I had my son/breastfeeding, it went to 108 then steadied at 112 or 115.
Now it's 107... though while we were DTD last month it was 103!!! Grrr... but it was easily done.
The main thing is stress is never good for anyone... so I am going to get strict once AF comes. I'm still on the diet mostly but have had breakfast some days, brownies, and an egg or two this week. But not back heavy on cheese or anything, which was always my BFF pre-diet!
My CP is low, soft, and open. What does that even mean?! How confusing! No sign of
AF up there, either. Sigh.
Kraisy~ hope you dtd!! That's def positive. thats whats so nice about the digital OPK's theres no way to mess that up. Its a smiley or NOT! Hope you feel good about your attempt.
Pinkin~ Sorry your feeling down. I now its such a downer when you get a BFN. Its hard not to get our hopes up with an attempt, but the percentage of getting preggo each month WITHOUT swaying isn't so great. Like 20-30%, but if you don't attempt its 0%. I always say when your down is not time to make a decision- wait till your feeling a little better to decide. sometimes that even helps is not making a decision temporarily.
Suregena~ Hope AF comes soon...come on already AF!!!
Yay for your attempt... PINK PINK vibes being sent your way!!Quote:
Originally Posted by KnockYourBallsOff
Well its CD15, this am another +digital and internet OPK, my CB monitor says PEAK and my temp dropped to 97.73, so I guess I am Oing today maybe. I felt right ovary pains last night though, so maybe that is a good sign. We are DTD full speed now LOL!!!!
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suregena - if there's really no bean in there, I'm sending you af vibes. I'm sorry your body is confusing you so much!
I have high hopes your little girl is just stubborn and you will get a BFP soon!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by suregena